The biggest take away from KS

negative stigma about mental health problems in the media and especially in communities of POC is so fucking damaging and tiring. and no one talks about it. even people i know that are #woke still have these ridiculous outdated opinions about mental illness, because its not an interesting ‘clickable’ topic to discuss in mainstream media. 

"Men, and particularly boys and men of color, are generally discouraged from seeking any kind of help at all — let alone help with mental health issues."

Combating the Negative Stigma Surrounding Testicular Cancer

Unlike other illnesses, mental disorders aren't the type of problems that result in you going to hospital until you're better. You won't find yourself surrounded by family, friends or even doctors which know exactly how to help you. You won't be told, "I love you", or be presented with gifts and get well soon cards. You won't have someone to hold your hand until you're well again, to promise you things will be better, to make you believe it. Instead, you will be made to feel ashamed, alone and awkward. You will be presented with unbearable silences, avoidance of the subject, and unwillingness to help. You will be greeted with arguments, tears and all the stuff no one talks about. But why should it be any different?