#willomate

The internet may remember forever, but times change. The tulpamancy community–for better or worse–is a prime example of this fact. It would be hyperbolic to state that “THE TULPAMANCY COMMUNITY IS DYING” just as much as it would be downright incorrect. The truth, however, is that the community is shifting and information is less centralized than ever. With the loss of several larger Discord communities over the past few years and the general merging of tulpamancy with the wider plural community, I emphasize again the importance of keeping records. 

Keep your logs, guides, and other stuff backed up somewhere that can stand the test of time. Recording information in transient online spaces leads to the inevitable inaccessibility or deletion of said information when the space that contains it eventually goes kaput.

If guides are your thing, maintain backups of the ones that are important to you. The community runs on individual efforts, and sooner or later self-hosted resources may not be available. This community survives off of the perpetuation of word-of-mouth, made-with-love resources, and to lose them would be a travesty.

After years of using Reddit, Discord, and Tumblr to maintain the breadth of my plural-related writing I have made the choice to back up everything important to a personal Google Drive. I will also be revising my writings and making them available through a Rentry masterlist (which will hopefully be made available soon). In doing this, I hope to maintain a private drive that can serve as a digital anchor point while also offering an accessible and centralized space to access my writing in its entirety. 

THESE WERE THE ONLY ONES I COUL THINK OF BUT I REALLY WANT MORE GAHHHH

Tulpa is the oldest term, about fifteen years old now, and includes intentional and unintentional creations, usually as the result of repeated interactions and often meditation. It is most often a course from starting as a singlet and gaining one or more headmates. There's a lot of host centrist views commonly found in tulpa circles which we really don't like, it's almost always seen as psychological in origin instead of metaphysical or spiritual, and there's a strong culture of practice and growing in skills in vocality and independence.

Parogen was created as an alternative term to tulpa for (usually intentional) creation and due to the perceived cultural appropriation of the term tulpa. While most of ours aren't intentionally created, we do use this term because we're uncomfortable with the term tulpa - not because of appropriation concerns, but because the word tulpar is an extremely vulgar term in the main language of our paracosm. And while we didn't know what we were doing would create a headmate for most of ours, we did intentionally put effort into clearer vocality, cofronting, possession, imposition, and switching. Some people use parogen as an umbrella term for all kinds of created headmates, but we don't.

Willomancy is meant to be entirely separate from tulpamancy, and is more often used to create or stabilize headmates in preexisting systems than it is to create a system from scratch as a singlet.

hey, our partner is a willogenic/paromancy sys. we asked her this question and here’s what she said:

“you know, for us, more than anything what helps is spending time with each other. for me, the host, i try to make conscious efforts to include nev in almost everything. i’m always asking about her thoughts on stuff and trying to get her opinion. i ask her what she’s thinking in the current moment or like ask her to suggest what we should have for a snack or what kind of music we should work on. we also collaborate in the studio a lot, and working together helps us learn more about each other. so yeah, just keeping that dialogue constant and open is what helps us the most.”

we aren’t willogenic ourselves, but we do have this post on building individuality in headmates which might help even a willomate develop more into their own distinct person. here it is:

and as always, if anyone sees this who has any tips or advice on helping a willomate develop more, you are welcome and encouraged to share.

Ahoy!!!! Please refer to me as Sailor ^_^ (this blog is ran by our entire system but for the sake of convenience just call us as a whole Sailor as he made the blog (he's also the one who designed... EVERYTHING about the subsystem and the blog :sob:)

This is yet another BAH blog, the third one we've been a part of BUT WE WILL WORK ON IT!!!! I PROMISE!!!

We are a Willogenic+Imaginagenic system that is also addgenic ^^

NOTE: We are Anti Radqueer and Anti-Public-Darkship/Nuance-Ship(I support non-glorification/romanticization of those dynamics (in other words i like proper representation), however i believe that if you do it then you should do it privately or in adult only spaces), however we will not stop anyone from interacting as having a DNI just stresses us out more due to personal reasons (not that dnis are bad! we just can't handle having one!) ^^

Please note we might be a bit slow as we're still fairly inexperienced to this sort of thing, and we have the right to deny any request

Inbox List

What we will do:

Introjects from the Sourcelist (We specialize in fictives so they're generally easier for us to do ^^)

Masc/Neutral Aligned

Entomates/Brainmades/Non Fictives

Any type of Anthropomorphized character (if that makes sense)

Conceptives

Brainmades

What we will NOT do:

Any TransID or Paras (even nonharmful)

Factives (We don't know much about real people ^^)

Anything not on the sourcelist (Again, I'm so sorry, I really struggle with these)

Emergency packs as we don't work well under pressure,,

Songtives as I fear our music taste is limited and we don't know how they work anyways,,,

What we could probably do but might have less quality:

Feminine Aligned (I'm really sorry I just struggle with femininity ^^')

Full animals (We also tend to struggle with these, stuff like furries are allowed though)

Sourcelist (Bolded = Hyperfixation or extra knowledge):

Roblox (Including Roblox Myths, Regretevator, Forsaken, Dandy's World, A ___ Hangout Game, Bad Things, Let Him Go, ^_^/HWWHP, TRUD)

Minecraft/Minecraft Storymode (Season 1)

Lifesteal

FNAF (Games prior to Sister location)

Creepypastas

Eddsworld

Transfur Media (We separate it from the sexual aspect as the most popular example, changed, has a lot of nonsexual stuff in comparison to the mostly avoidable suggestive scenes ^^)

Slendytubbies

Pokemon (Before gen 7, mainly the humans(though we don't know anything about the anime), we can try doing the Pokemon but we WILL anthropomorphize them warrior cats style just be aware)

Pokepasta (The humans)

Minecraft Creepypasta/Args (including stuff like The Broken Script, Regect, Collinlock, and Monster Lover)

(^ we're saying these two separately since "creepypasta" by itself is kinda vague)

Countryhumans

Hazbin Hotel (We would do Helluva but we haven't watched it yet)

Among Us

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Names:

Pronouns:

Genders:

Ages:

Roles:

Orientation:

Species:

(OPTIONAL, add if you want these in your request!!)

Sign off/Emojis:

Extra:

Fronting Signs:

Fronting Triggers:

Typing Quirks:

You can request for anything from the main template to be removed from a pack aswell ^^

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#The Cargo's Delivery

Requested packs will be tagged with this!

#The Captain's Orders

Packs that weren't requested by anyone and were made by the blog's owner ^^

#The Fire is Out

Packs we were unable to finish due to one reason or another

#Order Canceled

Packs we wont do

heres something for syscringe- we're a DID system, traumagenic in origin (meaning, our plurality was caused by trauma). we're also in the process of creating 3 headmates, all of whom are pokemon.