it seems like in bdsm the "rewards" and the "punishments" look very similar. this concerns me a great deal, because it points to a system of misaligned incentives. if we're not careful, it's even possible that a rational actor could deliberately violate regulations, because the penalties for rule violations are in fact incentivized. one shudders to think of the consequences of such an arrangement

oh... that can't possibly be pareto efficient... that's scary...

But only if you want to; to be very clear you don’t have to reblog it and are not getting a bad grade at Tumblr if you don’t

This is making me realize that as a child I assumed that worms emerge from the ground at some point in the early morning to make the phrase make sense

Here's a couple lesbian tips: use this move very rarely, using it too frequently diminishes the element of surprise, avoid doing it more than once per session. Next, use this move after you have already begun fooling around, having gone in for a deep kiss many times already, the hotter and heavier you both are, the better, she will be more turned on and surprised this way.

*looks at polyamorous triad* so which of you is the soldier and which is the poet and which is the king

starting a collection of stupid fucking tshirts that i think ilya would wear