Oops I coined a blankqueer . Happy pride, get queerer NOW
SHIMMERQUEER is a stance that, while not mutually exclusive with radqueerness, sets clearer bounds to prevent the perpetuation or promotion of harm. I felt like making it to describe better my thoughts on some matters :P
What does it stand for?
β¦ PRO PARA
Paraphiles aren't inherently dangerous people, they deserve compassion and support as any other person, and a community to express themselves. They are not to be assumed as criminals just for having these thoughts. SFW paraphile spaces are possible.
β¦ ANTI CONTACT
There are several paraphilias that would be unethical to act on in real life on a 1:1 scale, namely minophilia/map, zoophilia, necrophilia, AND incest/consang attraction. This is due to concerns of safety, not mere 'ick'. But NOTE: there are ways of acting on these safely with consenting parties, i.e zoo4therian relationships, insys age differences with a matching maturity, kink, etc. These methods are okay, as there's no one being abused.
β¦ TRANSID COMPLEX
Leaning pro, however individual shimmerqueers may have variating thoughts and degrees of comfort sorrounding them that should be respected. The main thing of note: the feelings of yearning, euphoria and dysphoria that may come with transids are real, deserve language to be described, and community.
For the more controversial transids, alternatives like altid or desirdae and dissomei may be encouraged, but not forced. Research of the subject is also highly advised. Shimmerqueer is strongly against transhateful identities. They cannot be separated from their ties with bigotry.
β¦ PRO CONTRADICTORY IDENTITIES / GOOD FAITH
Queer experiences are complex, labels are meant to fit YOU comfortably and not just viceversa, and good faith IDs have been known to be around for a long while. Also have fun with your silly words whatever
ADDITIONAL BELOW
β¦ PRO FICTION/SHIP
(restrict younger teens from darkfic spaces for safety)
β¦ ANTI RPF WITHOUT CONSENT
(political satire exempt)
β¦ WELCOMING OF ALL PLURALS
(you may have different thoughts on their origin, but you're good so long you don't fakeclaim them or bring it up to them when uncalled for. Personal discomfort is okay to have, just be respectful. Follow boundaries)
β¦ ANTI HARASSMENT
β¦ ANTI FAKECLAIMING
β¦ ANTI FAKING (specific) TRANSIDS AS CIS/NATIDS
(you don't need to state what you're identifying away from, however faking things like culture, neurotype, ability or age can lead to appropriation, misinformation or safety problems depending on what's being lied about. Chronological age should be the considered one for matters of keeping spaces age-restricted.)
β¦ TRANSID TRANSITION COMPLEX
(Many transids are harmless to transition to, but it should be handled delicately for specific ones. Transition may be reconnection with your culture, learning to unmask, obtaining disability aids you need, etc. There are ways to handle well the more delicate transids without the need for transition. Disabling the body should be a last resort when it comes to things like BIID)
β¦ ANTI "agreeing to disagree" ON CONTACT STANCES
β¦ ANTI GEN AI
β¦ PRO CHOSEN RECOVERY
β¦ ANTI-ABUSE
β¦ PRO ALTER/NONHUMANITY, INCLUDING PHYSICAL
β¦ PRO HARM REDUCTION
β¦ PRO CHOICE
DESIGN NOTES, ALTS & SYMBOLS
I like to call the symbol the Wishing Starfall :}}}
Ooouuughhh I've been cooking this up for a while !!!! I think I'm at a place where I've figured things out well enough to finally release this into the wilderness.... BE FREE MY LOVELY CREATION
EXTRA FACT!! Shimmerqueers may call themselves shinies or shimmers for short, shinies is my favourite !! EKEKEKKEEE..
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No contact pro-para communities, rqc alternatives and more
List of some of the pro para (anti-c) communities, radqueer alternatives and similar communities I found, including short explanations of their general beliefs and flags. I will update this time to time so check the reblogs if interested.
Disclaimer:
Pro/complex/neutral-contact communities will not be listed in this post.
I will not add bigoted labels and extremely anti-everything, pro-everything or very radqueer positive communities (labels strictly tied to to rqc or in favor of their ideology will not be posted). There are already a bazillion "blankqueer" stances and I don't want to promote any potentially harmful (or abandoned) community.
Just because I listed a community here doesn't mean I'm a part of it. Everything added will be unbiased and for educational purposes.
Don't bring discourse or personal drama here.
Click on the titles for their original coin posts. If the links are unavailable, check my reblogs.
