Mauswife is another trad transphobe with a poll (the grandparents one.)
Thanks for warning me!
(And yes, for anyone wondering, I do always check warning asks like this. and I guess now I'll be checking all polls I reblog, too)
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Mauswife is another trad transphobe with a poll (the grandparents one.)
Thanks for warning me!
(And yes, for anyone wondering, I do always check warning asks like this. and I guess now I'll be checking all polls I reblog, too)

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nerianasims replied to your post āI know it would have cost more money to maintain, but Seven of Nine...ā
I'd have liked if she'd have slowly gotten rid of a lot, but not all, of the Borg stuff and switched to a regular uniform.
Iām imagining a version of the story where she modifies it - never stripping the armor off, but refining it, perhaps changing it to Starfleet colors over time, to play with the ideal of Star Fleet not destroying the cultures it interacts with, but slowly finding ways to coexist with them.Ā Instead of having to turn her back on the borg, Seven of Nine becomes proof that the borg, alien as they are, can be convinced of a better way of doing things.
replies, wedding reactions
ladyarrowhead replied to your photoset āErin Jakobsons becomes Mrs. Erin Huckleberry!ā
That wedding dress �� Itās so elegant, right? Almost inapropriately so XD (This default, HERE!)
create-a-sim replied to your photoset āMededith: So you crazy kids actually went through with it?...ā
This made me laugh :D Same, Erinās speech bubble??? girl, TMI!
tamtam-go92 replied to your photo āDuncan: Look, I really am sorry about the woohooing-Vivian thing. And...ā
Oh man, I would slap him. I think the sheer audacity is the only thing saving him, lmao
mikexx2 replied to your photoset āDuncan: From this day forward, in this world and into the next⦠jeez,...ā
This is actually going ahead? ��
Normally Iād give a terrible decision like this a little evaluation time but this is a legacy and Duncanās already running behind! Weddingās going ahead, nevermind the fact itās an absolutely horrible idea XD
mikexx2 replied to your photo āDuncan: Look, I really am sorry about the woohooing-Vivian thing. And...ā
Heās the shittiest founder ever, and I mean that in the BEST way! This is 100% how I feel too. I knew a romance founder was going to be tricky but genuinely havenāt played such an unapologetically terrible sim in years, itās so much fun!
nerianasims replied to your photo āDuncan: Look, I really am sorry about the woohooing-Vivian thing. And...ā
All this is just making me ship him with Aiyanna harder.
(Shhhhh, me too)
tamtam-go92 replied to your photo āDuncan: Another drink, please! Bartender: No way, if youāre...ā
Im seriously laughing my ass off right now.
tamtam-go92 replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
That's a surprise! O-O
aondaneedles replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
Rebound!!!
elfpuddle replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
Wait?! What?!
charmandersims replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
Did not see THAT coming :O
nostalgiastardew replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
we love a train wreck marriage
episims replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
The furcoat lady's expression though xD
sushigal007 replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
OOOOOHHHHHHH
deedee-sims replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
Well, that's unexpected
ladyarrowhead replied to your photoset āDuncan: Have I ever told you Iām madly in love with you? Erin: I...ā
WHAT WHAT WHAT WHAT Genuinely suprised me too! I had Vivian and Aiyanna as the favourites to win in my head, Erin seems like such an odd choice... not entirely convinced it isnāt a rebound thing, lol. Or maybe her relative stability is attractive to him?
ladyarrowhead replied to your photoset āAlon: Look, Iāll level with you. It sounds to me like youāve made your...ā
If Alon is still single by Gen 8, my heart is already set on him ��������
nostalgiastardew replied to your photoset āAlon: Look, Iāll level with you. It sounds to me like youāve made your...ā
Alon didnāt sign up for this
Alon is best boy <3
nerianasims
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T.B. killed real women. 30 of them. Real people. ...
My husband just pointed out that David Fury, who was a writer on Buffy, said the same thing about women who liked Spike. Thatās two Whedon-adjacent men with the same policing of womenās fantasies.
Considering the way Whedon treated Charisma Carpenter irl and how much of a wankfest personal fantasy his āwaifā figures are--up to and including making a mindwiped ādollā woman show--.... itās interesting, how utterly compelled they are by their own fantasies of power, control, and sex.
And how women who dare to like a hot villain deserve to be reminded of the fact that irl men kill women.
Their love, for a sibling or a Bad Girl? Overcomes all obstacles. Who cares if Loki is a mass murderer? His brother loves him! It is potent and powerful.
Women... just ought to shiver in a corner and be grateful when weāre lucky enough to be called upon to by their desire. Donāt get above yourself. Donāt fantasize about what you love or feel or want mattering to anyone. Ever. Donāt believe for a second you get to have a power fantasy without being humiliated for it.
I'm loving Princess of Swords. It's particularly great to have now in such a stressful time. My favorite is unquestionably Kay, but I'm really enjoying Mordred too -- in a very different way. Also Morgan's awesome. And Lancelot being in his idiom cracked me up.
I should have had the cart driver or a squire be there but mortally wounded (āActually, Iām feeling much better!ā) by an arrow.
Thank you so much!Ā Iām always anxious about writing Kay in particular, because I want him to come off as a jerk with a heart of gold, not just an unpleasant asshole.

