#dating rules

Attraction Principle #9:

If the choice is between her dignity and having a relationship, the bitch will prioritize her dignity above all else.

Like I mentioned two posts earlier, I’m creating a life so full that a man has to earn a place in it.

📌 If you missed it, read it here: 🔗 The Unattractive Energy I Didn’t See

And that’s exactly the mindset you need.

Men respect women who respect themselves. When you let your dignity take a backseat to a relationship, you’re telling him that your worth depends on his presence. And trust me—that’s never attractive.

That’s why you put yourself first. Your goals, your glow-up, your money, your peace. When you make yourself the priority, men naturally work harder to fit into your life.

Who is Shera Seven & Why You Need to Know Her

If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve probably seen me mention Shera Seven multiple times. And if you don’t know who she is, let me introduce you to her lore—because if you want to level up your mindset about men, money, and relationships, she’s a must-watch.

Shera Seven is a feminine strategy coach who teaches women how to navigate relationships from a position of power. She emphasizes that men naturally chase what they can’t fully have, and the moment you make yourself too available, too accommodating, or too eager, you lose your leverage.

Shera Seven’s Core Teachings:

✨ Men are providers. If he’s not providing, he’s not worth your time. ✨ Be the prize. You don’t chase men—they chase you. ✨ Always have options. Never invest in a man more than he invests in you. ✨ Stay mysterious. Never let a man feel like he has you 100%. ✨ Live your best life. A man should be an addition, not the goal.

📌 Watch her here: 🔗 Shera Seven YouTube Channel

The Bottom Line:

Dignity first, always. A man should never feel like he has you on lock. Your attention, time, and presence should be earned—not given freely.

💬 What do you think? Have you ever put a relationship before your dignity? How did it turn out? Let’s talk.

Dating Rules for Girls with No Boundaries 1

For girls who want to date seriously.

So, so many of my friends are in awful relationships. And there’s one common thread- they let the guy treat them like absolute shit.

Another thing I noticed was that there’s no boundaries. There’s no rules. They change their schedule for the guy, they postpone their plans for him, everything runs as per him. There’s no emotional independence, and they get attached to men in a matter of weeks.

I hate seeing my girlfriends like that. But apart from telling them to end things, there’s nothing else I can do.

Here are some rules that if you struggle to have boundaries, should consider following for better relationships. Please note that time doesn’t matter in a relationship. However, I do feel that things move too quickly nowadays and there seriously has to be a minimum date limit for certain things.

In the first part, we’ll discuss things you can choose to do before your date.

Do:

* have an understanding of what you want. Do you want a relationship? Do you just want sex? Are you bored?

* Look your best and feel your best. It really does help confidence.

* Shave everything, if you prefer being hair free.

* Wear nice underwear. Please do not have sex on the first few dates. But wearing sexy lingerie for the thrill of it and only you know - that’s hot and independent.

* Smell nice. Carry a small perfume, lipstick / lipgloss, cash/ card, portable charger or just the charger cord, keys, gum.

* Carry your wallet, even if he’s going to pay. I’ve heard the weirdest stories about men not paying for first dates.

* Be clear about any dietary restrictions beforehand. It’s definitely a good idea to tell someone casually that you don’t drink, or if you don’t eat a certain thing.

Don’t:

* Drink/ smoke up and go. Unless the weed is medication that has been prescribed for anxiety or anything.

* Go to a shady place. If it’s an area or a restaurant or a bar that you’re not comfortable going to, say so.

* Give him your exact address. If he’s going to pick you up, ask him to come to the nearest street/ grocery store- but not your exact address.

* Go if you’re not interested or if your friends are begging you to. Don’t waste his time or your energy.

* Go to his place. Please. Just don’t.

Bare Minimum:

* Offers to pick you up (and has a clean car)

* Pays the first date… and takes you to a decent place

* Is clean, well dressed and nice smelling

* Holds the door open for you

* Doesn’t order food on your behalf

* Asks questions and is interested in learning more

* Wishes you goodnight and makes sure you’re home safe

* Communicates whether he had a good time or if he thinks it’s better off if you don’t see each other again

Green flags

* good communication

* Doesn’t touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable

* Ensures that you’ve eaten well

* Appreciates how you look and dressed

* Wants to try one of your hobbies

* Tried his best to make you laugh and feel comfortable

* Has a steady income or at least a solid plan of where he wants to be

* Ambitious and independent

* Can think independently, and isn’t afraid in speaking his mind

i fall in love with people im friends with for a while so a lot of dating rules dont make sense to me. the weird "you need to know these things 6 months into your relationship" questions i alrwady knew within the first week of knowing them before we even started dating because we were friends and they were just regular topics!

honestly what is a "talking stage"? people have tried describing it to me but its just... being friends? yeah theres an end goal but youre literally just friends??

and i just found out about the "honeymoon phase" where after 4 months you just stop loving them because you realize they have flaws?? were you not friends before dating?? shouldnt you know this already?? theyre a person of course theyre going to have flaws youve been together for 4 months how did you not notice it until now??

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