#thatlove

...that Martin and Gina love...that Synclaire and Overton love...Max and Kyle...Khadijah and Scooter. All these couples are different in many ways as far as how they fell in love. The one thing that they have in common is they began a friendship. There are people that are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right and tend to rush into things just to say that they have a “boo” or they feel like the good Lord above has sent them there husband or wife. Yeaaaaah, sorry not sorry but it doesn’t work that. Love is like building a house-- the friendship aspect is the foundation for the start of every relationship-- no matter how it may start.

Speaking of how it starts, some relationships start off sexually to be honest, and they actually prosper. [Sometimes people…sometimes!!—it’s very rare.] But anyways, as I was saying, constructing a friendship gives you the opportunity to get to know one another creating a dynamic not only to see if you get along but to see what you have in common to build from the ground up. 

With any relationship there will be trials and tribulations, which is where your heart and your mind begin to struggle. I think we ALL know the struggle of making a decision to pursue or not to pursue, to mention it or not to mention, to stay and work it out or leave. This is part where the love that you wanted [like Nina and 'nem] and spoke into existence is something that you wanna keep.

We saw Martin and Gina break up on a bigger issue that started on something small (the ass statue lol) before getting back together? Darius and Nina broke up and made an attempt to move on to new people or exes. At the time it was easy-- if they are out of sight they are out of mind [we all know that's not true ]but the feelings led them back to one another and they wound up smooching in the rain. He may have fell DEEP [ya’ll know he did] for Synclaire but even Obie needed to establish a friendship which allowed him to get to know her as a woman AND as an individual

...that Nina and Darius love...that Martin and Gina love...that Synclaire and Overton love we all are wanting and praying for--there are levels to it. What levels are you taking or advising someone to do? What do you do when your head and heart struggle? When your house is built what are things, objects, and/or emotions are you going to fill the house with? Good things come to those who wait. I get advised everyday so I am passing the peas—there is someone out there for you. Stop kissing these frogs thinking that they are going to turn into a Prince. Stop worrying about trying to make the band and just play your instrument. Another thing I forgot to mention earlier—go with the flow and focus on the foundation, then you’ll start building to make your home which is the ultimate goal.

My jump into nothingness went well. They always say 'when you know, you know' I understand now.