#lilith synastry

The dark feminine is intimidating and exudes mystery and energetic sexual magnetism that brings shadow energy to the light in those around them. They evoke strong volatile responses in women and visceral primal responses in men. They do not have to do or say anything it is their presence alone that causes this. Her energy is untamed and unapologetic. She does not apologize or bend and will not compromise. She is seen as forbidden fruit or unattainable even within her intimate connections, although the dark feminine energy is carried whether in connection or not. I am going to speak on the most dynamic placements.

Lilith opposite/square Ascendant- She is seen as physically alluring, men and women can project "304" energy onto her, she can be seen as stuck up, unapproachable, or standoffish, as the Ascendant (Rising) sign is connected to the physical body (1st house), how we show up, and our Aura. She can invoke jealousy in other women because of the attention or and primal or visceral reactions she get's from men, even if she is not considered (collectively) conventionally attractive or pretty. She can be viewed as xxxy no matter what she wears and may view herself (in her youth) as unattractive or not good enough and or not recognize her own power energetically. She may attract obsessive partners or stalkers.

Lilith opposite/square Sun- She is a rebellious, and can be egotistical, as the Sun (Leo) is connected to our self worth and our ego. Her all or nothing attitude can be the first impression you get of her. There are power struggles with authority figures, or when she feels she is pushed in a corner or forced to conform.

Lilith opposite/square Mars-She tends to attract men that are abrasive, pushy or selfish, they can be controlling and demanding, as Mars (Aries) is the planet of taking action, assertion, aggression and our xxx drive. If these men have their Mars in a fire sign this energy may result in physical altercations or threatening behavior. Her rebelliousness can be triggering to a masculine who is egotistical, insecure or jealous.

Lilith opposite/square Venus- There is a contradiction between her desire for harmony and partnership and her need for freedom and autonomy. She may seek out non committal or unavailable partners. She may unconsciously sabotage her romantic connections. She is the epitome of "forbidden fruit", she is the "dark divine feminine" in the flesh. She is viewed as attractive, xxxy, and alluring with a hint of mystery. She may struggle with boundaries and may confuse lust with love, she is viewed as seductive and intense, but may struggle with trust or vulnerability in connections.

Lilith square Saturn- She is at odds with embracing her authentic self or conforming to social and community pressure, this manifest as a need to preserve a "good girl" image projected and expected by her family. She could have a strong religious upbringing or affluent family linage. She can be judged or outcast for not fitting into the cookie cutter mold of how a feminine should be or act. There can be shame around sexuality, and pressure to conform. She can attract masculine's who are drawn in by her energy but try to control and restrict her in an effort to humble her or dim her light. Her partners can be jealous, possessive, controlling and insecure.

Lilith in Scorpio or Lilith in 8th House- She is drawn to esoteric or metaphysical practices, she may also be magnetically attracted to problematic relationships or people who need healing or saving. She is naturally a healer and is not afraid of her shadow or the shadows of others. Which may draw in lovers who are wounded, have addictions or obsessive. She can also be obsessive and possessive in her dynamics.

Lilith conjunct/opposite/square MC (10th House)- She has a dynamic energy and draws attention wherever she goes, the 10th house is connected to the career and public so she may not fit into societal norms, she may work for herself or create a business where she is able to utilize her talents and express her individuality. She is the "it" girl, everyone is drawn to her and curious about who she or who she is with. People may gossip about her or project their insecurities onto her. She may have a huge following on social media or public platforms. Her relationships and or private life may be on public display and she may use her xxx appeal to garner attention and for monetization. She may be a healer, tarot reader, astrologer or a high priestess.

