I swear when someone says a character is "relatable" they actually mean "aspirational" because the most relatable characters in Austen are also the most cringe-fail, and everyone is just refusing to see themselves that way
"Elizabeth Bennet is so relatable!" No, you wish you were Elizabeth Bennet. That is a very different thing. Take a moment and accept that you share some traits with Mr. Collins and Kitty Bennet and that's fine
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Give them small, everyday habits
The way they drink coffee, procrastinate, or hum when nervous makes them feel human.
Let them want something simple
Not every motivation has to be ✨EPIC✨. Sometimes they just want approval, peace, or to belong.
Show their flaws early
Perfection puts them at a distance. Imperfection creates connection.
Give them private, intimate fears
Fear of failure, abandonment, disappointing someone. These are emotional anchors for readers.
Let them be wrong sometimes
People relate more to characters who misjudge situations or make bad calls.
Show how they treat others
Kindness, sarcasm, loyalty, jealous. Relationships should reveal personality quickly.
Give them moments of vulnerability
A character dropping their guard is often the moment readers start caring.
Let them struggle with decisions
Inner conflict makes readers think “Yeah… I’d struggle with that too.”
Show what makes them happy
Joy reveals humanity just as much as suffering does.
Give them something to lose
Relatability happens when readers understand what matters most to the character.
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