#south node synastry

🖤 Girlie pop, how you hurt them is Chiron conjunction with their personal planets, that planet's quality is where you hurt them. I had this man's Chiron conjunct my mercury and nothing hurt him more than my words and communication style 😭 similarly, a man's moon conjuncted my Chiron and nothing pissed me off more than him withdrawing his emotional availability to me 💢 (Yes, when done correctly, Chiron synastry can be healing but no one talks about the downsides)

🖤 why have I never come across a scorpio moon man who likes calm women?? All of them love the kind of woman who is mean to them, berates them and in general can kill with her words. I've always heard shit like, "Yeah, women SHOULD be mean. Why should they be nice?" And I agree as a Scorpio Sun but I won't be mean to my S.O. (wtf is wrong with y'all??)

🖤 Want to lose weight? It's so easy to do so in your Saturn return (age 27-30) or when you're going through a Saturn heavy period. Saturn aspecting your first house can also have the same effect. Saturn is the planet of purge so he understands you don't NEED those extra fats so he helps you lose it faster.

🖤 Having 5th house placements with no 7th house placements usually means that you constantly end up with crushes and hot, writhing romances but not make the other person commit to you. Not good for long-term commitment imo.

🖤 Conversely, having loads of 7th house placements means constant love triangles, liking people who are already paired up (or them liking you back) or constantly "stealing" partners (even if no fault of your own).

🖤 Another hot synastry: man's Lilith conjunct a woman's mars. They are exactly each other's type.

🖤 Check for astroid lust in synastry. If their personal planets conjunct your lust, they'd be feeling all sorts of ways and feeling horny for you.

🖤 His Lilith conjunct your ascendant is "gosh! I forgot how pretty you are!" Everytime he looks at you and you can SEE it in his eyes.

🖤 If someone's Jupiter falls into your 11th house, you can overall feel very lucky to the house person. They love you for the connections you bring them. This is the same for venus. However, if your mars falls there, they may be secretly competing with you.

🖤 if their moon is your rising, you'll hear them constantly say "I aspire to be you" and mean it.

🖤 Very specific but I feel as if anytime a man has hurt me, I've had either Lilith-Sun/moon/venus/mars synastry with him where I'm specifically the Lilith person or nodal synastry where my nodes are conjunct their personal planets. This is true even for friendship synastries and at times they won't be intending to hurt me, but they will say something or do something and it annoys tf out of me. On the flipside, while Pluto synastry makes me feel obsessive over the other person, I've never been hurt by them. I usually obsess and then move on if it doesn't work.

🖤 my people with mars in the 12th house, are you prone to psychic attacks?? Or is it just me? 😭 I also lucid dream between my nightmares and wtf 😒

🖤 Something that I've realised about libra women is that them daddy issues are almost always there. The sun is in detriment in Libra and it shows. With that, they either show too much naivety or too much cunningness and it shows. It can also come across as people who get easily influenced from other people's opinions or styles. May not happen if they have strong uranus or Neptune influence or if their moon is strong.

🖤 Mercury dominant women love to play the wolf in sheep's clothing archetype. This can also be true for Rahuvian women. Being the "darker" side of the moon, they feel the need to keep illusions to test people. Mercury women are smart and that's why they love to play dumb to understand people and see what happens when they are given free will (as in how they'll treat her, if they have evil intentions towards them because most people who want to take advantage of you will let themselves slip if they think you're dumb). They also do it because they want to get things done without putting in too much effort. Rahuvian women though, do it for the plot. Literally! They want see people's reaction and gauge their own judgement based on it. Rahu is the planet of illusions. They want to create that to understand people's projections on to them and the world. Afflicted moon women also do this but they are a bit more naive in my opinion but they do love to lie or create some illusion. Lol.

🖤 I've realised that people with strong moons understand public attention as social currency. This makes them very prone to caring about their image in public. Can also be 1 house or 10 house stelliums. Weak or afflicted moon natives do not care about their public image and don't care or depend on it.

Disclaimer: These are just my observations. If they don't resonate with you, simply read and move on. Additionally, most of what I’m saying here is based on straight relationship patterns. That’s because, in my experience, certain planets and points (like Mars, Venus, Eros, etc.) tend to act a bit differently depending on whether they show up in charts for women or men. That being said, the astro tea can still apply across all kinds of dynamics—it just might look a little different depending on the people involved. Let's start then!

Juno-Moon conjunctions usually point to marriage. Doesn’t really matter if it’s the guy or the girl who has Juno. Even if the conjunction is up to 8 degrees apart, it still seems to count. Honestly, sometimes just having Juno and the Moon in the same sign is enough. I don’t get why some people insist it has to be under 5 degrees…

I also notice Lilith conjunctions show up a lot in long-term relationships. People have a hard time letting go of that Lilith person. But it needs to go both ways—if both people have Lilith connections with each other, it works. If only one person does, it usually turns into a one-sided obsession.

One more big thing for lasting relationships: positive Saturn aspects in synastry. Especially Venus-Saturn. Those can make things last way longer than you’d expect. But here’s the catch—if the Saturn aspects are only positive, it can start to feel like you’re stuck in the relationship. Like, even if it’s time to move on, it’s hard to let go. That’s why it’s actually better to have a mix of good and bad Saturn aspects. But yeah, more good than bad if you want to stay together and not lose your mind.

Chiron-Mars conjunction sucks—especially if the guy is the Mars person. You know how women usually expect the guy to take action or make moves? Yeah, well, when the woman’s Chiron is conjunct the guy’s Mars, his actions—or lack of action—tend to hurt her a lot. And when the guy gets angry, the woman will get hurt a lot by his actions/lack of actions during the fight. Great times.

