🖤 Girlie pop, how you hurt them is Chiron conjunction with their personal planets, that planet's quality is where you hurt them. I had this man's Chiron conjunct my mercury and nothing hurt him more than my words and communication style 😭 similarly, a man's moon conjuncted my Chiron and nothing pissed me off more than him withdrawing his emotional availability to me 💢 (Yes, when done correctly, Chiron synastry can be healing but no one talks about the downsides)

🖤 why have I never come across a scorpio moon man who likes calm women?? All of them love the kind of woman who is mean to them, berates them and in general can kill with her words. I've always heard shit like, "Yeah, women SHOULD be mean. Why should they be nice?" And I agree as a Scorpio Sun but I won't be mean to my S.O. (wtf is wrong with y'all??)

🖤 Want to lose weight? It's so easy to do so in your Saturn return (age 27-30) or when you're going through a Saturn heavy period. Saturn aspecting your first house can also have the same effect. Saturn is the planet of purge so he understands you don't NEED those extra fats so he helps you lose it faster.

🖤 Having 5th house placements with no 7th house placements usually means that you constantly end up with crushes and hot, writhing romances but not make the other person commit to you. Not good for long-term commitment imo.

🖤 Conversely, having loads of 7th house placements means constant love triangles, liking people who are already paired up (or them liking you back) or constantly "stealing" partners (even if no fault of your own).

🖤 Another hot synastry: man's Lilith conjunct a woman's mars. They are exactly each other's type.

🖤 Check for astroid lust in synastry. If their personal planets conjunct your lust, they'd be feeling all sorts of ways and feeling horny for you.

🖤 His Lilith conjunct your ascendant is "gosh! I forgot how pretty you are!" Everytime he looks at you and you can SEE it in his eyes.

🖤 If someone's Jupiter falls into your 11th house, you can overall feel very lucky to the house person. They love you for the connections you bring them. This is the same for venus. However, if your mars falls there, they may be secretly competing with you.

🖤 if their moon is your rising, you'll hear them constantly say "I aspire to be you" and mean it.

🖤 Very specific but I feel as if anytime a man has hurt me, I've had either Lilith-Sun/moon/venus/mars synastry with him where I'm specifically the Lilith person or nodal synastry where my nodes are conjunct their personal planets. This is true even for friendship synastries and at times they won't be intending to hurt me, but they will say something or do something and it annoys tf out of me. On the flipside, while Pluto synastry makes me feel obsessive over the other person, I've never been hurt by them. I usually obsess and then move on if it doesn't work.

🖤 my people with mars in the 12th house, are you prone to psychic attacks?? Or is it just me? 😭 I also lucid dream between my nightmares and wtf 😒

🖤 Something that I've realised about libra women is that them daddy issues are almost always there. The sun is in detriment in Libra and it shows. With that, they either show too much naivety or too much cunningness and it shows. It can also come across as people who get easily influenced from other people's opinions or styles. May not happen if they have strong uranus or Neptune influence or if their moon is strong.

🖤 Mercury dominant women love to play the wolf in sheep's clothing archetype. This can also be true for Rahuvian women. Being the "darker" side of the moon, they feel the need to keep illusions to test people. Mercury women are smart and that's why they love to play dumb to understand people and see what happens when they are given free will (as in how they'll treat her, if they have evil intentions towards them because most people who want to take advantage of you will let themselves slip if they think you're dumb). They also do it because they want to get things done without putting in too much effort. Rahuvian women though, do it for the plot. Literally! They want see people's reaction and gauge their own judgement based on it. Rahu is the planet of illusions. They want to create that to understand people's projections on to them and the world. Afflicted moon women also do this but they are a bit more naive in my opinion but they do love to lie or create some illusion. Lol.

🖤 I've realised that people with strong moons understand public attention as social currency. This makes them very prone to caring about their image in public. Can also be 1 house or 10 house stelliums. Weak or afflicted moon natives do not care about their public image and don't care or depend on it.