#suggestive function

each p.type has a role function (8th function in mbti) and even though they actually really dislike it, they will try to act like they are competent with it, they don’t suck at it etc. this is a problem in the bedroom. for example estp trying to be funny or entp trying to rail somebody down will just turn them off. why? because:

each p.type has an anima/animus. this is the fourth function in mbti. suggestive or “dual-seeking” in socionics. types “need” this. instinctively.

so how to please enxps? first tell them “OMG, daddy! destroy me!” or something (since they are trying to prove you how se hard they can fuck you at the beginning) but gradually (depending on your communication skills), show them / tell them that you actually like cuddly grindy si sex instead of railing. slow them down, make them relax, take control even (without being bossy about it). so basically, bring them from fake unvalued se to valued and needed si.

therefore, guess what? inxj is the opposite of entp as you have to bring them from fake si to actually valued se! you gotta rail them. you can think this way too: ni doms are so detached and in their own simulation-world, you gotta be impactful to break the matrix. similarly, ne doms are thinking about possibilities how to make love to you but you make them just focus on the experience and chill.

this is fully theory now: but applying the logic to esxps, they should try to do ne shenanigans in the bed? they should suggest a bit “too creative” things trying to impress you? stupid jokes and shit? nicknames and whatever? so one should be like “muhaha you are so funny” first but then gradually bring them from that fake ne to meaninfulness of the experience which is ni. make them connect with you ni deeper? which, infjs and intjs will do perfectly?

and then ixfps trying to analyze the situation and what their partner thinks right now etc. with their ti role? which actually turns them off? so you gotta clearly “TE”ll them, what you think, what you want? so they won’t need to analyze? they are givers after all? they want to give you what you want and the more you like it, the more they like it?

this is going to be easy because i already explained how to manipulate intjs here.

when it comes to fi, entjs going to be much more gullible. socionics calls that function "suggestive" for a reason. jung called it "inferior" for a reason, right?

you don't even need to be patient and mysterious and philosophical or whatever with entjs. all you need to be is direct and ethical.

ethical = fi direct = se

hence their duals are isfps. but think about it. this is not something hard to emulate at all. directly tell them you find them attractive and you would like to known them better or something and look them in the eyes and make them believe you are serious and you are not fucking around. can't you imagine a badass isfp doing exactly that?

that's all! you don't even need half the "fi acting skills" to manipulate entjs compared to intjs.

we can easily compare entjs to intps when it comes to inferior function because where we argue intps are very easy to manipulate with low level fe skills, then entjs should be very easy to manipulate with low level fi skills. same thing with istps and estjs too. all these types has an inferior ethics function and very suggestible in that area.

none of the types will have ego, pride etc. when it comes to inferior function. all the types will be open to help when it comes to inferior function as a result.

inferior function will have low psychic energy and this will make people lazy about them.

why? because, for example, te business logic is the opposite of fi 1 on 1, customized ethics. so you hire an empathetic or at least sympathetic human resources girl to fire employees or warn them nicely when they are late to work. just, SOMEBODY! take care of this fi stuff! i will mess it up or at least it will cost me so much psychic energy to fire people in a nice way! i will look fake. te dom needs fi help this way. te dom KNOWS his or her fi is bad that way.

TE dom VALUES fi and very anti egoistical about it and therefore his or her fi open to SUGGESTIONS and help that way.

THIS OPENNESS, this modesty is the basis of dual-seeking concept in socionics.

they are not very different in real life, so fi doms help them open their own hearts too.

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