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you know im starting to understand what this draft actually meant
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things that do NOT mean you're faking systemhood:
having a high alter count
having very little amnesia
having lots of introiects
using sign offs and decorating your system trackers
having comorbid disorders
not knowing whether you have osdd, pdid, did, etc
having dramatic switches
being cringe
not being diagnosed
being a teenager
not remembering trauma
experiencing ramcoa or oea
not having trauma
being elderly
being autistic
being transgender
being endogenic
being willogenic
having low alter count
having no amnesia
you dont use sign offs
having quick switches
been previously misdiagnosed
being self diagnosed
actually we CAN feel like our headmates are just some silly little fellas, thank you very much. we can romanticize our system, be proud to be plural, express ourselves loudly, and create hundreds of new members just because it’s fun!! we can be cringe and not give a damn what others think of the validity of our experience!! we can be happy to be a system and we can have as many fictives and roles and such we want!! we can exist on our own silly lil terms and that’s epic :3
In case you need them, here are some gentle reminders:
Your trauma is valid, no matter how "minor" others think it is.
Your origins are all valid; trauma isn't the only cause for a system's existence.
Persecutors are allowed to exist.
Protectors are allowed to make mistakes.
Caregivers are allowed to take breaks.
Littles are allowed to swear.
Hosts are allowed to step back.
It's okay for the smart sysmates to not know something.
It's okay for the tough ones to cry.
It's okay for the nice ones to stand up for themselves.
It's okay for the persecutors forgive.
It's okay for the protectors to let down their guard.
Anxiety holders are allowed to be calm.
Depression holders are allowed to feel happiness.
Mood boosters are allowed to be sad.
Anger holders are allowed to be happy
All of you are loved.
All of you are accepted on this page.
All of you deserve nice things.
All of you deserve to have good days.
You matter.
We love you. (platonically)
If you want to be a system you can be, this is your sign to become plural.
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A reminder~
Psst- these are also F2U and made by us <3
There's so much more of course, but too little time and space in one post to list off every single valid experience.. all plurality is valid, don't let anyone tell you otherwise
Is it a headmate? Is it a fragment? Is it a facet? Is it a persona? Am I subconsciously masking? Am I subconsciously/involuntarily otherlinking/copinglinking? Is it a kinshift? Is it a ’flicker? Is it age regression? Is it a mood? Is it impulsivity? Is it an intrusive thought that I’m reacting to? Is it genderfluidity? Is it pronoun/namefluidity?
Who knows! Who cares! I don’t need to stress about this, it doesn’t matter! It’s a mode that the “I” is in, the way I feel in that moment! And I will make a pluralkit/tupperbox/simplyplural for it so I can express myself and decide the rest later! Or never! These labels are a construct! Personhood itself is a construct! I don’t need to box myselves! I can just live!
Just wait until they find out i have 7 diagnosed disorders and one psychiatrist later identified 11 disorders as being in the severe range.
"Why werent these ppl around in the past? It must be a trend!"
Martha, they killed themselves or were abandoned in institutions to be tortured and labotomised. Before that they were possibly abandoned, neglected, or killed themselves. Before that they sterilised them. So SHUT THE FUCK UP!