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🖤 Girlie pop, how you hurt them is Chiron conjunction with their personal planets, that planet's quality is where you hurt them. I had this man's Chiron conjunct my mercury and nothing hurt him more than my words and communication style 😭 similarly, a man's moon conjuncted my Chiron and nothing pissed me off more than him withdrawing his emotional availability to me 💢 (Yes, when done correctly, Chiron synastry can be healing but no one talks about the downsides)

🖤 why have I never come across a scorpio moon man who likes calm women?? All of them love the kind of woman who is mean to them, berates them and in general can kill with her words. I've always heard shit like, "Yeah, women SHOULD be mean. Why should they be nice?" And I agree as a Scorpio Sun but I won't be mean to my S.O. (wtf is wrong with y'all??)

🖤 Want to lose weight? It's so easy to do so in your Saturn return (age 27-30) or when you're going through a Saturn heavy period. Saturn aspecting your first house can also have the same effect. Saturn is the planet of purge so he understands you don't NEED those extra fats so he helps you lose it faster.

🖤 Having 5th house placements with no 7th house placements usually means that you constantly end up with crushes and hot, writhing romances but not make the other person commit to you. Not good for long-term commitment imo.

🖤 Conversely, having loads of 7th house placements means constant love triangles, liking people who are already paired up (or them liking you back) or constantly "stealing" partners (even if no fault of your own).

🖤 Another hot synastry: man's Lilith conjunct a woman's mars. They are exactly each other's type.

🖤 Check for astroid lust in synastry. If their personal planets conjunct your lust, they'd be feeling all sorts of ways and feeling horny for you.

🖤 His Lilith conjunct your ascendant is "gosh! I forgot how pretty you are!" Everytime he looks at you and you can SEE it in his eyes.

🖤 If someone's Jupiter falls into your 11th house, you can overall feel very lucky to the house person. They love you for the connections you bring them. This is the same for venus. However, if your mars falls there, they may be secretly competing with you.

🖤 if their moon is your rising, you'll hear them constantly say "I aspire to be you" and mean it.

🖤 Very specific but I feel as if anytime a man has hurt me, I've had either Lilith-Sun/moon/venus/mars synastry with him where I'm specifically the Lilith person or nodal synastry where my nodes are conjunct their personal planets. This is true even for friendship synastries and at times they won't be intending to hurt me, but they will say something or do something and it annoys tf out of me. On the flipside, while Pluto synastry makes me feel obsessive over the other person, I've never been hurt by them. I usually obsess and then move on if it doesn't work.

🖤 my people with mars in the 12th house, are you prone to psychic attacks?? Or is it just me? 😭 I also lucid dream between my nightmares and wtf 😒

🖤 Something that I've realised about libra women is that them daddy issues are almost always there. The sun is in detriment in Libra and it shows. With that, they either show too much naivety or too much cunningness and it shows. It can also come across as people who get easily influenced from other people's opinions or styles. May not happen if they have strong uranus or Neptune influence or if their moon is strong.

🖤 Mercury dominant women love to play the wolf in sheep's clothing archetype. This can also be true for Rahuvian women. Being the "darker" side of the moon, they feel the need to keep illusions to test people. Mercury women are smart and that's why they love to play dumb to understand people and see what happens when they are given free will (as in how they'll treat her, if they have evil intentions towards them because most people who want to take advantage of you will let themselves slip if they think you're dumb). They also do it because they want to get things done without putting in too much effort. Rahuvian women though, do it for the plot. Literally! They want see people's reaction and gauge their own judgement based on it. Rahu is the planet of illusions. They want to create that to understand people's projections on to them and the world. Afflicted moon women also do this but they are a bit more naive in my opinion but they do love to lie or create some illusion. Lol.

🖤 I've realised that people with strong moons understand public attention as social currency. This makes them very prone to caring about their image in public. Can also be 1 house or 10 house stelliums. Weak or afflicted moon natives do not care about their public image and don't care or depend on it.

There are certain synastry aspects that create, initiate, sustain, and eventually bring a relationship to its final point. This process is so captivating that those influenced by Neptune perceive it with a grand, romanticized imagination; those influenced by Mars see it as a thrilling adventure; and those influenced by Venus have already lit their scented candles in a corner, setting the stage as if to enjoy a gentle spring breeze. None of these feelings are wrong. Or perhaps they are but one truth remains these aspects present you with pain, then step aside to watch how you 'communicate' with it. Remember, the aspects mentioned are highly specific.

