#spark ask

{Static, it's good to see you again! Did you get taller since I last saw you, gruff?}

No but I have to tell you. I have to say it. How can you be attracted to one gender and one gender only ? It’s not about genitals because you have no way of knowing what someone’s genitals are unless you see them. And we know genitals don’t equal gender. Same way, you can’t know someone’s gender until they tell you. Then, how can you be attracted to this person and not that person ? You just guess what their gender is based on society’s ideas of what makes a woman or a man (or someone non-binary), or your own assumptions from the way they look ?

I don’t know if it’s an adhd thing or not but do you ever get PHYSICALLY BORED of doing something. I was folding laundry (took me three hours because I was watching something at the same time and somehow thought I’d be able to do both) and by the end it was like uuuuugh I don’t want to fold anymore I don’t want to do this movement anymore.

Ok uh question are adhd and chronic pain like, disabilities ? I don’t think I really know what makes something a disability and I don’t want to appropriate a word but I’ve seen it used when referring to adhd a few times. I don’t know for chronic pain, I’ve just recently started like, understanding that if I’m in pain and there seems to be no reason for it it’s chronic pains so I haven’t looked anything up. I hope this isn’t rude or anything 😭

At this point I’m desperate so I’ll try my luck here