The entire evolution of science would suggest that the best grammar for thinking about the world is that of change, not of permanence. Not of being, but of becoming. We can think of the world as made up of things. Of substances. Of entities. Of something that is. Or we can think of it as made up of events. Of happenings. Of processes. Of something that occurs. Something that does not last, and that undergoes continual transformation, that is not permanent in time. The destruction of the notion of time in fundamental physics is the crumbling of the first of these two perspectives, not of the second. It is the realization of the ubiquity of impermanence, not of stasis in a motionless time. Thinking of the world as a collection of events, of processes, is the way that allows us to better grasp, comprehend, and describe it. It is the only way that is compatible with relativity. The world is not a collection of things, it is a collection of events. The difference between things and events is that things persist in time; events have a limited duration. A stone is a prototypical āthingā: we can ask ourselves where it will be tomorrow. Conversely, a kiss is an āevent.ā It makes no sense to ask where the kiss will be tomorrow. The world is made up of networks of kisses, not of stones. The basic units in terms of which we comprehend the world are not located in some specific point in space. They areāif they are at allāin a where but also in a when. They are spatially but also temporally delimited: they are events.
Carlo Rovelli, The Order of Time











