Happy Monday everyone!

Ethier this outfit has me shook or I’m a little delirious from practicing my turns and practicing what appears to be fairy routines lol. Whatever it is, I’m here. And I’m doing great!

Once again I fell off the face of the earth. My schedule has been nuts this semester. To put things nicely: I’m writing too much. I’m running out of words to write. 

Yet I’m managed to make time for myself. I’ve been listening to a lot of audiobooks and I'd figure I’d tell you about one of the books in this post. It’s called The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck by Mark Manson. Let me tell you, I needed this book. I needed a reminder as to why I’m doing this major and to realize that it's okay to be uncertain. And it’s definitely okay to be uncomfortable. As a theatre major that’s something I’m used to. 

And honestly? Besides my inner circle, I don’t care what other people think. I got way too many problems to worry about other people’s opinions. I want people to remember what I contributed more than what I took, ya feel? That I do things that I value. Otherwise, what’s the point? 

I realize that all the current problems will only help me. Maybe inspire others to go for their dreams. Because thinking about all my past and current problems only help me become the best version of myself. Not the perfect person, just the best. 

Anyways, it’s nice to know that I might be able to take more advanced dance classes next semester. My hope is to be on pointe so we’ll see if that happens.

*crosses fingers*

I hope ya’ll have an awesome day. Stay awesome pawsome. (Don’t ask me why I say that, I just do lol).

“Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempt to escape the negative, to avoid it or quash it or silence it, only backfires. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is a struggle. The denial of failure is a failure...To try to avoid pain is to give too many fucks about pain. In contrast, if you’re able to not give a fuck about the pain, you become unstoppable."

Hey guys. It’s been a few days.

Sorry for my semi-inactivity. I’ve been super busy with little side projects. It’s kind of ridiculous. This includes learning painting techniques and sewing.

 Basically things that a retired person does. I’m not even kidding.

In good news, I’m glad that West Palm Beach and Tampa were great. They look like great places to be. Plus Miami City Ballet’s in Florida which is where I binged watched this online reality series. I’ll link it down below if ya’ll are interested.

Honestly though it was a relief to see Mars onstage again. I missed it. I missed seeing real-time photos and moments. The freedom off that man’s face revived my belief in the world again. It was awesome to see. That’s me when I do theatre and dance. Like an idiot. When I think no one’s watching. 

Okay I’m talking about me too much. I will say this though: It made this theatre kid smile. Really,  really big.

I hope ya’ll have a great day! I hope you guys enjoy the non-Mars photo. I went on a photography spree and figured this was more original than see a Jared edit. Plus I want to save those for later posts ya feel?

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“There’s Nothing Holding Me Back” by Shawn Mendes

This photo describes my life: upside down. I feel like this is a lot of people’s perception though. I’ve learned to appreciate it though. It’s helped me develop who I am as a human being. It makes me feel like a little kid all over again.

That’s why I love photography so much. It has the ability to communicate to the world one person’s perspective to millions. Yes it is subjective but that’s the hope.

Yes, I don’t have a Jared post because I like to keep the good ones for later. Especially when the new album comes. So for now it’s stuff I take on my DSLR. Hopefully it’s not too bad to look at hahaaha.

Have a great Friday and weekend.

I also made a new video. Hopefully it’s not too bad. I didn’t burn the place down. Jared would have done that hahahaa.

Happy Friday family!

Today I thought I’d give ya’ll some advice relating to weight loss. This post not Mars related but I think Jared would be proud in me spreading the wealth. Cause we all want to be eternal vampires, right?

I know this is a huge topic but it’s one that’s important. It’s something that surrounds my peers and the negative connotations it brings frustrates me.  I want to say that I am not a certified doctor but this is just advice.

Yes I lost a significant amount of weight in high school...but it wasn’t the way one should lose weight. There was a crazy amount of restriction and emotional challenges I was going through. And I don’t want that to be the case for any of you. 