Fleur π·βοΈ
"Fleur is an acronym that stands for Freedom, Liberation, Equity, Unity, and Respect. Fleurβs symbol and name are derived from the asteroid 8 Flora. A member of the Fleur community can be called a Fleuraison, or a Fleurson if you want to be a little silly."
Pro: All queer identities, MOGAI/LIOM, transID, all forms of multiplicity, all religions, paraphilias, fetishes and kinks.
Neu: Consanguinity
Not in favor of: Radqueer, Exclusionism, Bigotry and/or harm targeted at non-consenting parties, Abuse targeted at non-consenting parties, Censorship, Xenosatanism, LSDqueer, basedqueer, hypoharmful, and any term that condones or encourages abuse and harm targeted at non-consenting parties.
Personal Notes: Fleur has a Tumblr community here. For more details on stances, check either the pinned post in the community or the original link provided.
Shimmerqueer ππ
"SHIMMERQUEER is a stance that, while not mutually exclusive with radqueerness, sets clearer bounds to prevent the perpetuation or promotion of harm."
Pro: Anti-contact paraphiles, contradictory identities / good faith, fiction / ship, all plurals, chosen recovery, alter / nonhumanity including physical, harm reduction and pro choice.
Complex: TransID (leaning pro) and transID transition.
Anti: Contact, abuse, incest, consanguinity, RPF without consent, harassment, fakeclaiming, faking (specific) transIDs as cis/natIDs, "agreeing-to-disagree" on contact stances and gen AI.
Personal Notes: In case the original link breaks, click here for the archive.
No-Act Paraphile Movement
"NO-ACT stands for "Non-Offending, Anti-Contact, Taboo" and is a movement for paraphiles who are against sexual contact with minors, theriform animals, and non-consenting people, but pro-kink and other means of safe sexual expression. The goal of this movement is for paraphilias to be destigmatized, alongside promoting abuse awareness and prevention, sexual education, and risk-aware sexual bodily autonomy. This is also a separatist movement, as NO-ACT paraphiles must disassociate entirely from beings who hold pro/neutral/complex contact stances if we ever want true destigmatization, acceptance, and abuse prevention."
Pro: Kink / RACK, fiction, (And encourages finding healthy ways to express taboo paraphilias. Everything like roleplay, kink, art, fiction writing, special effects in films, and other fictional outlets), bodily autonomy in all aspects, (Whether it's the right to an abortion, euthanasia, rejecting treatment, or risk-aware sex), consang, as long as it is between two consenting adults who do not have a power imbalance.
Against: Pederasty/youth age gap relationships, child sexual abuse material, bestiality, bestial material, rape, and all other forms of non-consensual sexual contact or creation of sexual exploitation material, pro/neutral/complex contact stances, non consensual sex with the dead, non consensual sleep sex, xenosatanist, sexual contact with minors, theriform animals, and other non-consenting beings.
Personal Notes: NO-ACT movement mostly focuses on paraphilias and harm reduction.
Asexual paraphiles, you are amazing and valid and deserve to be able to talk about your experiences. Your asexuality doesn't make you any less of a paraphile, and your paraphilia doesn't make you any less asexual.
Asexual paraphiles whose paraphilic attraction is nonsexual, be it romantic, platonic, familial, sensual, aesthetic, queerplatonic, or something else entirely, your paraphile experiences are still just as important as those of sexual paraphiles.
Asexual paraphiles whose paraphilic attraction is sexual, be it due to being cross-aligned, being asexual but experiencing rare, faint, or conditional sexual attraction, being transorientation asexual, only experiencing paraphilic sexual attraction, or any combination of those, you are valid. Just because it might seem confusing or contradictory to other people (or even to yourself) doesn't mean that your identity and experience aren't real.
okau but what if I otherlinked the concept of paraphilias... especially "harmful" paraphilias...... both because now that I've thought of it I kinda want to and because it would scare the wider paramisic alterhuman community and being feared is kinda funny........
Vent art because the freakinge IMPULSES. And the second I get my guard down THEY GET JUSTIFIED. This Shite Is So Bollocks but I have a feeling there's gotta be people that relate. right
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Zoominophile flag !!!!! Colors yoinked and edited from the minophile flag here .... This is self indulgent ekekekekek. It's specific to the intersection between the two and doesn't imply you're either zoo or mino by themselves . ALSO it's ANTI-CONTACT and ANTI-ABUSE