Neptune Conjunct Ascendant + Neptune in Aspect to Other Personal Planets in Synastry

Neptune conjunct Ascendant synastry is always defined by a sense of familiarity. But there is something special here. Beyond Neptune making an aspect to the Ascendant, it also forms a distinct aspect with the personal planets. This is where the 'fantasizing' will continue to a certain point, and then... it will bring awareness.

'I had dreamed so much when I saw you that now... I don't recognize you.'

The romance and affection brought by the Neptune-Ascendant aspect eventually give way to a long face when you see them (the Neptune person), restless shifting, and constantly sweeping your important issues under the rug. Because there is no softness here. Yet, there is also no argument, violence, fight, or abuse. Only uncertainty. And believe me, uncertainty is just as bad as abuse or violence. Because this harms you directly. It’s a perception as if your mind is constantly playing games, as if you are the only one looking through the wrong window in your relationship. This is frightening, inexplicable, and harmful.

Venus Conjunct Pluto + The Venus Person Having Mutable Sign Placements in Their Natal Chart

You (the Venus person) are the one who softens everything uncontrollable between you, and they (the Pluto person) are the ones who can never deny this lack of control but make things difficult. This happens in a typical Venus-Pluto relationship and can even define the relationship's very identity. You might perceive these couples as: 'They share deep things with each other and don't involve anyone around them.'

'We are more worried that they will leave each other while they are fighting [than they are].' 'They experience their private moments only when it's just the two of them, yet their fights are always in front of people.'

But what if the Venus person has strong mutable placements in their natal chart?

This is what creates a breaking point. Venus, whom Pluto is dependent on, now reveals a sense of fluidity. While one day they are dizzy with passion, the next day you might see them avoiding Pluto so that they cannot be reached. The toxic part is that Pluto is drawn even more to this duality. Pluto, playing the most obsessed role in the Venus + Pluto relationship, transforms its 'heavy' love into a more dangerous form of romance by trying to adapt to Venus's fluidity.

Moon Opposite Mars + 8th/12th House Overlays

Do you know how the sensitivity of a touch heightens passion? Have you ever tried it? How an instinctive desire surges within you from just a touch on the back? Moon-Mars synastry is here, and it will show you exactly that. How you (the Moon person) feel affectionate within Mars's enthusiasm, and how you fear them when Mars is enraged. If you have a positive Moon placement (a natal chart where the Moon is positioned 'comfortably'), you will have unconditional compassion for Mars. The same applies to the Mars person's placement. Let’s look at this synastry where emotions and anger flow rapidly through the layers of the 8th and 12th houses. This is an overwhelming reality you wish to forget. They love each other. But the places where they touch one another hurt. The fights wound your own childhood (the Moon person’s). Every word spoken to you returns to that child like a slap.

Mars Opposite/Square Ascendant + Lilith Synastry

That one person from whose gaze, touch, and warm conversations you derive the most pleasure. You may experience both softness and harshness, yet some feelings seem to hang suspended in the air. As if something is missing... That is where Lilith enters. She will complete what is missing, but from a perverse angle. There is nothing worse than harboring a sense of hatred toward someone you are so deeply attracted to. It hurts. In the room, there is only desire and rage; nothing else remains. And you watch helplessly from outside the room. You cannot enter and bring order to these feelings, because it is out of your hands. With every event that unfolds, you will find yourself justifying the desire a little, and the rage a little.

Mars Square Pluto + The Pluto Person Having Aquarius/Leo Placements in Their Natal Chart

That relationship where the window of violence is wide open. For the first time, a Pluto that 'does not want to change' feels so uncomfortable in this role that they may become hostile toward Mars. Mars is confused, because from the very beginning, they have been trying to figure out a Pluto they cannot physically resist. Pluto is highly restless and active but has no idea what they are doing. Do they want the relationship or not? Perhaps the roles in the relationship have shifted. While Pluto is usually the immobile side the one who can always measure the situation and take calm steps if necessary in this relationship, they are the side that doesn't know what to do, gets bored, and ultimately runs away.

