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can INTJ be a procrastinator especially when it comes to things they’re not interested in?
I suppose that if it’s something you truly despise or something that is uninteresting to you, then yes, you’re more likely to procrastinate. Honestly it depends on each individual. I typically don’t procrastinate very much, but I’m sure a lot of INTJs do.
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I'm an INTJ, I'm a good friend of this INTJ girl. I never ever had feelings for someone before, now all of a sudden I don't know what is happening to me, I feel things, we are friends only but I feel things, which is weird. should I talk to her less to kill the feelings? I don't want to say something and lose her! feelings are confusing! what to do?
Hello my dude, chilax. Feelings are tubular, I promise.
Your feelings don’t have to get in the way of the relationship, really. Just keep going with your gut. You miss her and feel like meeting her? Ask her to go for a walk or something. Repressing feelings never works, even though it makes you guys (INTJ) feel in control of them. What you are really doing is making them stronger until they can overrule you.
You can’t lose people, bro. You just never have anyone to begin with. Just appreciate you came across someone so amazing it makes you feel the feels and enjoy the time you have with her.
– INFJ
I did my test and it say I am an INTJ. I can be affectionate when I want to and hug my friends and sisters when I feel like it but I keep seeing people say that INTJ are not affectionate at all. I’m confused if i’m truly an INTJ or not.
If you don’t feel like INTJ is your type, you could take the test again and answer the questions more accurately if possible.
Another thing I should mention is that INTJs are affectionate, especially with things they love like their friends or family. Every INTJ is different in the way they show affection. Some INTJs like to give hugs, others will write notes and some will give gifts. There’s many different ways, but I hope you get my point.
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask!
Hi, I have debated the whole day wether I should write this question or not but I'll just ask, two weeks ago I realized that I love someone, it was a turmoil, I even had a panic attack because I felt so overwhelmed and scared, I told that person the next morning because I thought it'll be better (and they are reciprocating them) but I don't feel any sort of better, I still feel so overwhelmed and basically annoyed at myself all the time, Why this supposedly good thing makes me feel bad?
Hi! I’ve never really felt this way before, but I’ll try my best to help you.
You could possibly be feeling like this for a few reasons.
Reason one is that you don’t want to accept your feelings. Sometimes that is a hard thing to do. If this is the case, take a few days for yourself and work them out; come to accept them.
Reason two could be the fact that maybe you’ve never felt like this before and your brain doesn’t know how to handle it.
I can’t really think of anything else. But if these overwhelming feelings continue, talk to someone you trust like a family member or a close friend. And if you need, feel free to message me.
my online intj friend occasionally goes offline without explanation. usually it's bc of her uni or her depression and every time, I feel helpless. I want to comfort her and be there for her but at the same time I feel lonely without her. I'm starting to think I'm being a bit toxic with how I feel and that scares me. any advice?
Sorry for the late response.
It’s not toxic to feel lonely. Everybody gets that way.
As long as you understand why she goes offline occasionally and you don’t bother her too much about it, everything is fine.
Just make sure that she knows you are there for her. I understand you feel lonely when she’s offline but I don’t think it’s being toxic.
If you need to talk or ask anything else, feel free to message me.
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I’m not sure what type I am. On all the tests I’ve gotten INTJ and later I studied the cognitive functions and I’m pretty sure I’m INTJ, however I’m not sure if I have inferior Se, and I’m beginning to question if I have Si and Ne? I think I am an introvert as I’m quiet in large social situations and find them quite tiring and overwhelming, but I can be loud around my friends, louder than some of my other introvert friends. I’m very confused, any way to help me decide what type I am?
Honestly, only you can know what type you are. Do some more research about the INTJ type and the other types.
Another thing to remember is that not all INTJs are the same. We all have different ways we act and do things.
It seems to me like when you are with your friends, you are in a place where you feel more comfortable to relax. But when you are in other social situations, you are less comfortable with your surroundings. Though I don’t know much about you, it seems like you are for sure introverted. The rest is up for you to discover.
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask or message me.
Just read your IXTJs being IXTJs post. Reminds me of how seamless and easy it is to converse and make plans with other XXTJs. I just recently tried putting something together with an ESFP close friend of mine, and he doesn’t even want to give me at least a hint of time or any kind of schedule – he just says “just trust me, I’ll get it to you”. And I’m like, eisuebdjuxrhid it’s difficult for me to naturally do that can’t you just give me at least an estimate of time? He refuses. - INTJ
Oh, I get the struggle. To be fair, these pseudo-science theories can actually help understanding how different people have different minds that work in diverse ways. When I spot xxFPs I try to focus on the advantages of their spontaneity rather than on the downsides. You can be the one setting the major points of a schedule (or just abstractly having them in mind if the xxFP gets overwhelmed by too many plans) and see what they provide you that you lack. I mean, as long as their laxity does not imply irresponsibility when results affect you, I’d try not to stress too much about it – better for you!
– your fellow INTJ
Hey! It's me the girl with the INTP Friend and the squad-story. I've seen someone else ask the question if one could change their type and I have about the same question, but with another story: My younger sister (almost 13 years, if that helps answering my question) did the MBTI-Test not much more than a year ago and just a few days ago and got different results. Seems like I need to write two messages again, sorry, this was part one
part two: A year ago, she was an ESFP and now she said she got ISFJ, what surprised me, especially the “I” because if anyone is extroverted it’s my sister. The thing is, when she got ESFP, I sat beside her when she did the test while the other time I didn’t. Do you think there’s any logical explanation for this change, besides she wasn’t quite honest when she did it on her own? That’s possible, but unlikely. I’m a little confused, please help :)—————————————————————————————-
Hello there, so good to hear from you and to see that you created an mbti blog in the end. On your friend:Â
I can think of two main reasons, not mutually exclusive:Â
12 might be too young, we are all slowly developing and outlining our personality throughout the teenage years.Â
I don’t think binomial tests are too accurate. Binomial in the sense that you are EITHER e.g. S or N. That’s why I am into the cognitive functions theory. Basically, we all have the 8 functions (Ni, Ne, Si, Se, etc.) it is the order of the functions that changes and defines each personality type. There are tests based on the cognitive functions and that might give you a hint. However, I think one of the best ways to type someone is reading on the cognitive functions themselves in order to really understand them, as well as the function order (primary function, auxiliary function, etc.); after an introspective analysis, one might find themselves more in sync with some functions than others (e.g. if auxiliary Fe resonates with you).
We have previous posts on cognitive functions in case that helps you. If you are interested, send us a message and I can try to recommend you some sources.
– INTJ
