"this suicidal person is so stupid for believing nobody will miss them. i remember people i haven't talked to in years lol"
ok but are you present in their life enough for them to realize that?
we can all say after the fact that we cared for our friend who committed or disappeared or whatever. we can even mean it when we say it. we can think about them. but did we ever act on it? did we ever even make them feel like we were there? "nobody would care if i disappeared" is not a literal phrase. of course they know that people would care. what the phrase conveys is a deep sense of alienation that can't be mended by implying stupidity on their part.















