Nobody, including people you dislike, should be institutionalized. There is no excuse for anyone to face psychiatric abuse!
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Nobody, including people you dislike, should be institutionalized. There is no excuse for anyone to face psychiatric abuse!

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i came across a video of a trans woman talking about how hypervisibility is not a privilege and how it has impacted her life, and i completely agreed with the video as i think there is a very incorrect assumption that attention is always positive, that is until she said she would prefer the invisibility that trans men deal with.Â
i left a longer comment but the gist of it was what i put at the end which was: “please keep talking about this, but while you do please do not make the grass on the other side seem greener, because it’s not, it’s just as dead and unwatered.”
from there i looked around the comment section to get an idea of the general consensus from people who viewed the video, and come across someone who tentatively identified as a cis man empathizing with this trans woman, which is a lovely thing to do except for the fact that what they were empathizing with was, incorrect. something they said stuck out to me particularly, they said “i would rather live in obscurity than actively being the target of every other form of violence. being in a history book does not sound like a good trade off to being...well, history.” now i believe this person was incredibly well intentioned, but sorely misinformed, and i’d like to share what i replied to them here, if only to help other trans men and mascs find the words when they come across this rhetoric.
i said: “you misunderstand what trans men face, perhaps because the better word for this is erasure, not invisibility. trans men's erasure looks like trans men being detransitioned through forced pregnancy and it never being spoken about in conversations about reproductive justice, it looks like one in two trans men experiencing sexual assault and yet again completely absent and when we do speak up about it i've watched people over and over again rush to silence us, it looks like being denied gynecological care and left to die, it looks like us having abnormally high rates of medical discrimination, it looks like us having very high rates of suicide attempts and low life satisfaction, it looks like us falling through the cracks and no one noticing. did you know there have been multiple trans men and mascs that have gone missing or been murdered in the last month? it looks like stonewall being kicked off by a police officer assaulting stormĂ© delarverie a black transmasculine person and his name being noticeably absent from discussions of that historical event. it looks like trans men and mascs being quietly tortured in an ice facility and the news barely making waves in community discussions. it looks like an elder trans woman when asked why we don't see older trans men saying with grief that they didn't make it, most of them died. it looks like trans men who have existed in history getting misgendered in death and remembered as women. it looks like us not being able to speak, travel or even leave our homes in more restrictive countries. it looks like us dying in mental institutions throughout history or forcefully married off to cis men to a lifetime of sexual assault. it looks like us being absent from discussions of abortion rights, fgm, child marriage, and so many other things that often hit us particularly hard. that is what trans men's erasure looks like. i don't say this to berate you, just to educate and inform. please be more mindful of speaking confidently on things you have information gaps on. wishing you well!”Â
now they liked my comment and i reiterate i believe they were well intentioned so let’s not go too hard on them in response to all of this. but i do think it’s important to push back on this rhetoric, kindly and in a measured sort of way, but push back nonetheless.Â
hypervisibility kills. erasure kills. there is no privilege in death. to make room for trans women to talk about their bodies being used as props while their internal landscape is disregarded entirely, the dehumanized result of hypervisibility, does not require a dismissal of the erasure that causes trans men to suffer as we fall, or perhaps more accurately put, are pushed, through the cracks.
Holy shit fuck this.
I get the point that they’re trying to make. I really do.
But please. Please stop.
Please stop pretending that men don’t experience psychiatric abuse. Please stop pretending that men don’t and have never experienced MSA/medical sexual abuse. Please stop. Fucking stop.
Especially since, yeah, some of the people complaining about being lonely as men are incels who use “I’m lonely” to mean “the women around me have standards and won’t tolerate my open misogyny”. But some are ND and experience compounding social isolation from that and expectations from men. You know, the primary targets of psychiatric abuse. The neurodivergent and Mad. I sent an anon about this once, but some level of psychiatric abuse being driven by misogyny doesn’t mean it affects NT women more than visibly ND/Mad men. That’s who you hurt when you openly mock the idea of a man being subjected to this because of “loneliness”. The incels don’t care.
