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As a gentle reminder:

Only you can uderstand your F/O.

Only you could love them the way you do.

Only you can make them feel at home.

Only you can make them feel adored.

Only you could give them hope.

Only you could provide your F/O with everything they'd ever need.

You, and only you.

Do not cry. You will finish that drawing you were trying to complete someday, and your F/O will love it.

Tw for shipcest/incest

Winding down after a long day with your F/O. Helping them out of their clothes, giving them a chilled drink.. soaking a rag in water and swiping away every inch of grime and grease on their face.. and after they're clean and comfortable, you curl up to them to watch the stars above. And you can only wonder how you got so lucky.

Selfshippers with "weird" identities and pronouns, your F/O loves and accepts you.

Lesboys and turigirls, your F/Os accept you.

Cistrans people, your F/Os accept you.

M-spec lesbians and gays, your F/Os accept you.

If you use neopronouns, your F/Os accept you. If you use contradictory labels, your F/Os accept you. If you stand under countless flags, even if it's hundreds of flags, your F/Os accept you.

Pride is for everyone, including the selfshipper here with emoji pronouns and the selfshipper there who's a straight lesbian. Others may not accept you, they may be hateful or cruel, but your F/O will always drown out their hate with a passion, a love only your F/O can exude.

Pride is for you.

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks. You can bring that piece of merch out and take photos with it.

Yes, even if people think it's "cringe".

Yes, even if people think it's "weird".

Yes, even if people think it's "creepy".

You are not hurting anyone just by existing with a physical token of your F/O, ever. You and your F/O deserve to go to restaurants, cafés, museums, tourist spots, and all the things people take their "normal" partners to. It doesn't matter what others think of you, and it never will, because your F/O doesn't care what they think- only what you think. If you're having fun, that's all that matters.

If you have that acrylic stand, that plushie, that doll, or anything else you've been hesitating to take outside and bring with you? Don't be afraid anymore. Take them.

Your F/O would love to join you.