#vertex synastry

You've known them for a few months, heck maybe a couple of years, then suddenly, one evening, you cannot get them out of your mind, like you have caught a really bad infection that seeped into your blood, flesh, and bones. How can you recover? How long will it take? Do you even want to recover?

This is the workings of sun x vertex. It starts very subtly, but you will still have that inner inkling inside you that there's more to this person, more to this orchestrated meeting, more to the ether surrounding you both, the second you meet them. Day by day, this feeling increases, and you can tell by how you always seem to end up at the same place, or your interactions seem to be the focal point in the room when you both never intended it to be.

You don't normally wake up earlier than 7:00 am, but one day you wake up one hour earlier without an alarm, start your day, only to find them arriving a few minutes after you, and you're the only two people in the room. You take off your jacket, and suddenly you care how you appear to them, and if the outfit under your jacket measures up, and if it doesn't, you beat yourself up for not wearing something better. You go to grab coffee, and they're near you, and suddenly your heart beat is up, a medical condition? Nope, it's them. Definitely them. You start to be more conscious, more aware of your movements, and more contrived in your mannerisms. Somehow, they seem to effortlessly summon the best version of you; and a few months down the line, your manners are better, your posture is better, your clothes are better, and you are your own strongest competition.

You reflect back at the person you were before crossing paths and it's a totally different version. You are now more confident, more radiant, more charismatic and more attractive... Thanks to them.

💙 Their Mars in your 3rd House makes them want to talk to you all the time. Conversation tends to flow freely. You inspire each other's thoughts and ideas. They tell you things about their siblings or neighbors. You enjoy running errands together. Frequent talks about sex and sexting isn't unusual for this overlay.

🤍 Moon overlaying the 9th House can indicate that there is significant distance between the two of you. Long distance relationship. Person from a different culture or ethnic background. This overlay also indicates that you may share similar religious beliefs or philosophies on life.

💙 Venus opposing Uranus can also indicate a relationship between two very different people. This aspect in synastry brings excitement, especially in the beginning. The Uranus person sends electrifying signals to the Venus person, who is drawn to the Uranus person. There needs to be some grounding and enduring aspects in the rest of this synastry for a relationship to last with this one. This aspect can also manifest as an on/off relationship because the two are activated towards each other through transits.

🤍 Having Mercury square Mercury in synastry can be tough. Here the people involved struggle with communication and understanding each other during critical and even non-critical moments. When Mercury squares in synastry, even small misunderstandings can quickly escalate to bigger disagreements. Because squares are typically created by signs of the same modality, but different elements, the minds of these people clash because the approach is different. For instance, a Cancer Mercury and Libra Mercury both are Cardinal and the mind works fast for these signs. But Cancer's mode of communication is filtered through the emotions (Water), while Libra filters through the mind (Air).

💙 When their Venus is in your 7th House, you find them very attractive. They embody what is beautiful to you. As the House person, you have the attributes and qualities of what Venus values in love and partnerships. The Venus person values you. This overlay can also indicate the Venus person coming into the House person's life to increase value or make money together.

🤍 When a person's Mars conjuncts another's Chiron, the Mars person has come to help facilitate healing for the Chiron person. As long as the rest of the synastry supports it, Mars isn't afflicted, and the Chiron person has already done some shadow work to address wounds, this is a very positive aspect in synastry.

💙 I've noticed when Saturn conjuncts the North Node in synastry, it can indicate a lifelong friendship. Of course, this can develop into a romantic partnership, or even start off romantic and end up as friends. But essentially, the people involved become bound together with this aspect. It is often the Saturn person who gets stuck on the NN person. Saturn initially introduces structure and discipline to the NN person. The NN person shows Saturn how to lighten up and allow lessons to evolve naturally. This aspect in synastry can also indicate creating 'good' Karma in this lifetime. Often there is an age difference involved.

🤍 Neptune conjunct Vertex in synastry can be a beautifully fated connection or an extreme nightmare. When Neptune is positively placed within the natal and in synastry, this aspect brings a brand new, positive perspective to the Vertex person about compassion and unconditional love. But because of the nature of Neptune and the potential for illusions and deceit, if Neptune is ill placed or badly afflicted, Neptune will teach the Vertex person about seeing clearly, setting proper boundaries, and using their intuition.

These are my observations and opinions. Take what resonates and leave what doesn't. Thanks for reading!

PLEASE read this before the notes : You DO NOT have to take this for fact or apply it to your own life. I’m just sharing because I think it’s so interesting. So I’ve been reading “Journey of Souls” by Dr. Michael Newton. In this book, he goes through cases where he puts his clients into hypnosis. In this hypnosis, he asks questions about what death is like & what happens in between lives. The book talks about our guides, how our soul learns, soul families and more. Of course this encouraged me to try to find out who was in my own soul family. I already had some thoughts but I was honestly shocked by what I actually found out. I did this by asking my guides how many souls are in my family, then how many are actually currently incarnated with me right now, THEN I asked for their birthdays (just the day. not the month or year) so they could easily be identified. I also confirmed if it was the people I thought once I recognized some birthdays. (What I mean by this is : one birthday, I recognized as someone’s birthday from my past. But I asked to confirm if it was them & it actually wasn’t! So it’s someone else I haven’t met yet) If you’d like me to do this reading for you, privately message me! I’ll be charging $10 for this. But anyways, out of the people I got, I only know two of them so far. So I started to look at all of our charts & I was stunned with some of the things I saw, especially the first note!!!

💌 neptunes in the same degree

all 3 of us (me & the two people i know) literally all have our neptune’s in the same degree 😳😳. neptune is literally all about spirituality !!

💌 sun aspecting 12th house

💌 their birthday on your sun or moon degree or vice versa

💌 having a stellium in the same sign or house

💌 moon in aspect with mercury

💌 mercury conjunct mercury

💌 moon-ascendent positive aspects

💌 ceres in water houses (4th, 8th, 12th)

💌 their birthday on your vertex degree or vice versa

💌 north node overlaying an angle (1st, 4th, 7th, 10th house)

💌 vertex conjunct moon synastry

💌 vertex in 12th house synastry

💌 vertex conjunct neptune