#rationalizing

Thinking carefully about sending a concerned, caring message to a man like. To tell a guy that you care about them is surprisingly vulnerable, so much unlike telling a woman that you care. Men are much more likely to take that care and spit it back in your face in the form of a joke or cruelty or standoffishness. They're more likely to create more emotional distance in response. But I figure I have to be true to myself and try to show men care anyway, because they don't deserve it any less than women do

I dont think what Beta is doing is that bad... I mean, its to fix me, right?