Without further ado here it is:

1. Listen to your body. 

This sounds stupid but it’s true. Your body doesn’t lie to you. It will always lead down the path you were meant to be on. People spend so much time in their heads that they forget about how they feel.

2. Eat Plants, Cut Out Oil, Consume Less Animal Products, and Stay Hydrated

The whole “protein” thing is ridiculous and should be avoided at all costs. Yes you may have your beans and faux meats but animal products are incredibly detrimental to your health. Literally. Know that all plants have protein. It’s the fiber that everyone seems to downplay.

Here’s are a few resources to explain my point:

https://veganrabbit.com/the-issues/torture-and-infanticide-why-dairy-is-bad/

http://nutritionstudies.org/12-frightening-facts-milk/

http://www.vegsource.com/news/2009/12/the-perils-of-dairy-video.html

3. Avoid Fad “Diets”

I swear this is the pit fall of almost everyone. This is what I followed and idolized in middle school and part of high school and it almost destroyed my entire being. I never felt like I was good enough. It amplified the voices in my head saying “you’re not good enough. You’ll never make it.”

If anything they’re out for your money and time. So it’s best to spend and invest it in something that’s sustainable.

4. Do Your Research

Yes this is when doing your homework is vital. Not only does it keep you on track but it keeps your moral compass in balance. 

There are some great resources out there besides PETA. Some YouTubers I follow are @highcarbhannah @vegsource @ninaandrandanelson @sweetsimplevegan @plantifulsoul. They all preach not only love and acceptance but some great tasting plant based vegan recipes! They are all affordable and easy to make. If a three year old can make them, so can you.

Here’s an example of some meals you can have:

5. Write Down Why You’re Doing This.

Writing down the reasons why you’re making these lifestyle changes is important. Not only does it help you but those around you. When I went vegan I wrote down the reasons why I wanted to go vegan. I wrote down that I wanted animal suffering to cease,  it would help me gain weight from years of restriction, increase my focus and clarity, and help the environment.

6. Don’t Listen to the Haters.

There will always be someone close to you or a colleague who won’t understand. It may come from a genuine place but you must love yourself enough to know that you’ll be okay. 

If anything share this amazing lifestyle with the world. Take a trip to the farmers market or the grocery store with friends. More and more places are selling vegan friendly products that are cheap and affordable.

7. Do An Exercise that You Enjoy.

It’s that simple. I do lots of yoga, biking, and running but I’ve been stretching my fitness levels to dance. Just find something you like. There’s so much out there.

8. Enjoy the Ride.

Yes you will make mistakes at first. Consistency and knowledge are  key. Failure happens. The important things is that we accept them and move forward. 

I hope ya’ll have a great day. I hope this helps some of you guys.  I’m not trying to make you go vegan but just giving you my perspective on this topic and what should be done about it. 

Remember that I, a fellow echelon, believes in you. If you need any help you can message me.

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This year feels different. I’m taking dance classes and starting over. Plus Mars is coming out with a new album. And that very thought gives me life. 

I’m not one for making New Year’s resolutions but manifestations. Every month I visualize my goals. It sounds weird but once you start there’s no turning back. I started doing it my senior year of high school and it’s done me some good. It’s like being put on a roller coaster and going with the punches because it’s leading you to where you want to go.  And yes there are lots of potatoes, rice, veggies, and acai bowls involved. Basically the colors of the rainbow are everywhere (and we’re not talking about Skittles hahaha). 

ANYWAYS this months manifestations are exciting. In fact they’re epic. I couldn’t stop dreaming about them. Yes I’m one those people. I love being in my own world and listening to Spotify mouthing lyrics to myself. I’m ridiculous.

It’s how I memorize dance routines. It helps especially if I can’t seem to get a certain combination. Usually I move on and come back to it later. Otherwise I’ll get frustrated and accomplish nothing. And that feeling is not cute.

My advice for you? Visualize your goals. Write them out as if they are in the present. They will seem more realistic to you and you’ll feel like you’re moving in the right direction.

I hope ya’ll have a great Wednesday! Keep those good vibes going through the New Year. You can do this. 

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