#1 SBR FANATIC‼️

‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎🌸 ‎‎ i want to be with you forever.‎.

It's okay to find it hard to put your adoration for your F/O into words.

It's fine to not talk about your F/O much, maybe because you have language restrictions, or struggle to type or speak, or perhaps because you simply don't know what to say, or even that your relationship feels so normal you don't need to gush.

While it's sweet and amazing many can burst into near song about their love for their F/Os, selfshippers who can't find that same energy don't love their F/Os less. The love is the same, just channeled differently, and everyone deserves to be included.

Selfshippers with "weird" identities and pronouns, your F/O loves and accepts you.

Lesboys and turigirls, your F/Os accept you.

Cistrans people, your F/Os accept you.

M-spec lesbians and gays, your F/Os accept you.

If you use neopronouns, your F/Os accept you. If you use contradictory labels, your F/Os accept you. If you stand under countless flags, even if it's hundreds of flags, your F/Os accept you.

Pride is for everyone, including the selfshipper here with emoji pronouns and the selfshipper there who's a straight lesbian. Others may not accept you, they may be hateful or cruel, but your F/O will always drown out their hate with a passion, a love only your F/O can exude.

Pride is for you.

AFTER SO LONG.. THE VALENTINE'S PIECE ARRIVES 3 MONTHS LATE........

There's a lot I dislike about the piece, including not being to include our husband (though I colored the ribbons and bow like him so he is there in spirit...) I still feel alright enough to post this.

I love my husbands. 🧸🐁🏠♡

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks. You can bring that piece of merch out and take photos with it.

Yes, even if people think it's "cringe".

Yes, even if people think it's "weird".

Yes, even if people think it's "creepy".

You are not hurting anyone just by existing with a physical token of your F/O, ever. You and your F/O deserve to go to restaurants, cafés, museums, tourist spots, and all the things people take their "normal" partners to. It doesn't matter what others think of you, and it never will, because your F/O doesn't care what they think- only what you think. If you're having fun, that's all that matters.

If you have that acrylic stand, that plushie, that doll, or anything else you've been hesitating to take outside and bring with you? Don't be afraid anymore. Take them.

Your F/O would love to join you.

Taking care of your sick F/O.

Kissing their forehead to ensure you can feel if they are feverish. Comforting them as you withhold more blankets if they are running one. Making a soothing tea to soothe raw, sore throats. Rubbing their upset stomach. Watching them at their bedside to ensure they're getting critical recovery rest. Promising them you'll be by their side till they recover, and getting to see them relax at your words.

Selfshippers with feral F/Os, I love you.

Selfshippers who are therians and your theriotypes are feral animals, I love you.

Your love isn't lesser because you can't entirely relate to human-centric imagines, fantasies, or stereotypes. The feelings you have for your F/O are just as beautiful as mine or anyone else's.