Generational planets such as Pluto, Uranus and Neptune in the 1st house can indicate great fame, since these planets have to do with large crowds of people, causing the native to attract or exert great influence.

Mercury in Aquarius/11th house be careful not to become what you most fear becoming: dogmatic. No matter how formed your opinion is, don't let it become fixed to the point of being your greatest truth.

The 3rd house is very elastic, the one who will define its energy most precisely is the sign in it.

Moon/Venus/Mars in Scorpio/8th house, go practice the Law of Attraction, you have a very powerful aura, you are wasting time if you don't use all this magnitude to get what you want.

You know that Mercury in Scorpio/8th house person you teased? Good luck trying to hide anything from them, in love or hate they will discover your secrets and, if hurt, they will use it against you.

12th house placements, please stay more in touch with the people you love, they miss you. If the distance you maintain is self-imposed, don't forget that the people in your life love you, that they want to have a little more of your physical presence.

My dear Leo, be careful with who you spend your affection with, you give so generously, be careful not to give it to the wrong people, the ones who are secretly jealous of you, who talk about you behind your back. Your heart of gold can "rust" in the wrong hands.

Aquarius placements, get ready, because the definitive entry of Pluto in Aquarius on November 19th of this year until 2044 will be the craziest years of your life. Get ready, there are a lot of big profound changes coming.

Mars in Pisces would do very well if they worked with their mediumship, whether in tarot or astrology or in art.

10th house placements always attract 2nd house placements people, it's incredible. They generally get along very well, they understand each other, they can be very good friends. The 2nd house supports the ambition of the 10th house, the 10th house values ​​and pampers the 2nd house.

lilith's role in synastry does not only involve lust and chaos, she's also the mirror, what makes the bond feel magnetic but dont interpret this as something that can always be healthy. it speaks of projection, obsession, struggle with power along with fears and fantasies.

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LILITH PERSON ⬎

⚸ stereotypically can be manipulative towards the house person. could be considered as a "predator" and not in a manner of evilness but more of chasing after the house person, or feeling like they have to chase their feelings from the house person.

♱ can also find the house person and how they interact with the world hypnotic and they likely admire them. on the other hand if poorly aspected it could manifest into the asteroid person finding the house person and how they handle themselves and the world as taboo and annoying.

⚸ sometimes might feel like they have to continously be sexual to catch the ascendant person's attention, lilith person might unintentionally become overly sexual to please the house person, if mercuries are positively aspected, both sides can speak about what makes them comfortable and uncomfortable.

♱ lilith person might be able to open up about their life experience to the house person, both of them could have similar upbringings but the lilith person expands on how negative and dark the world can be. it's a type of dynamic where lilith person feels like the house person is the only person that can understand them and this can create an unhealthy dynamic.

⚸ due to the lilith person being able to express the taboo and the alleged negatives of the world, this can make the house person put them on a pedestal. lilith person could feel worshipped by the house person but it could get really uncomfortable if both are not careful.

♱ the type of overlay where the lilith person might want to trap the house person. if the person is unhinged enough it speaks about possibility of the lilith person trapping house person through pregnancy or even manipulation, isolating them from other people.

⚸ lilith person could like to rage bait the house person, they know how to trigger them, make them jealous. they could be someone who likes the feeling of being able to get underneath their skin.

♱ the lilith person can come off as the house person's dream lover. lilith rules over glamour, even glamour magick but sometimes glamour can ware off but it depends how the lilith person behaves. they could be someone's dark fantasy in a body or someone's darkest nightmare.

⚸ unintentionally, the lilith person makes the house person come off as more charismatic. there'll be this need to impress the lilith person, like being able to match their intensity. though it could be switched, if the lilith person feels like the house person won't accept them as they are, they become someone who they think the house person wants. the type to wear another persons skin if they have to.

