Sepaspec terms
I really liked the original separomantic (link) here, but I really wanted an acespec equivalent for ourselves, and clean up the separomantic flag & label personally; a recoin if you will, but I tried to keep the spirit of the original in my recoin regardless out of respect.
NOTE: ANYONE (WHO FEEL THEY APPLY TO THE DEFINITION) MAY IDENTIFY WITH AND USE THESE LABELS & FLAGS, REGARDLESS OF OUR "DNI".
Sepasexual
An acespec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards sexual attraction, possibly viewing it in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.
Dark purple: Asexuality and the asexual spectrum
Light purple: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from sexual attraction
Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness
Pink: Attempts to connect self with attraction and/or feelings towards sexuality
Red: Self love and pride in sexuality, or lack thereof
Separomantic
An arospec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards romantic attraction, possibly viewing it in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.
Dark green: Aromanticism and the aromantic spectrum
Light green: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from romantic attraction
Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness
Light orange: Attempts to connect self with attraction and/or feelings towards romance
Orange: Self love and pride in romanticism, or lack thereof
Separoace
An aroace-spec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards both sexual & romantic attraction, possibly viewing them in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.
Dark blue: Experiencing asexuality and aromanticism together, the asexual & aromantic spectrums
Light blue: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from both sexual and romantic attraction
Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness
Light yellow: Attempts to connect yourself with your attraction and/or feelings towards sexuality and romance
Yellow: Self love and pride in both sexuality and romanticism, or lack thereof.