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nerianasims replied to your photoset āHart Recent upheavals have left Valentine and Candy...ā
My Candy's always been a good mother. She let someone who could connect with babies take on most of the childcare while her kid was a baby, rather than sticking the poor baby with a distant caretaker. Then she took over when the kid grew into someone she could see as a person. (As definitely NOT a baby person, I identify.)
Good point. Personally Iād have been a terrible mother, the kind who starts off giving too much and then having a breakdown and having nothing to give. Candy in my regular Widespot is a pretty good mom, too, all things considered. She let Goldie, Val, and Rhett do most of the raising when Arden was a baby, got a little more involved with him as a toddler, and then moved downtown with him when her income from writing books and wringing money out of Rich and Junior was secure enough. Ā She even fought a burglar who got too close to his room once. Ā She won, too. Ā And never told him about it, because she wants him to feel secure.
Maybe she spoiled him a little and gave him Mommy Issues, but sheās got Daddy Issues herself, and itās not as if anybody knows how to raise kids without those, anyhow. Ā If we demand perfection before we acknowledge good parenting, weāll never see a good parent.Ā
replies re: leaving tumblr and dreamwidth
nerianasims replied to your post āpossibly leaving Tumblr...ā
I'm posting my Sims content -- and any other creative content -- on DW. They have dedicated picture hosting (though not much yet), and you can substitute a heart emoji or something for likes. It suits my style of writing and reading so much better too. Tumblr's basic design has always given me a certain level of anxiety anyway.
I would miss the short burst format, but I think I can adapt since I already have been consolidating all my short posts into longer round format anyways. But I do miss the quick and easy engagement of likes on Tumblr, although the heart emoji is a nice substitute. It definitely has its pros and cons!
mortia replied to your post āpossibly leaving Tumblr...ā
tumblr is definitely pissing me off but i don't think i can do DW ever again. it's just too slow for me and the need for third-party hosting and not being able to just post in quick bursts is a killer. plus no phone app is a dealbreaker.
I havenāt had any issues with Dreamwidth as far as slowness, and I could live with third party hosting since Iāve been using it for Dreamwidth thus far anyways. But yeah, I would miss the ease of the Tumblr platform and the being able to post in short bursts! I like being able to be engaged in the community on such an active level, rather than having to wait to finish a round and edit all the photos and only being able to post every so often - it feels less active to me, now.
emoslasher replied to your post āpossibly leaving Tumblr...ā
Im also reaally giving up on this site. They flag all of my LGBT content and pictures of clouds??? Ugh.
Ugh yes! Like most of the things I get tagged are just completely inexplicable - pixel semi nudity is the closest thing to understandable I can see. But the fact that it is so clearly NOT reviewed by a real human ever, but they make you jump through hoops just to find it and appeal it, and then the algorithm just decidesĀ āNOPEā and you can no longer appeal it is just inexcusable.
fuzzyspork replied to your post āpossibly leaving Tumblr...ā
I hope that people who are switching to other sites at least come here to link to the new stuff. Maybe with a preview pic (sfw obviously. *shakes head*). I think this site works better as a broadcast medium. DW and sites like that are better for in-depth content. Tumblr as a "quick look" of what other simmers are posting on their websites is probably what we should have been using it for all along.
Oh I definitely would! Iām not 100% decided, but if I did go that route I definitely wouldnāt pack up my toys and leave or delete the blog or anything like that. The biggest thing I value about the Simblr community is the connectivity and communication that this platform had been able to afford us. Itās losing that with all of this crap theyāre pulling by pushing people away, and it makes me really sad! But I would always do whatever I could to keep people in the loop with what I was doing and where I was going, because keeping the community alive (wherever) is what itās all about to me!
necile replied to your post āpossibly leaving Tumblr...ā
The more I use DW, the more I prefer it. There's more work involved (at least for me, since the rich text editor is broken, so I'm forced to use HTML. No one else I follow seems to have that issue though), but DW's content ToS is really open. It feels less connected than Tumblr, since you can't like or reblog posts, but sometimes that's nice. It's more intimate, I guess?
I wish I could figure out for you about the RTE! The only thing that seems to be broken for me on it is using the cut feature. I write my whole post with RTE but at the end I switch to HTML to put in the cut tags because it never works otherwise. So strange! Iām hoping though that with an infusion of new users lately, perhaps DW will have more resources to work on some of the programming bugs or features that need streamlining. It would be great to have a substitute that works just like Tumblr (or for Tumblr to have not bumblefucked around like this in the first place) but in lieu of that I am ok with adapting to another format that doesnāt constantly mis-flag my content and leave me with no way to fix it. And yeah, about reblogging I feel that! I donāt reblog on my main but I have a side blog I use exclusively for reblogging, just for CC I want to download later usually. Itās nice to know Iām not only indexing something for my own reference later, but helping add notes to someoneās post at the same time!
nerianasims replied to your post āSo, I genuinely donāt know where Iāll be posting after this purge...ā
Come to Dreamwidth! They don't have native image hosting, unfortunately, but the community is great. My Sims blog is nerianasims on Dreamwidth too (though there's nothing there yet.)
Itās the image hosting thatās my biggest pain with dreamwidth at the moment, but I also just like how easy posting on tumblr is. Was. Because this is a sim blog in theory I shouldnāt be touched by the purge, but itās frustrating for my other blogs, not to mention itās annoying that Iām supposed to go back through my blog to try and find out what was wrongly flagged since they donāt seem to notify you.