I'm trying to shift from being primarily on Twitter with this information to here since it's less chaotic, but too many of these pages are ran by teenagers romanticizing this journey.

By no means am I mad at it, I'm actually quite happy so many young girls are even dipping their toe in these waters, it will set them up for abundance and success... but I'm looking for the girls who live this life. Have made the mistakes and bounced back. Can tell me the difference between meeting a man at an upscale hotel bar vs. at the gym or country club. So if you're one of these women, feel free to interact with this post and hopefully I'll connect with some like minded women.

Dating /Marrying up

Many girls ask how they can marry a millionaire, while working as a cashier in a store

In reality ; if you are not Pretty Woman , who was a young prostitute, with an older man , btw ,

you can not

This however is NOT what I mean by marrying up anyway

These are examples of marrying up .

💁🏽‍♀️⬆️ : Date /marry men WITHOUT children

If you do not have children yourself, date men who do not as well .

Why?

Men with children have less money . Bc he needs to financially support his children ... as he should . If he has numerous children , by various women , that is a strong indication that he is an irresponsible, reckless , dumbass that you should avoid anyway .

Remember true wealth is money coming in , not going out .

Children is money going out

💁🏾‍♀️⬆️ successful women with financial success should date up the most

I have seen to many successful women (mostly older ) so desperate for cock that they have men living in their homes taking care of them as if these men were their children

Firstly if you marry one of these worthless men , he will be entitled to spousal support , bc he is a stay at home “househusband”💩

A financially secure lady in my church almost lost her mind bc she had to give such a man 1/2 of her income …that she had worked years to build on her own

These guys need to remain boy toys , not husbands❌.

I also notice that successful Black female rappers never appear to date /marry outside of their rapper niche , mostly to men below them 💩

Instead , they should use their privilege to date wealthy business men , company owners etc

No matter how much money you make , the man should earn MORE

That is Smart Black Girl Math

💁🏿‍♀️⬆️Ordinary men who are leaders

This is where most women will land , and that is perfectly ok.

Sales girls : If you work as a cashier , your focus should be on the manager , regional reps , or buyers , NOT the hourly wage guy

Office workers: normally most spend too much time attempting to attract the married boss. This is a losers game bc he must divide his profits with his ex wife (which is only fair )

Instead seek a single man with leadership skills or in a leadership role

This could be the head mechanic , grocery store asst manager , etc

Or a man you can clearly see with direction who is going to go far in life

This is important to understand if you are a young pretty girl wanting to marry a young handsome guy

I was in love with a very leadership oriented redneck guy from high school. He protected me in school , and built a house for me in the woods , with his brothers

Currently he owns a business with the skills that were apparent that he had even then

I am still so very proud of him ❤️🥲

Marrying a man that is visibly showing success, will give you a better life ;

which is Smart Black Girl Math❤️🌸

credit: Brittany from RoyalNewsNetwork on Instagram 20. December 2022

While getting married, a groom broke up the marriage without finding goat meat in the menu given to the bridegroom.