Elder Abuse ~ How to watch for and prevent it
Elder Abuse, what you can’t see could be hurting someone you care about deeply. Most would never think of physically, verbally, sexually or financially assaulting our older parents, our grandparents, or our elderly neighbors. However, situations like these are on the rise. What is elder abuse: Elder abuse is violent or abusive harm done to an older person by a family member, a friend, staff in a residential setting or hospital setting, and/or someone the person relies on for basic needs.People whom abuse older adults are usually in a position of control or influence over their victims, almost to the extent the abused depend on them for food, shelter, finance, personal care, companionship and more.
A few specific situations: ·Physical – slapping, hitting, pushing, forcible confinement ·Sexual- any unwanted form of sexual activity, or comments ·Financial – forcing an older adult to sell things, stealing their money, committing fraud, misusing power of attorney ·Neglect – Abandoning an older person, withholding food, or healthcare, deliberately failing to give an older adult what they need ·Mental – humiliating, insulting, frightening, threatening or ignoring an older person
Some of these are not just abuse they are crimes. If you are witnessing someone go through any of these things please contact the police to have them investigate.
Why does Elder Abuse Happen? Old age is difficult for people for many reasons; Failing health, reduced income, loss of meaningful role, death of loved ones, limited vision, hearing and mobility.
What do Victims of Elder Abuse Need? ·The abuser to stop the violence, exploitation, neglect ·Safety, Shelter and access to financial resources ·Home Support services so they will not be dependent on the abuser, housing options ·Emotional Support, counseling, and greater inclusion in the community ·Information about the law and the criminal justice system
Elder abuse is a complex problem there is a great need for organizations to advocate and protect our most vulnerable through educating older adults and younger individuals on the different types of elder abuse to keep an eye out for.
What can you do? Look for organizations in your community that are working together to eradicate and educate the public about elder abuse. Take part, and educate others about what you are learning. Report situations or circumstances that cross the line. Be the change you want to see.
For more information go to www.itsnotright.ca