#stp ftm

So I use a STP Freely and the XL version of it from Tansguy supply Is pictured here:

This one is the uncut version. The shaft is about 4 inches long from the top, 3 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and outside is 4 inches.

This is the Freely XL cut version. The shaft is 5 inches from the top,4.5 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and the outer cup is 4 inches.

Tips for beginners

I'm going to be upfront and say that I'm still learning myself. I have peed with a few times successfully at home. I have not taken it in public yet nor have I used the STP boxers I got yet. . However, I have learned a lot from my trial and error and I want to pass those onto y'all.

To start with, try to find your urethra. I know it can be hard for some due to dysphoria but if you can, try to find it. Knowing where it is can be a big help. When you do find it, try to place the STP in a position where you will being peeing into the shaft rather then the funnel. The shaft is what your aiming for, the funnel is there to catch any pee that doesn't go down the shaft. If your position is too high, it'll spill over the top and the sides, if too low it'll spill from the back. Try to control how fast you're peeing. If you pee too fast, it'll fill up and spill. On some of them, you can cut the hole in which the peeing goes through bigger. The Freely XL has a bigger pee hole so if you pee fast, the XL might help.

I highly recommend starting in the shower naked because you'll pee on yourself and it's a pain to have to keep changing your pants and underwear. Make sure the water is off so you can feel where you're spilling from. Plus it's easier to clean up the mess since you just have to turn on the water. Once you feel confident in peeing the shower, you can move to the toilet naked. You should have a towel down in case you pee on yourself and the floor. Once you got it naked. Try it with boxers. Try to have ones that open in the front so you can poke the shaft through. Again, once you got it with boxers, try wearing both boxers and pants.

Once you're ready to go in public, try to wear dark pants in case you make a mess. Dark pants are the best at hiding wet spots. Also drink lots of water because it will dilute your pee and make it smell less like pee. In public you can start in a stall and work your way up to a urinal.

Packing with STP

STPs can be harder to pack with since they are stiffer than soft packers so they can hold their shape when you need to pee. There's a few ways to pack. I'll add a picture of the different packing ways but I'll also explain them. These apply to both soft packers and STPs.

Packing down is where you take the shaft of the STP and put it down over the balls. This way makes the biggest bulge so unless you're trying to make it really noticeable, i don't recommend this one.

Packing up is where you take the shaft and put it straight up. This way makes the bulge more manageable, but it can be a bit uncomfortable depending on what pants you're wearing.

Packing left/right is taking the shaft and putting it along your hip. I have never done this style, so I can't say if it's good or not.

You can use normal underwear with STPs, but they have to be tight to keep the packing position. I recommend get STP underwear because they have an o-right to keep the STP in place.

Cleaning

You want to keep STPs clean since you can get a UTI from it, and it can start to smell bad fast. If you're able, give it a quick rinse in the sink. If not, use toilet paper to get the outside and possibly the inside of it dry. You can put it on the top rack of your dishwasher or boil it to sanitize it. You can also use hot water and mild soap to clean it.

That's all the tips I know and learned from others. Good luck and happy pissing!

I'm going to start with just the normal packers since they would be easiest to start with.

Mr. Limpy: 3/5 from trans guy supply (cost: $15)

Mr. Limpy is most people's starter packer. It is cheap so it's good to get if you want to try packing. I like this one. It gives a decent bulge, even the small one. It gets a 3/5 because it is not very durable. If you want it to last a bit, you have to be careful. That being said, I do recomeed getting Mr. Limpy for a starter packer. It's a good starter peen, if you will.

2. Classic Silicone packer from AXOLOM: 4.5/5 (cost: $32 USD)

I'm using the photos from AXOLOM website since it's easier and would show it better than I can. I love this packer. It's a good solid packer. I'm taking off half a point because it is a bit hard to packer with at times. The balls are a bit big so it weighs it down. Depending on what you're using to pack with, you might need to readjust it during the day. The bulge can be a bit big, so if you want it on the bigger side, this is a great pick.

3. Au Naturel packer from AXOLOM; 5/5 ( cost:$29 USD)

This packer is the one I use the most. As you can see, the shaft is longer while the balls are smaller. It gives a really great bulge, not too big and not too small, and it's not awkward to pack with. The back of the packer is smooth making it rest against you in a comfy way. Sometimes it is a bit hard to pack with since it is slimmer, but it's nothing that bugs me enough to take a point off.

STPs

4. Freely STP from Trans Guy Supply 2/5 (cost:$45 USD)

I was really disappointed by this STP. Now, even though I'm giving it a bad review doesn't mean it's a bad STP. I've seen tons of other people who use and like it. It just doesn't work for me. It's a good STP if you can get it to work for you. I couldn't so I'm giving it 2/5. The silicone feels a bit thin on this STP. The bowl doesn't hold up well if you have big thighs like I do. If you pee fast, then you might want to stay away from it. I will say that it is easy to pack with, so that's a win for the Freely. The shaft wasn't long enough for me, but I don't think that's the fault of the STP, I think it's because my jeans are a big on me.

5. Freely XL from Trans Guy Supply 4.5/5 (cost: $50 USD)

I love this one. It works great for me. The shaft is long enough for me to use while wearing jeans, the hole is bigger so people who pee fast can use it without much worry of spilling, the bowl is more firm, and best of all, it works for people with big thighs like me. The only reason why this doesn't get a perfect 5/5 is because it is hard to pack with. STPs in general are hard to pack with because they are more firm than a soft packer. Since the XL is bigger, unless you want to look like you're bricked up all the time, you have to pack up or to the side. I pack up and it can be annoying. If I want to keep it in place, I have to wear a belt. However, ever since I got the XL, I've gotten a lot better at using a STP. I still get spills and overflow at times but I can mostly use it as long as I take my time.