unpopular opinions of mine no one cares about but iām gonna say it anyway bc this is a hellsite and i yell as i please:
-dnd actually really sucks, i canāt stand sitting around doing that boring shit for 8 hours forced to be with people, just play skyrim my god
-lowkey kinda tired of seeing a beautiful oc from an artist i love and i look and itās their 12782949420388430292983482020th dnd oc and i sigh and nod bc i love them and their interests are cool but pls
-I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND THE DND HYPE OKAY
-i dont like it when people take a character, then change its race/sexuality/gender and then claim āfixed itā or āthis is canon nowā (headcanoning is cool, but saying you āfixedā a character or just completely ignore canon is disrespectful to the creators yall)
-i hate when people on this site trivialize actual mental disorders and illnesses like theyāre some kinda game every single one of you knows what i am talking about
-iām of the belief no one on this hellsite understands what the term ādiagnosisā means
-like actually yall self dx is FINE until you are IDing as something you either havenāt been diagnosed for or your therapist doesnāt strongly believe you have/suffer from
-aka self dx is only useful for if you cant afford therapy and make use of general community information in said community as a way of self-help and self-care, but you shouldnāt be IDing as that until you have input from a professional because especially in psychology a lot of shit can overlap and present as one thing and be a whole other (example DID presenting as BPD or vice versa) and you may very well be harming real people with said illness/disorder if you do not have it
-please stop erasing bi people in fiction and literature and shipping them ONLY in same sex relationships, they are bi. this is such a huge fucking issue. let us be in other sex relationships just as much as you love to erase us as lesbian or gay only in same sex relationships tunglrdotcom please
-pansexual is wonderful label and useful in situations of physical appearance not being a factor in attraction (as i have seen it used on occasion) or just if you are more comfortable with such label, but if the reason you ID as that instead of bi is because pan is ātrans/nb inclusiveā and bi isnāt or because of āhearts not partsā then youāre a stinking biphobe and need to stop and think about your decisions
-thick people are attractive and beautiful as FUCK but please be healthy. my mother had get her stomach cut in half because she was overweight and at too high a risk for multiple health issues. it is serious, be beautiful and confident AND mindful of your health.