Jan 19, 2025
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It's okay. What they do doesn't have anything to do with you. Even if it does, what does it matter? You have a life to live.
But fathers cast a long shadow. Some outrun it, but others get caught, and then they act out their father's sins over and over, like mummers in a play, even when they have the best of intentions.
Lev Grossman, from The Bright Sword
People always talk about attachment styles—anxious vs. avoidant—and honestly, I’ve started to see it differently. Avoidant is attention deficit: pushing away, tuning out to feel safe. And anxious is hyperactivity: tuning in too much, trying to manage the disconnection. But neither of those are love styles—they’re trauma responses. And when they clash, it’s not really toxic… it’s just two unhealed people. Two scared kids on the playground, throwing emotional rocks at each other because there’s no “adult self” to step in.
It made me think about us. I don’t think we had that emotional adult around to help us out. And that really sucks, because I truly believe if we had the chance to heal our inner kids, we could’ve been that couple—the one that really makes it.
But from where things left off, I just haven’t seen the growth I was hoping for. And that makes me sad, because I know what I want now—I just can’t go back to the unhealed version. I stayed in that for a long time. And yeah, I loved all of it—the good, the bad, the messy—but it wasn’t healthy. We both deserve better. We deserve to show up as our best selves for each other.
I still have hope for that day. But if I never get to meet the healed version of you, just know I truly wish you peace, healing, and everything you’ve been searching for.
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his therapist is probably telling him what a beaten dog he is, how strong he must be for being the villian
Note to self: just like none would settle for something less than what they deserve, it's the other way around as well.
I remember that guy saying repeatedly every time I showed any act of kindness or affection that he doesn't deserve me.. I thought he was being nice but little did I know; he actually believed he doesn't deserve me, and eventually, he self-sabotaged the relationship.
I'm not saying that praising someone or showing gratitude is a red flag.. but it's important to notice the signs. Someone who thinks they deserve less, will fuck you over unconsciously and then go for what they think they truly deserve.
❤️ starter for @unheald | Wade & Spidey ❤️
❝Hey! It's you again. Twinsies!❞ As Wade spotted the familiar figure in a red uniform that matched his own (alright, there were some big differences, but still) he extended his fist out. ❝Please, please, please don't deny me a Wonder Twins fist-bump.❞ He pleaded, anticipation practically radiating off of him. ❝Don't leave me hanging — hehe! Get it, because you're Spider-Man. Wow, I didn't know if I'd see you again. I was starting to get the feeling that you were avoiding me.❞