#rfexpose

Honestly, people wanna talk shit about you being dishonest or whatever, but they never look at themselves or the way they treat other people. They are never honest about how shitty they are and how shitty their behaviour is. And that is what pisses me off the most.

This blog would not exist at all if everyone who claims to value honesty actually practiced that in real life. People say you’re a liar, call you dishonest, call you immature–but imagine for one second that you were actually honest about who you were and your opinions on your own blog. Imagine for one second that you actually honestly and maturely called out people’s bullshit. Would anyone in this fandom stand for that? Nope. Not in a million years. Honesty and maturity, in my experience, are two things that cannot survive in this fandom.

People don’t like it when others confront them about their shit, even if people do it nicely. You can be as polite as you like, as kind as you want to be, but it doesn’t matter if you’re talking to your best friend or your worst enemy. You can’t criticize anyone. Ever. At all. Especially if you’re a popular blog. You are not allowed to be angry when people are shitty towards you. You are not allowed to get angry or frustrated with people, and above all, you are NEVER allowed to honestly express these emotions to ANYONE ever and actually hope to have a good, healthy conversation about it with them. And that is the biggest problem with this fandom. Everyone is much more concerned about not getting called out for anything or actually caring about anyone else or taking an honest look at the ways in which they hurt other people. They only care about themselves, how they look, and their own feelings and their own lives. That’s it.

And that’s why this blog exists. All you people sending hate mail, talking about how much you hate this blog, ask yourselves the honest question about whether or not you would react well if your friend came to you and called you out on your bullshit. If you are the kind of person who would pitch a fit, start ranting and start setting your followers on the people who are doing everything right and being 100% honest (just like how you want them to be!) about how you treat others, because you can’t stand criticism, then you have an equal hand in creating this blog. You created this environment in this fandom where healthy relationships between people cannot thrive. In the real world, try bitching at people and backstabbing them like this and see how long your friendships last. They won’t.

Honesty, kindness and positivity–these things don’t just happen or become a thing because you want them to. The onus is on YOU as much as it is on everyone else to create an environment where people feel safe expressing how they feel and coming forward and being honest with you when you fuck up. If you’re creating an environment where you respond to criticism by cursing out someone else and shaming them publicly, then you have absolutely NO right to complain about Exposey or this blog or about the lack of honesty and kindness and positivity. You did nothing to cultivate it first of all.

And also, people seem to think that these three things are some sort of protection against all criticism and ill-will and anger and frustration whatsoever. They aren’t. They are not some magical shield that you can use as a defense just because you actually fucked up and people are calling you out on your shit. You don’t get to cry about how this fandom isn’t a positive place when the truth is that you screwed up and now you’re getting called out. Should people be nice and respectful when they do so? Yes. But even those people who are perfectly nice in their criticism get attacked and chased out of the fandom or shamed publicly because people are so angry and butthurt about ANY and ALL criticism whatsoever. So learn to chill and take a deep breath and ask yourself the tough questions in life, because I guarantee, if you can’t do that here, you won’t be able to do that anywhere else, and I promise you that this kind of behaviour will cost you friends and family and real relationships.

By popular demand, this week I will post a series of receipts about our dear Rachel. I found myself sinking the deeps of the internet ocean to give you this. Obviously, they are just a few but they are a select collection. I expect you to cherish these posts.

Rachel and her ‘facts’

When Rachel gets asked about things, she tries to answer the best way she can (trust me, she does) But there are sometimes, when she gets asked things about Kate, that I cringe a bit. Like in this particular question:

I swear this sound as fake as everything the Daily Mail publishes (I made some research and yes, she in fact worked as a deckhand in the Solent during her gap year, however she didn’t meet William there and you can check that here x and here x)

But most of the times, we have Rachel being Rachel. Here are just a few of my favorite posts. And I will give you a small introduction to each of them.

I picked this one because it shows how William and Kate love being the center of attention

Here’s the truth:

We also have when Rachel becomes Voldemort (or in other words, that blogger Who-Must-Not-Be-Named)

And here is an ask when she actually says that:

Then we have when Rachel just can’t say no to her fans who crave for information:

Lastly, we have here where William and Kate tell The Queen when and where they want to represent her: