It is VITAL for Venus-Pluto placements (esp Venus conjunct / square Pluto) to stop prioritizing seeing the good in others, while simultaneously ignoring the very obvious red flags in them.

Something about your energy naturally draws the most unhinged people into your orb, and depending on how mature or "evolved" you are as a person, you might like this attention at first, but these people that are coming into your life are usually very karmic and are siphoning energy, time, and resources from you while you are willingly letting them.

No hate, no shade, and no judgment, but you are too damn nice, and that's the problem. And if you don't think that you are too nice, you struggle with boundaries or have in the past. You have to learn that is not your responsibility or obligation to fix people, and to mend anyone's wounds. You know how to bring in love and transformation into somebody's life, but you have to remember not to sacrifice yourself.

You will also naturally attract a lot of plutonian-like relationships where you could be prone to overgiving and under receiving. It's so important that when you enter a commitment, you take it slow so that people can really earn you and earn the best parts of you like your loyalty and your sexuality or your devotion, etc. people could try to control you, upset you, or use you and then blame you for having a problem with it🤷🏽‍♀️

Basically, stop giving more than you are receiving because with your placement(s), people will take and take and take and take. Crying about it or begging someone to change will never change the situation and eventually, Venus-pluto person will have to leave or accept things for what they are (don't ever do that).

Venus-pluto aspects NEED to develop a strong relationship with self-repect and leave when it's bad rather than waiting for it to be "good" again, otherwise people will smell your insecurities and use them directly against you in the worst ways.

Astro Observation: Obsessive Spouse Placements🙄

Heyy I don't think there's a single placement that automatically guarantees a possessive or obsessive spouse but there are definitely placements I see come up more often when intensity is part of the relationship dynamic.

🖤 Scorpio on the 7th house cusp 🖤 Pluto in the 7th house 🖤 7th house ruler in the 8th house 🖤 Strong Pluto aspects to Venus, Mars, Moon, or the 7th house ruler 🖤 Juno conjunct Pluto 🖤 Venus Pluto aspects 🖤 Moon Pluto aspects 🖤 Lilith Pluto contacts 🖤 Heavy Scorpio energy connected to relationship indicators

That said, there's a big difference between:

"I love you and don't want to lose you."

and

🚩 "I need to control you."

The first can show up as loyalty, protectiveness, and emotional investment. The second often has more to do with emotional maturity, boundaries, and life experiences than astrology alone

I've also noticed that many of the same placements people associate with obsession can just as easily manifest as deep commitment, devotion and transformative love when expressed in a healthy way

So if you see Pluto, Scorpio, or 8th house themes in relationship indicators, I wouldn't immediately assume the worst. Sometimes it simply means the connection is experienced very deeply 😅

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Venus trine Pluto transit is best used for s*x magic/manifestation. I don't make the rules.

(Mainly describing the love part of this placement)

🖤 Wanting to merge souls with someone. It can be sort of a primal feeling where you want to climb into their skin or fully consume them. A lot of aching and craving for the other.

🖤 It can be so intense that it could lead to obsession or possessiveness. Jealousy can feel engrossing, even if you aren't dating this person.

This can even show up as people becoming obsessed with you, like secret admirers or exes not being able to get over you. You have a lot of sex appeal and can appear mysterious and intriguing to others. Especially if you have strong Lilith influence.

🖤 Cannot do something casual because you will quickly get attached and get hurt lol.

Because Scorpio Venus can be expressed so physically, sex can feel very deep and vulnerable. You need that emotional connection or else it can feel boring or even invasive.

Sex in itself can feel like a ritual, you need to feel like you can open up completely to each other and be bare. Trust is extremely important because Scorpio Venus wants to go deep (lol) and come out transformed.

🖤 Leo Venus can be quite similar in a very "I want all your attention and time devoted to me all the time and no one else." Both can get jealous, paranoid and possessive if unhealed.

🖤 Feeling a lot of passion for crushes. It can come on very strong, from 0 to 100. Suddenly they become your whole world and it's hard not to think about them, often falling into limerence.

🖤 If you have Venus-Neptune aspects, especially hard ones, it can make things so much more intense. There is this layer of fog that can make things confusing and you may daydream a lot. You don't know how this other person feels about you so you could fill in the blanks and become consumed by delusions.