I shouldn’t be sending asks when I’m nauseous from flashbacks earlier today. But that’s why I am. You don’t get to say this shit. Even if you’re trying to make a point about misogyny and misogyny in the medical/psychiatric field towards women experiencing loneliness. There are ways to do it without attacking people’s trauma.
This is androsaneism.
I really don't have anything to add. To pretend like men don't suffer medical/psychiatric abuse is so incredibly insensitive and cruel.
TW / child protective services and police brutality(?)
people calling cps on my family at 11 years old because i openly supported MAPs online which led to the cops foreefully taking me to a psych ward i had giant bruises all over my wrists upper arms and ankles due to them ripping me out of my bed and forcing cuffs on my hands and ankles
This is paramisia, police brutality, and psych abuse.
Fucking hell. What a disaster, I am so sorry you had that happen to you. If people were worried that you were supporting pro-contact MAPs, I'd understand the concern, but even that's absolutely not a justification for such aggression. They should have just brought up their concerns with your family instead of institutionalizing you.
So sad that the only thing that comes up when I google "anti-psychiatry" is like... antivaxxer scientologist moms. What the fuck
Yeah mental illness exists but mentally ill people shouldn't be tortured against their will. The institution of psychiatry allows for this. And it always has. Psychiatry was founded on this practice and the practice of "othering" normal human variation in behavior and personality.
I don't know why this is controversial. Probably because mentally ill people are a minority and there is constant fearmongering around our existence. Psychiatry promises to fix mental illness, and people really like that. So they don't look behind the curtain.

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People don’t see kids as people capable of understanding certain things. So they purposefully omit certain information.
When I was institutionalized, a lot of things were done to me. I don’t want to get into most of it because its difficult for me to remember.
But there is one small thing that’s a bit easier.
During one of my stays, they took me to a secluded room. They put gel on my head and stuck this thing on me. They told me I couldn’t take it off. Then they instructed me to lie down, turned off the lights, and told me I needed to sleep. I know now it was a sleep study of some kind. Nothing too bad, I know.
But I was never told what it was or what they were going to do before hand because I was a kid. I don’t remember most of it. I completely lost track of time. I can’t remember if it was during the day or night. I can’t remember if it was day or night when I left that room.
They never told me the results or informed me of anything. I still see the room sometimes in nightmares. Even knowing what it was and what had happened to me, it still messes with my head. I know it’s silly, given that it’s just a harmless sleep study.
But if they had just told me what they were doing and why, it wouldn’t have been so scary. But I was a kid, and I guess they thought it either wouldn’t matter or that I wouldn’t understand.
This is terrifying! Its not "silly" at all. Nobody, adult or minor, should be left uninformed of what's happening to them. Confusion with healthcare can be traumatic, it's no joke. Especially in an institution, which already has issues with ethical treatment!
Children deserve to know what's happening to them. People in general deserve to know what's happening to them. Leaving someone wondering can cause them to develop paranoia, wondering what's wrong with them, what doctors are planning with them, etc, etc.
I've seen so many stories about minors getting medical care that they aren't informed about, and the long-term trauma of it. If a child is going through something, tell them why!
It would have been so easy to just say "hey, so we're putting this on your head because it'll show the machine how well you're sleeping. Please don't take it off, and try and get some rest, and we can talk about your sleep after you wake up."
And then they could have asked you if there was anything you needed to sleep better, and provided it for you!
And then when you wake up, they could have just told you "Your sleep went great!" or "Your sleep was normal." or "Your sleep was strange, how do you feel?" or whatever other results they got!
-Ally (fae/faer, they/them)
Unintended Readings: An Overanalysis of the Parallels Between the Beaubier Twins and the Jefferis Brothers
Intro:
Aurora and Northstar the alter egos of Jeanne-Maire and Jean-Paul Beaubier, have one of the most intense and complicated relationships in comics. Especially when the set up for their dynamic is this:
You are 15 and your parents don't want you anymore.