♱ this overlay can indicate jealousy as well. the lilith person might perceive the house person as someone who is more socially acceptable, so they could obsess over what makes the house person more special or graceful to other people.

HOUSE PERSON ⬎

⚸ okay not to start off negative, but it could insinuate cat-fish energy via personality. the house person could see the lilith person in a positive light and then it flips but it could also manifest into a circumstance of enemies to lovers/friends.

♱ there could be an intimidating feeling the house person could get from the house person as well, this could also manifest into the lilith person appearing into the house persons dream. house person is very impacted by the planet/asteroid individual.

⚸ though if romantic/sexual connection, the house person is easily turned on by the lilith person. how they move, look or speak could be considered hypnotic to them. the house person if unprepared or naive can become easily played by lilith person.

♱ the house person can easily become influenced by the lilith person. the house person likely wants to impress them because they could be perceived as cool and a rebel. if there is a lack of independence, there could be a dynamic of monkey say, monkey do.

⚸ the house person could be introdcued to divination by the other person. at first could be wary about it but the lilith person might be able to read out points in their lives other people have not recognised that makes them believe.

♱ in a sexual chemistry this dynamic is very intense, this is the type of dynamic where both people open doors in their life they wouldnt experience with other people, unless there's 5H, 8H and 12H synastry but similar to the 12H, both people would unlock etheral yet intense emotions they have held back for a long time. this can also call for emotional sex, peeling and revealing layers that one person might've been ashamed about.

⚸ house person could learn how to be more independent because of the lilith person. they're influenced to take a more claim over their own lives. house person could be used to following traditions and lilith person basically shakes their world.

♱ this overlay is an indicator of having a psychic bond with each other. could feel when each other are anxious, sad, sexual or happy. its a type of dynamic where both people bounce off each other, if there is a lack of indepndence both people can become one, copying and feeding off of each other's behaviours.

⚸ house person could have sexual fantasies of the lilith person. even imagination that is hardcore, this overlay shows that the house person's mind is opened to new ideas and scenarios they have not thought about before, if poorly aspected there could be this uncontrollable urge to have the lilith person to themselves due to how intense the feelings and imaginations can get.

♱ the house person could also become very protective over them, especially if the lilith person has shared her life experience with the house person. it makes them hyperaware of potential dangers for the lilith person, it could also become smothering. but if lilith is poorly intentioned, they could use their victim mentality over the house person. house person can become blinded to the potential dangers the lilith person can bring.

⚸ people could find this dynamic strange or pulling. people could be surprised by the two of them getting together, or just getting along because they could be such opposites, but this reaction could be because outside people might actually "not" know who they actually are, this is what makes the "you and i" bond more prominent.

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❤️‍🔥 Lilith 1H Synastry ❤️‍🔥

For this post I am going to use she/her pronouns for Lilith, and speak from Lilith's perspective and from the house person's perspective. This is a requested post

TW: sexual abuse, exploitation, fetishism

Lilith 1H Synastry can be really intense and for both parties. I feel in the first house, Lilith is establishing her most primal raw sexual desires, and it shows through the dynamic between both people.

The first house is all about your body, your essence, your identity, how you present yourself to the world, etc. Lilith represents the taboo that we carry with it ourselves, she represents our shadow, and our most raw energy. Someone has their Lilith in your 1st house (or vice versa) they can see you in a way that could leave you feeling naked.

For the 1H Person

They could feel heavily watched by them. Typically when the two of them meet, it is usually the Lilith person that makes the first moves because they are more of the bold character out of the two of them. When they first meet though, it kind of feels like the Lilith person can't keep their eyes off of them. It feels like they are magnetized by house person's beauty or their physical appearance and to house person, that could feel a little daunting and a little exposing. It's because Lilith is not only watching them, she's studying them, observing their patterns, desiring them from afar. I feel like in a lot of ways, the house person becomes a conquest for Lilith at some point, usually in the beginning of the relationship.