Sun-Venus aspects in synastry are super important in relationships. It’s better if the aspect is a positive one. Also, progressed charts count too—but just for a limited time. Once the conjunction vibe fades, so does the magic. And in progressed synastry, keep the orb tight—3 degrees max. Here’s a an example: say your partner’s progressed Venus is conjunct your natal Sun. That means their taste, what they find beautiful, and what they’re drawn to... it all lines up with you. Like, you’re literally their type. In this dynamic, the Sun person (aka you, probably) kinda takes the lead, and Venus is like “yes king, shine your light.”

When Mars and Sun conjunct in synastry, it’s hot—but if the woman is the Mars person? It’s like she sees the guy and thinks, “Yes. Him.” And everyone else is like, “...Really?” lol She’s drawn to his core vibe, his essence.

Asteroids are often underrated when it comes to synastry, but honestly? Eros and Psyche aspects hit different. Especially when Eros is the guy and Psyche is the girl. It’s giving “the body finds its soul” energy. When these two connect in a positive way—like a sextile, trine, or even a conjunction—it creates this deep, almost spiritual bond. Personally, I’ve only experienced the sextile, and even that felt more meaningful than any of my other relationships. I can’t even imagine what the trine or conjunction would feel like. Couples who have these aspects are very lucky.

When Saturn and Moon connect in a positive way, it’s like emotional stability enters the chat. Saturn, the responsible one, steps in and says, “I got you,” and Moon believes it. Saturn brings that “I’m not going anywhere” energy, and the Moon loves that. This is seriously one of those aspects that helps a relationship stay solid when things get messy.

12th house Venus experience is interesting. It’s always like “Does that person like me or not?”. You cannot be sure about their true feelings towards you. Even when they try to show affection, it just creates more confusion. You’ll be sitting there like, “Okay… he brought me coffee… but does that mean he loves me? Or is he just polite? Or is this coffee a metaphor for rejection?” Lol That person can’t show you his love to you in a clear way. Either you just feel that they love you deep down… or you’ll never fully get it on a conscious level.

If you’ve got your South Node sitting in the 7th house and someone’s personal planets conjunct it… buckle up. That person is gonna feel like home, a soft hoodie for your soul. It’s so cozy and familiar. Letting go of them? Not happening. At least not in your mind. You might know it's not perfect or even healthy, but the connection hits that nostalgic part of your brain that makes you think, “They came back for me. Like we planned.”

That's it for today, guys! Hope you like it, see ya!

Lilith Square North Node (Synastry)

Ooh anon, worried is one word for it....fascinated is another👀

A 0 degree square between your Lilith and your boyfriend's nodal axis is not a background aspect. That's Lilith planting herself directly at the bending of his nodes and refusing to move......let me explain what that actually means.

His North Node in Sagittarius is the direction his soul is trying to grow toward expansion, truth, freedom, belief, the willingness to commit to a philosophy and live by it. His South Node in Gemini is where he is comfortable, where he defaults scattered energy, collecting information without landing anywhere, talking around the truth instead of arriving at it.

The work of his soul in this lifetime is learning to stop circling and start committing and to trade cleverness for conviction.

And then there's your Lilith in Pisces. sitting at the exact degree of that axis squaring both nodes simultaneously. In evolutionary astrology this is called a skipped step. It means your Lilith represents unresolved karmic material that sits directly in the path of his soul's growth. He cannot move cleanly from his South Node comfort zone toward his North Node destiny without reckoning with what your Lilith carries.

Pisces Lilith is the wound around dissolution around losing yourself in something larger around the terror and the longing of surrender around spiritual bypassing, using transcendence to avoid accountability. Around the places where boundaries don't just bend but disappear entirely.

What this aspect says is that your capacity for boundlessness, your relationship with the uncontrollable and the unknowable, your Lilith wound and your Lilith power both are something he cannot look away from. You will activate in him exactly the thing he most needs to face. The places where his Gemini South Node wants to intellectualize, rationalize, keep things light and moveable on the other hand your Pisces Lilith will not allow that. She is too deep, too oceanic, too unwilling to be summarized.

This can be extraordinarily transformative and it can also be destabilizing if neither of you understands what's happening.

Should you be worried? not exactly and don't worry about the gif I chose 😂 but you should be paying attention. This is not a casual aspect. Your presence in his life is doing something to his soul's trajectory whether either of you intends it or not. The question worth sitting with is whether your own Lilith wound is being activated in this dynamic too because a square works both ways. Have a good day🌻🌻🌻 !!!!

Hiii! 💖

Anything conjunct the South Node in synastry will immediately feel like "we've known each other before" because it symbolizes a past-life connection.

With Venus conjuncting the SN, they were a lover in a past life. If it wasn't that, I'd say they were a very loving and caring friend who helped you on your path.

Hey baby!!!

I haven't been called sexy in awhile and babe, does it feel good!

I don't know who you are or what you look like but I'm sure you're sexy af for even sending through an ask like this.

Let me answer this question for you while I watch American Horror Story: NYC

I love AHS so much and the first 4 seasons will always be the best IMO for plotline.

SUN SIGN-NORTH NODE SYNASTRY

Disclaimer: This is for delusional purposes only and should not be taken seriously.

If your partner's Sun Sign matches your South Node then you will feel a sense of familiarity with this person because they have the traits that make you feel at ease.

South Node: the traits of your past like that are easily accessible to you in this lifetime.

North Node: traits in this lifetime you are meant to hone and learn to harness, traits that are difficult for you to develop naturally.

Any matches in North-South Node always indicate KARMIC influence but doesn't necessarily mean a SOULMATE connection.

So, to answer your question.

Sun- North Node and Sun- South Node synastry 90% usually mean a past life connection...it may not always be a past life relationship...you could have been friends or even family in a past life.

But it definitely indicates a past life connection.