#probably........

It is impossible for another player to kill you with hammers during multi-lives.

People who produce the same character as you do not want to hurt you for playing as that character in multi-lives.

You play multi-lives at least once a week & are yet to have been physically harmed by another player.

You are not breaking any unwritten social contract by trying to be nice to people during multi-lives.

People are happy to see you when you join multi-lives.

People who do not interact with you in multi-lives don't hate you, they hate using interaction stamps.

People do not mind if you choose the centre's focus song instead of their SPP because you don't know it.

You have never hated anyone you have played multi-lives with & have no reason to believe that they hate you.

Nobody remembers the time you accidentally made people play the same song three consecutive times & were so embarrassed by this that you closed the app BEFORE apologising.

The only negative memories you have of multi-lives are of things you believe you did wrong.

You don't mind if another person does something slightly wrong & have no reason to believe that they would mind if you did (in multi-lives).

You need to be kinder to yourself so that you don't antagonise other people for no reason (in multi-lives).

Do not project your self-loathing onto the world (in multi-lives)!!

If people love you, then clearly you are lovable (in multi-lives)!

You know that the only condition for this love is that you behave the way you always have (in multi-lives).

This behaviour cannot be performative, because it was something to which you were already inclined. It is the manifestation of an earnest desire for connection (in multi-lives).

You do not believe that the desire for connection is a bad thing (in multi-lives).

You only get nervous when you think you've done something wrong because you perceive it as a wedge between you & the people to whom you're trying to connect (in multi-lives).

You recognise that this desire for connection is not a goal & you will not base your worth solely on your ability to fulfil it.

You also do this (read: play multi-lives) for yourself, because you enjoy it!

By conflating an amoral desire with a moral goal, you inadvertently distance yourself from your own enjoyment (of multi-lives) on the basis of it seeming selfish & unproductive [← negative value-judgements].

By making an effort not to get stressed (by playing multi-lives), you become able to redirect your attention towards enjoying yourself, thereby making that your moral goal at nobody else's expense!!!

It is possible to learn to love & respect yourself (by playing multi-lives)!!!!

i mean. it was mostly just this other god of destruction completely minimizing roh’s position and the work he did and. pulling a beerus destroying whatever they pleased without caring much about the actual balance of the universe. they also didn’t see any true value in creation and for a variety of reasons probably just saw roh as a liability and a nuisance

bc even tho this previous god of destruction was especially domineering and callous toward him, roh absolutely would have still furiously protested his treatment and fought to the best of his ability for his ‘space’ in U9 so i do kinda imagine their arguments were. Explosive

and while roh wouldn’t have feared for his life, of course, he could have been made to fear pain. but i don’t think-- if it did boil over into physical altercations occasionally-- that this desire to physically hurt roh would have been that calculating on the destroyer’s end. i think it would have been just a split-second of the destroyer’s temper overtaking them bc of roh recklessly and angrily provoking them beforehand. and it’s there i imagine that mojito would actually intervene and suggest they meet up again some other time

i don’t remember where i was going with this..............

oH i also think they were likely very controlling and. almost. possessive?? like to a certain degree it’s just common sense to keep your weaker life-link out of possible trouble, but i feel like they might have occasionally overstepped