I find that the house person can be subjected to a lot of Lilith's freaky, taboo, and weird desires. I think that if badly aspected and there are no boundaries in the connection, the house person can be subjected to sexual exploitation or abuse but that is not likely the case. Lilith is so sexually drawn to the house person that it could feel like a compulsion to want to be with one another. The house person could feel the same way but I do feel that most of the time, it's the house person trying to develop a deeper connection while the littlest person is trying to focus on the sexual connection and pretty much use the house person to fulfill their sexual desires and needs.

Not only does the house person start feeling overly sexualized by lilith, but they also feel like they're put on a weird pedestal by Lilith. They could feel mythologized by Lilith, and while this could have been appealing to them in the beginning, to be worshiped, observed, desired etc…it starts to slowly tear at the house person's self-esteem and confidence. The house person goes from feeling very desired and very confident and very feminine/masculine around Lilith, to eventually feeling dirty and used and like a second choice and like a dirty little secret. I think that the things that the house person essentially really enjoyed and desired from the Lilith person eventually morphes into their worst nightmare.

Another thing about Lilith is that wherever she touches, she tends to hide from the world. So when she is in somebody's first house in synastry, she wants to hide the house person. This is why the house person eventually feels like a secret. Lilith wants to tuck house person away from the rest of the world and keep them for herself, or keep them away from other people. In a lot of ways this could make the house person feel like they have to surrender to Lilith or like they don't have the freedom to be with who they want to be with, but feel like Lilith has that freedom.

The house person could feel like Lilith is projecting a sexual fantasy on them all the time, and it could make them sort of feel like a sex object. Now, sometimes the house person finds this very empowering. They definitely enjoy the attention that Lilith gives them so naturally and they might have a kink for being praised lol. But this is the synastry that can take a turn. I feel that sometimes the intentions of Lilith aren't so genuine and the attraction that they feel towards the house person could be more about pleasing a kink that they have.

This is where the house person could step into dangerous territory with lilith. Not only does Lilith have a sexual fixation on the house person, but Lilith could be fetishizing the house person. I feel that this is more serious in this synastry because the first house rules the self and your essence so when Lilith fetishizes the house person, its usually over things like their physical appearance. Or over their body parts.

In a bad scenario, Lilith could fetishize the house person for being a different race. This could be like one of the main reasons why Lilith wants the house person. Race play could be thing in this relationship. Lilith person might get more turned on or "hot" with raceplay, roleplay, bdsm, or other sexual/taboo things when it comes to the house person. It can be uncomfortable because Lilith could really fetishize the house person's body or features based on these racial sexual preferences that the Lilith person has and it's kind of gross imo.

The house person could be younger than Lilith and so there's a taboo element to the connection. But honestly, it doesn't feel great for the house person over time. Maybe the house person isn't fully aware that Lilith is likely with them because they're of a different race, ethnic background, age, cultural/social background etc. But over time, patterns of the Lilith person will expose the true nature of their feelings for the house person.

There is also a strong sexual chemistry between the two people and it is very addictive, but I think that if and when there are problems it is because the Lilith person takes things too far sexually. Or, they are too intense and if it is something that the house person is attracted to in the beginning, it'll be something that they hate over time because eventually it's just cringy lmao. In the best manifestation there are boundaries, respect, and a high sex drive between two people. In the worst, there is boundary violation, there's disrespect, there is exploitation, and there just might be lackluster intimacy.

For the Lilith Person

When I say that Lilith falls for the house person the second they lay eyes on them, I mean it. It is an immediate attraction that feels so overwhelming, they could feel a serious rush of energy when they first meet. It's like they have to get to know the house person, they have to be around them, be in their world, etc. This really reminds me of like every moment that Joe from You meet his next victim lmao.

It's intense for both people but I definitely feel like Lilith feels it a lot more than the house person because when Lilith sees the house person, it is an overwhelming feeling of wanting to get to know the house person and wanting to cater to the house person.

