#stability terms

pt/ special person stability [set of 5]. /end pt

-> explanation of stability labels can be found here. please read before claiming labels (they're plural terms, and without the context it could be interpreted differently!)

-p stability / special person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their special person is in their life, or the collective's life. the special person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their special person is not around, or only feel unstable if their special person were to leave their life entirely. this term is an umbrella term for any special person and exclusive to those with a personality disorder(s).

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

attention person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their attention person is in their life, or the collective's life. the attention person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their attention person is not around, or only feel unstable if their attention person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with hpd / histrionic personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here.

favorite person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their favorite person is in their life, or the collective's life. the favorite person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their favorite person is not around, or only feel unstable if their favorite person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with bpd / borderline personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

equal person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their equal person is in their life, or the collective's life. the equal person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their equal person is not around, or only feel unstable if their equal person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with npd / narcissistic personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here.

depended person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their depended person is in their life, or the collective's life. the depended person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their depended person is not around, or only feel unstable if their depended person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with dpd / dependent personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

-> credit and ping for @the-label-sanctuary b/c all the original flags are so nice :)

coined by us on july 24 2025, made with plurals in mind, and exclusive to people with personality disorders (diagnosis status doesn't matter).

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pt/ umbrella/standard stability terms [set of 6]. /end pt

-> explanation of stability labels can be found here. colors of these flags are based off of the general stability terms flag.

unsure stability: stability is unclear for any reason.

varied or nuanced stability: stability may vary, fluctuate, or is dependent on something, thus is nuanced.

stable stability: stability is stable.

unstable stability: stability is unstable.

increasing stability: stability is increasing, going from unstable to stable/more stable.

decreasing stability: stability is decreasing, going from stable to unstable/more unstable.

all terms were coined by us on july 23 2025. plural-only terms, but open for any plural to use (no matter origin, etc.)

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pt/ clingycutor. /end pt

a persecutor role is a role where a headmate intentionally attempts to stabilize (< related link) a new split(s) despite it being more work, stressful, unhealthy, etc. for the system. clingycutor comes from the combination of 'clingy' and 'persecutor'.

attempting to stabilize splits is done out of love for the new split(s) and is not an intentionally harmful persecutor role. however, it still fits the persecutor category as clingycutors are encouraging and causing something stressful/harmful to the system. a headmate stabilizing new splits without causing any harm to the system is not the same as a clingycutor. being a clingycutor can often be as hurtful to the persecutor as it is to the rest of the system, if not more, given how attached they get to new and unstable headmates.

clinginess to new splits may be due to them being sourcemates, sharing exomemories, being from a media or interest that the clingycutor likes, or because the new split generally seems like a person the clingycutor would like to have around. this role goes well with bpd/cluster b holders or headmates, and those with attachment issues, but is not exclusive to it.

this role can be temporary if only applicable to one new split situation, or it may be reoccurring with multiple new splits and thus, a more permanent label.

the flag's warm colors are meant to be comforting as a nod to the comfort new splits give clingycutors, while the blue center represents the unintended harm being caused and uncertainty of the new split's stability. the flag's symbol is representative of the love clingycutors hold (a tight hug & a heart), as well as the instability of the new splits they're targeting (an unlocked lock).

-> detailed pluralpedia page + description: here.

coined on: august 2 2025 (by us)

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+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

pt/ stability terms (general). /end pt

a subcategory of plural-specific terms regarding the stability of headmates, or overall system structures.

'stability' is in reference to the level of risk for fusion, dormancy, or fragmentation. headmate stability would be one's personal risk of fusing, going dormant, or fragmenting. system/plural/collective stability would be the risk of system collapse or other mass-dormancy/fusion/fragmentation events. collective stability terms can be used for sisasystems as well.

a stable headmate or system would not be at risk for any of the above; an unstable headmate or system would be.

stability terms are referred to as such and may work separately from, alongside, or in place of a role, depending how an individual plural may want to consider it. terms most likely follow the structure of "[describing word] stability" or "[describing word] collective/system stability"

the flag colors are representative of: unclear stability (orange), varied or nuanced stability (blue), stability (purple), instability (yellow), and acceptance for all systems (gray + white).

this subsection of terminology was coined by us on july 23 2025, though anyone is free to coin their own specific stability terms. any similar terms, or flags, we were not aware of prior to coining and are merely coincidental.

this term is open to all systems (no matter origin, etc.) and we ask (but cannot require) anyone coining their own stability terms to do the same.

pt/ vacational stability + vacationer (role). /end pt

vacational stability: a stability label(link) for a headmate who's only stable long enough or during the time it takes to give another/the others a break. this headmate may be a soother, a task handler, a temporary host or cohost, or fill in any other role. they become unstable when they don't have a role to fill in. alternatively, this headmate may literally only be stable during a bodily vacation or break.

vacationer: a role for a headmate who intentionally and consensually gives others breaks. this role is very similar to and can be considered an alternative to a substitute or chameleon role, but is intended as a more consensual, positive, and intentional stand-in. headmates may be described as very easy-going, relaxed, fun-loving, and chill (but of course don't have to be). they may also be considered as soothers, task handlers, temporary hosts or cohosts, or any other technical role (either long-term or only when filling in roles). this headmate may also, in addition to or instead of this description, take it on themselves to front primarily during bodily vacations or breaks - often to ensure it is enjoyable and fulfilling.

these are intended as plural terms; any system (of any origin, etc.) can use them.

coined on: july 25 2025 (by us)

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+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

pt/ source stability [set of 3]. /end pt

-> explanation of stability labels can be found here.

source stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content.

spinterest stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content. however, the source content is specifically one or more of their system member's special interests, or a collective special interest. exclusive to those with asd / autism (spectrum disorder).

first two icons directly inspired by this flag template.

hyperfix stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content. however, the source content is specifically one or more of their system member's hyperfixations, or a collective hyperfixation. exclusive to those with adhd / attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

-> spinterest stability + hyperfix stability suggested by @absiinthe :)

these are plural terms open to any plural (no matter origin, etc.) and only exclusive (to those with autism/adhd) if using the sp/in or hyperfix specific terms.

coined on: july 24 2025 (by us)

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pt/ ASPD special person stability [set of 3]. /end pt

-> continuation of this set. explanation of stability labels can be found here. please read before claiming labels (they're plural terms, and without the context it could be interpreted differently!)

partner in crime stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their partner in crime is in their life, or the collective's life. the partner in crime may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their partner in crime is not around, or only feel unstable if their partner in crime were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

social person/circle stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their social person/circle is in their life, or the collective's life. the social person/circle may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their social person/circle is not around, or only feel unstable if their social person/circle were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

exception person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their exception person is in their life, or the collective's life. the exception person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their exception person is not around, or only feel unstable if their exception person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here (adjusted color).

requested by anon; again, original flags by @the-label-sanctuary.

coined by us on july 24 2025, made with plurals in mind, and exclusive to people with antisocial personality disorder (diagnosis status doesn't matter).

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pt/ stress-unstress collective stability. /end pt

a stability label(link) for collectives/plurals/systems/+ whose stability fluctuates based on stress levels.

for example, under stressful circumstances, a system may be more prone to system collapses or other mass dormancy/fusion/fragmentation events; and, when not stressed, the system is more stable. or, the reverse may be true; a system may be more unstable when they're not stressed and stable when they are stressed. this can be for any reason.

this is a plural term and can be used by anyone.

coined on: july 24 2025 (by us)

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