A/N: I recently learned more about attachment styles and I really love the Pedro Boys headcanons in the fandom, so I decided to make one of these myself with the help of @din-damn-djarinā (Thank youuu!). Excuse any weird wording, I wrote this fatigued as hell.
Fictional!Javier PeƱa - avoidant
Homeboy has been through some shit in his love life. With the way he treats his job and sex, Iām certain the man is avoidantly attached, if not anxious-avoidant. I think if he had any time to think about love heād be more anxious-avoidant, because he would have time to crave that love. But here he is with his job and his little flings. Our boy needs some therapy.
Din Djarin - anxious-secure
There is a reason almost all of us write this hunk of metal the same way in our fanfics. He is distant, trying to protect his heart and creed, until you crack him and then he is definitely more clingy. I think he leans towards being securely attached actually, but that doesnāt surprise me, he grew up with loving parents. If anything changed his attachment style itās the very conditional love within his covert.
Marcus Pike - anxious
Oh boy, youād think this man is securely attached, but he is fast moving and that is a trait of people anxiously attached. He leans towards codependency for sure. Heās pouring into other peopleās cups before he fills his own. I donāt blame him, he just wants to be loved and give love, but maybe he should train his self-compassion muscle a little more. We love that man so much, because he reflects a lot of us in his attachment style imo.
Marcus Moreno - secure-(avoidant)
He has a ton of securely attached traits which is amazing for Missy growing up. Since grief is a very tricky thing he is still avoidant of relationships and if he tried dating heād likely feel like he shouldnāt been doing it. Once heās got a handle on how to grieve and honor his wife while dating, heāll likely enter a pretty secure relationship again.
Jack Daniels - anxious-avoidant
Heās been through hell and back. Trauma on two feet. Can be an asshole, has unhealthy coping mechanisms and a lot of shit to heal. He wants love and also pushes it away. He needs some serious therapy. This man has a high chance of ending up in a highly toxic relationship, for real, for real. His fanon version is thankfully more secure-anxious leaning.
Dave York - secure-avoidant
I mean he do be married with a kid as far as Iām aware. Means he is securely attached for the most part. At least when it comes to romantic relationships. With what he does as a character Iād have to say that he leans towards avoidant though. Heās just not giving me fully secure vibes and it aināt because heās anxious.
Oberyn Martell - secure
He knows when to ask for what he needs, knows how to fulfill his own needs, doesnāt depend on other people to love him. Man has a good concept of self-love I would say. As long as you are okay with an open polyamorous relationship, heās probably a good person to learn to heal with. Poster boy for honoring your truest self and executing your core values (and dying for them, RIP).
Frankie Morales - anxious-secure
He is a people-pleaser, hates being violent, has PTSD. Perfect mix for someone anxiously attached. But he also has leading qualities, knows what he wants and has boundaries that heās usually trying to uphold. So Iād say he is a mix between anxious and secure when it comes to attachment. Iām sure he did some therapy at some point, maybe he needs a little more when it comes to his most recent adventure.
Maxwell Lord - anxious
He wants to do right by his son and the people he loves. Heās a people-pleaser and craves the same attention and love too. He feels dependent on the approval of his son and since he now knows that he has that from him unconditionally, I really hope it set a good foundation for him to heal his attachment style towards secure and go to great lengths to promote the same growth in Alistaire since heās at a high risk to become either avoidantly or anxiously attached.
Ezra - secure
That man has his boundaries, his interests, cares about himself, reads and is well connected to his mind. For the situations he is in, he copes pretty well, so heās definitely securely attached as far as Iām concerned. I donāt see him being anxious, avoidant is also not a word Iād describe him with. Secure in space, who wouldāve thought?
Max Phillips - avoidant
Man can flirt for days, but doesnāt want any commitment. His the poster boy for avoidant attachment. He likes his independency, and he likes his power. God forbid he has to be interdependent with a woman. Nah, he likes his women non-commited.
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