I don't think that this is like Lilith's natural inclination to want to be submissive to anybody, but I do feel that when they meet the house person they either want to submit to them in terms of providing, giving them their all, etc. Or, they want to conquer the house person. Either way, it feels like Lilith wants to merge with the house person but they come off very aggressively and it's almost awkward for both parties but specially for Lilith because again this is not what they do with people.

I think with this specific synastry, Lilith is not used to chasing so maybe this is a dynamic where they have to. The trouble is that Lilith develops complicated feelings for the house person almost right away and it's not always a good thing. I don't think that Lilith is just willing to give over their energy to the house person so they do it sort of reluctantly and while trying to hold on to their own independence and their own intensity.

Lilith will learn right away that the house person is perceiving them as too aggressive and instead of reeling it in a little bit, they take it very personally. Lilith needs to learn that to get the house person to open up to them and be vulnerable, they have to have a gentler approach. Will this could be very demanding and very aggressive and with the wrong aspects, this could be seriously troublesome for the house person.

The Lilith person could hate how attracted they are to the house person because it feels unexplainable unavoidable, and all consuming. I also feel that the house person awakens something that's been hidden within the Lilith person and it's sort of causes a ripple effect with how the Lilith person acts towards the house person. For instance, the Lilith person can have an insatiable sexual desire for the house person based on their preferences that they don't just openly talk about our share, or based on fantasy that they have had but have never felt comfortable playing out with others.

Lilith feels comfortable exploring these dynamics with the house person because the house person lets them be who they are. But I do feel that there is a serious lack of control that the Lilith person feels around the house person and because the house person can lack boundaries, I definitely feel that Lilith can get what they want from the house person in almost a manipulative way. Both people can definitely be manipulative towards one another, especially Lilith if they feel like the house person is pulling away from them.

In a lot of ways, Lilith unintentionally triggers the house person's insecurities because Lilith herself embodies those things very naturally. I don't think that Lilith has the need to filter themselves in the real world, while the house person might feel like they have to.

I feel that self-esteem plays a major role in how Lilith perceives the house person and vice versa. If the house person is a confident person, then Lilith could either worship the very ground that they walk on or try to destabilize them and tear at their confidence. Unfortunately Lilith can try to humble the house person. That would more so depend on what is going on in the chart, though.

This synastry could manifest into a beautiful relationship if there is mutual respect, strong self-esteem on both ends, confidence, and healthy boundaries. But it will always be intense because that's the nature of lilith. There is high chemistry here but there is also high projection, and the relationship could feel highly triggering as well. This is a good aspect for high eroticism between two people, but if poorly aspected, could lead to a very jealous, obsessive, and toxic dynamic really quickly.

Thank you xoxo🖤

finding 'the one' who fits perfectly? | Synastry | Astrology observations

first question is: 1. what does this person need in a relationship? what feels essential for their emotional security, what wounds, attraction patterns?

2. starting with the natal chart e.g. if someone with their natal signature doesn't 'need' peace and rom-com vibes as their fuel in relationship. they may look for depth that transforms. a harmonious synastry might feel boring or unfulfilling to them. >> karmic relationship >> Why you attract gossip, betrayal, emotional parasites >> Why Is It Difficult for You to Fall in Love?

we look for how the energies interact, the maturity of both people, the full chart context, and the aspects involved

3. every synastry placement brings both light and shadow.

1st / 4th / 7th/ 10th is foundation of stability, solidity, familiarity in the connection. yes, it is like you have known each other across lifetimes or built something real together. that's why we tend to feel a fated, long-term relationship. it feels like coming home, at the same time, taking each other for granted, without 3rd / 5th houses can also make things feel heavy on responsibility rather than joyful.

>> Synastry - Intentions & the Nature of the connection >> 8th House synastry collection >> relationship that are “Difficult to break”

4. specific planet matters.

e.g. Mars in the 7th house overlay - intense partnership energy, passion, directness. Mars person activates the house person's 7th house, often strong attraction, assertiveness, competitive. push and pull, conflict, drive - so disagreements can quickly turn personal, heated struggles.

