#genferfluid

Oh - and this is not news, but I wanted to tell about it: I recently came out to my mother as a gender fluid. I am very feminine in many ways and I really like to be treat myself and feel like a woman, but I just don't like.. When I am perceived as one. At least not always. I don't know, gender is very difficult - but every time I go out to people, I just don't want them to apply some kind of their psychology and ideology on me based on how I look and behave at that moment - I just want to feel myself as much as I can. And I just showed her the comments and messages at blog recently, and she noticed that I was being addressed with "they". And this concept is very new and uncharacteristic for our language (in fact, very even, for some reason we just do not understand this - a respectful address to people in the second person contains a plural), but I explained to her, and said that this is very nice and I feel safe and happy in those moments and we just ... agreed that it was wonderful. And we also realized that, since we both often use different pronouns in relation to ourselves (For me it started at middle school, and I did not understand myself - but quite often there were unpleasant questions from peers for me), and that we we really share this psychology and view of gender, so.. At the beginning of the month, my parent also came out.

My struggle 😤