#soundshipper

Selfshippers who have OCD, you do love your F/Os.

You do still want them, even if you don't feel a spark at this moment.

You do still love them, even if you keep repeating evaluations of how you feel for them.

You do still deserve them, even if you're worrying that you don't love them anymore. Even if you don't feel how you normally do, if you felt like that at all.

Your brain is lying to you, it's no different than all the other times. It will pass, and your F/O will always be there.

Reblog with a picture of your F/O, your favorite scent/what scent you think they have, or if you have no scents in mind, an explanation of their personality/history etc, to get assigned a perfume/cologne!

For example, I'm assigning my husband Gyro Zeppeli '1879', from Tru Western's 'Americana' collection!

The cologne's notes include citrus, leather, wood (general), basalm fir, sage, juniper berries and leather!

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks. You can bring that piece of merch out and take photos with it.

Yes, even if people think it's "cringe".

Yes, even if people think it's "weird".

Yes, even if people think it's "creepy".

You are not hurting anyone just by existing with a physical token of your F/O, ever. You and your F/O deserve to go to restaurants, cafés, museums, tourist spots, and all the things people take their "normal" partners to. It doesn't matter what others think of you, and it never will, because your F/O doesn't care what they think- only what you think. If you're having fun, that's all that matters.

If you have that acrylic stand, that plushie, that doll, or anything else you've been hesitating to take outside and bring with you? Don't be afraid anymore. Take them.

Your F/O would love to join you.

AFTER SO LONG.. THE VALENTINE'S PIECE ARRIVES 3 MONTHS LATE........

There's a lot I dislike about the piece, including not being to include our husband (though I colored the ribbons and bow like him so he is there in spirit...) I still feel alright enough to post this.

I love my husbands. 🧸🐁🏠♡

Taking care of your sick F/O.

Kissing their forehead to ensure you can feel if they are feverish. Comforting them as you withhold more blankets if they are running one. Making a soothing tea to soothe raw, sore throats. Rubbing their upset stomach. Watching them at their bedside to ensure they're getting critical recovery rest. Promising them you'll be by their side till they recover, and getting to see them relax at your words.