Venus in the 10th house overlay - Venus person brings harmony, and appreciation to the house person's 10th house, feel more valued, attractive in public image, supported in goals, value-aligned bond, but it can also create a status-oriented, performative relationship, pressure to maintain appearances.

Sun / Moon / Venus in the 5th House - fun, flirtation, creativity, romantic spark - Sun person brighten up self-expression and joy, Moon person brings emotional warmth, Venus person adds affection, pleasure. good for dates, laughter, shared hobbies, passion projects, love attraction. e.g. Virgo in 5th - discerning, service-oriented, perfectionistic, connection may begins as entertaining/playful can shift into critical analysis, romance becomes practical/problem-solving, one person may start "fixing" the other's self-expression, turning the light-hearted vibes become a duty-oriented, analytical connection. e.g. Aquarius in 5th - innovation, independence, the connection may stay fun and intellectually stimulating, unique dates, quirky humor, but it can turn into friendship with benefits, emotional distance, unpredictability.

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4. planetary aspect

Uranus aspects in synastry - electric sparks, sudden, distance, unpredictability, excitement. but If one person has a fiery, heated temperament, quick to anger, passionate arguments, intense emotional expression, in healthier expressions, this can turn into change and growth, keeping the connection alive.

Pluto Aspects in Synastry - karmic intensity, soul recognition, magnetic pull, obsession, power dynamics, jealousy, secrets, third-party but for those with Pluto in the 7th house in natal chart - they attract Plutonian people and dynamics naturally. Pluto synastry hits them hardest and fastest, these connections feel like home because they mirror their core relational dynamics.

Self-knowledge comes first. Understand our natal chart then we can meet synastry energies consciously. it's a map for growth. <3 ride the dynamics with curiosity, boundaries, and compassion.

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🪽 Moon in 8th house synastry can become obsessive if the Moon person is not careful.Moon person is very interested in the 8th house person's emotions, mind and body. The Moon person thinks of the 8th house person as a secret they can never solve. They trust each other a lot and this is a very intense and difficult bond to break.

🪽 Jupiter in 2nd house synastry the Jupiter person supports the house person materially and spiritually, invests in the house person, buys gifts for the house person and makes them happy. Jupiter person praises and glorifies his/her partner in front of people.

🪽 Mars 1st house synastry the Mars person finds the house person physically very attractive and interested. Regardless of the sign of the ascendant, he/she finds the ascendant fiery. Mars person angers and irritates the asc person in order to arouse a reaction and interest in the 1st house person. The 1st house person feels the confident and masculine energy emitted by the mars person and sometimes finds it excessive.

🪽 Lilith conjunct sun moon venus in synastry if lilith is male he becomes obsessed with the planet person .lilith sees the planet person as someone he can never reach. if it is the sun he fears if it is venus and moon he is drawn to her femininity lilith sees the planet as forbidden. if not careful it can easily become an intense deceptive toxic relationship

🪽 Sun 5th house synastry makes you feel childish self-confident. the sun person falls in love with the house person. they spoil together, have fun and enjoy doing activities. they cannot take their hands off each other. they may even want to have children together. The ego of the sun person increases next to the house person.

🪽 Vertex conjunction venus synastry can make the meeting and relationship of venus and vertex person feel like fate. they feel as if they have known each other before, they change their destiny together.

🪽 Venus 7th house synastry is like a dream for a romantic relationship. they feel that they complement each other. they are understanding and loving towards each other. they both feel as if they have found their ideal partner. it is a harmonious romantic emotional relationship.

🪽 Mars 3rd house synastry, the house person admires the way the mars person expresses himself and the way he thinks. they find each other mentally attractive. they like to make jokes and joke with each other.

🪽 Lilith 10th house synastry, the lilith person sees the house person as someone who has the potential to become famous. The lilith person feels the need to prove himself to the 10th house person. they may want to make enemies instead of supporting each other in their careers.