It can cause you to fall in love with the idea of this person rather than who they actually are. You create this version of them that loves you back (if unrequited) and has all the qualities of your dream partner. You ignore the red flags or might even ignore the contradictions.

You could even avoid getting close to this person because it would ruin the illusion.

🖤 A lot of staring and eye action. With Scorpio placements, eye contact can be extremely intense. You may feel like you're looking through someone's soul and it can feel very intimate. You may not like making eye contact with most people but if you like someone...you could pierce right through them with your gaze. Or on the other side of this, you could sneak a lot of glances at them and look away when they look back lol

🖤 Sometimes it's not so much an outward energy. You can sometimes lurk in the shadows, observing your love interest like they're your prey. You're constantly analysing what they're doing and checking to see if you can trust them or if it's worth moving forward. You put so much of yourself into your desires towards the other that you want to make sure that it's safe to dive in.

Some people with Scorpio Venus (particularly with Venus/Pluto, Venus/Neptune, or a harshly aspected Venus/7th house) purposely avoid relationships because it can be very heavy. You could have crushes but hide everything under the surface and not reveal anything. They could have no idea, meanwhile you're obsessed lol

𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑: 𝐄𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐲 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞, 𝐬𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐫/𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 + 𝐈’𝐦 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐨 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐚𝐥𝐭.

𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐄: 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐨𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐞𝐲 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭, 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐬𝐨 𝐢 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐚 𝐛𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞, 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭!.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐛𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.

𝐋𝐈𝐁𝐑𝐀 𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐂𝐄𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒, 𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒 𝐃𝐎𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐏𝐄𝐎𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐀 𝐒𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏𝐈𝐎 𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒 𝐎𝐑 𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒 𝐀𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐏𝐋𝐔𝐓𝐎 go through a drastic change of style/aesthetics at some points of their lives, and this needs to be studied, so for starters let’s take Halsey and Doja cat for example.

Both of them are 𝐋𝐈𝐁𝐑𝐀 𝐒𝐔𝐍𝐒 (nearly have the same ascendant too), and we all know how their debut music was like, their songs were quite light and feminine, with Halsey most famous track “Colors” and Doja’s “Candy.” You can see libra themes in these songs, flirting, crushes, even the albums were pink or blue which are the colors that represent Libra, there they explore the excitement of falling in love, basically anything Venusian related.

People with this specific combination in a chart, are bound to have a fateful transformation in the way they express themselves and style, especially in their art due to the daily exposure of Scorpio themes throughout their lives, heartbreak, trauma related to sex, deaths etc, most of them had troubled love stories and that’s the downfall of having a 𝐒𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏𝐈𝐎 𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒 𝐎𝐑 𝐏𝐋𝐔𝐓𝐎 𝐀𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒, especially Halsey, she got cheated on, miscarried basically went through hell and back.. after all of this they won’t be the same, and it’ll most likely take a bit dark turn from there, their femme fatale will come out sooner or later, we can see this in Halsey’s Album “if i can’t have love, i want power,” and doja’s “scarlet, paint the town red,” both of them nearly have the same aesthetics now, where they explore a new side of femininity, dark femininity.

That’s why their change now doesn’t surprise me, astrologically speaking it makes sense.

𝐁𝐚𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐲 𝐤𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐲𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐇𝐲𝐮𝐧𝐣𝐢𝐧, has these placements too, and i have a hunch that he’ll experience the same change as them!.

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for those who have venus/pluto natal aspects in their chart:

as someone with this placement, i get easily jealous/possessive in relationships, but I also notice that when im in a relationship, my partner also gets jealous/possessive, im pretty sure this is a typical thing for this aspect but still it’s just something I’ve observed. I’ve also notice that even friends, and my love ones also get possessive and protected over me too. can anyone with this aspect relate? 😭 When venus/Pluto natives are in love, they are in LOVE. Almost the stalkerish type too especially the harsh aspects (square, opposition) Would literally die for their lovers. Venus/pluto natives are just naturally charming and seductive without trying. These natives have the ability to transform their lovers life even after the relationship has ended, their ex lovers will always think of them. These natives love life can be so intense. I’ve also noticed that venus/Pluto natives (including myself) are very secretive when it comes to their love life and relationships in general, I guess it’s that Pluto influence. I also feel like the song “ifhy” by tyler the creator perfectly describes how a venus/pluto native may feel when in love Especially that one lyric in the song “when I hear your name I cannot stop cheezing, I love you so much that my heart stops beating.”