#infjness

Your heart and my heart are very, very old friends. - Hafez (Poem’s Title is ”Your Mother and My Mother”)

When Admin Kayleigh did this, I wondered if mine was as accurate. Apparently it is.

You know your problems well, maybe too well.

The idea that you might not be able to fix your flaws genuinely scares you.

I just read my diary that I wrote when I was about 16. I just want to tell all young INFJs that it does get better. You’ll learn how to not get hurt by people. You’ll learn how to shut down negative thoughts. You’ll still be the perfectionist you’ve always been and probably still really hard on yourself, but you’ll also realize that’s what pushed you to get where you are now. You’ll also learn how to distance yourself from other people’s emotion, and finally understand not everything is your fault. You probably don’t believe when someone says you this kind of hopeful things. It's hard to imagine yourself being that strong and determined, I know. But you have always been like that. You just need to let more things happen to you and shape you. Don't be afraid of emotion, don't be afraid of new things. Remember, the best quality of you is the ability of reflecting past experiences to become a better version of you.

I am wasting my life worrying about not being productive enough.