Dear Oscar: I follow all your posts. I want to comment to you but I would not know what to say to you. I do have a question. I notice you say I LOVE YOU a lot. When women comment on your posts, you say I LOVE YOU to many of them on the same post. What can I LOVE YOU mean when you say it to so many? Thank you for your question. Please, have no hesitation to either speak to me or comment to me. I would love to entertain and engage what you have to say and I warn you, I may say to you, I LOVE YOU. You ask a high value question. As I answer your question, I want to first share with you that love is what I do. Love preoccupies my thinking. How can I love more people in a way that is beneficial to them? What can I say? What can I do to touch people where they feel and help people heal from their traumas? We all have them. One of the things I must deal with some women from time to time is this example. I have said I love you to a woman. She will see that I have said I love you to another woman or many other women. She gets angry and asks how could I do that to her? If I am engaged in some level of intimate love activity with a woman and say to her that I love her, the words carry significantly more meaning that is private and personal. If I say, I love you because I care about you or seek to affirm you or to help you feel good about yourself; that is an entirely different but affirming transaction. Not everybody can do this. It is who I am. I make no claims to always getting it right but it is not for lack of making effort. I seriously love. I know how to love. I say that without reservation or ego influence. While we can love everybody, we cannot be intimate with everybody. #intimate #intimates #intimacy #intimatelove #entertain #engage #engagedlife #highvalue #preoccupations #beneficial #benefits #private #privatelife #personalize #personalpower #jealousy #jealousyisadisease #insecure #immature #angerissues #angrycat #madwoman #otherwoman #healingenergy #healingjourney #feelgoodvibes ##wordsmatter #possessive #possessiveness #controlling (at Mesa, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvM15iElJpx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1beoybzptv79y
