These couple of days I’m noticing that sometimes we get caught up in what would our partner offer for us. But that’s rather the result, bloom, of being *together*. Of being grateful of the life that is created together, which is not an entitlement, but an honour.
It’s not anyone’s responsibility to make you feel happy, good about yourself, life. That’s on you. What is, is that you both get to experience the honour of sharing or walking a path in life *together* temporarily.
and -if- both willing to put in the inner work, from within self to within the relationship, it could last a lifetime. (Luck in not an element here, pouring into a relationship is work, that is conscious, a choice)
You meet halfway, willingly, respectfully, lovingly, tenderly, humbly, harmoniously to create your world *together* there. While respecting each other’s lives, separate selves, needs, wants, future strives. And compromise when needed, willingly, vocally, openly, consciously, lovingly, for the benefit of both the feminine and the masculine, respecting both parties.
Anything that requires one person to neglect themselves for ‘the relationship’. It turns from a harmonic dynamic to a power dynamic. (Which is a form the ego thrives in //which is another subject for another day//)
Much like love to oneself needs intentional work, to pour into thyself out of love, awe, to your essence. in awe to the human experience.
The bond with Source needs conscious acts. Where you connect with Source cause you respect the soul, that is of light.
a relationship is two persons’ responsibility, where you pour into each other, lovingly, in awe to the harmonious life you’ve created *together* in awe to the human experience, to the feminine, masculine energies that you carry within, to Source, to life itself.
