#dwinsexual

Dwinsexual is an a-spec identity where one felt sexual attraction for most of their life but after a particularly strong/intense sexual moment/relationship all sexual attraction dwindles away and fades. There could be multiple reasons why the attraction faded; the sexual relationship was abusive and all sexual attraction faded for trauma related reasons, after this strong sexual relationship ended they feel like they could be with nobody else ever again because they thought they'd found the perfect person, or the extreme sexual moment/relationship simply made them uncomfortable and the sexual attraction dwindled. Dwinsexuals were born allosexual, but this does not make them any less on the asexual spectrum.

Dwin- From word 'dwindle’. the idea is that this is sort of opposite demi- orientation. A person feels attraction for most of their life, but after a particularly strong/close moment/relationship of a particular attraction, they soon or immediately stop feeling that attraction afterwards, or that attraction slowly dwindles away. It can be combined with different attractions and orientations. So a dwinpanromantic would be a panromantic person who had a strong romantic relationship, but then afterwards they feel no romantic attraction anymore, thus becoming aromantic. These could be because they lose interest in the attraction, or the relationship was so strong that if it ends, they feel like they’re better off not trying again, or simply they just do not want to get into another intense(?) relationship again.

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hi, i would like to claim ‘termless flag 18’ for dwin- orientation, from word 'dwindle’. the idea is that this is sort of opposite demi- orientation. a person feels attraction for most of their life, but after a particularly strong/close moment/relationship of a particular attraction, they soon or immediately stop feeling that attraction afterwards, or that attraction slowly dwindles away. it can be combined with different attractions and orientations. so a dwinpanromantic would be a panromantic person who had a strong romantic relationship, but then afterwards they feel no romantic attraction anymore, thus becoming aromantic. these could be because they lose interest in the attraction, or the relationship was so strong that if it ends, they feel like they’re better off not trying again, or simply they just do not want to get into another intense(?) relationship again.

i would recommend changing the black bars color for specific attractions (romantic, sensual, etc), and then changing the white bar in the middle for specific orientations, although it might be a tight fit. hopefully this will help other people, as it has helped me and a couple of my friends. thank you in advanced.

Sounds like a subset of Fray/Ignota!

Fray- or Ignota- When someone only experiences sexual/romantic attraction to individuals they are less familiar with, and lose interest when they get to know the person

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They can always flip the flag sideways if they wanted to combine!

I think the more close are fraysexual and dwinsexual:

Dwin- From word ‘dwindle’. the idea is that this is sort of opposite demi- orientation. A person feels attraction for most of their life, but after a particularly strong/close moment/relationship of a particular attraction, they soon or immediately stop feeling that attraction afterwards, or that attraction slowly dwindles away.

Fray- or Ignota- When someone only experiences sexual/romantic attraction to individuals they are less familiar with, and lose interest when they get to know the person.

But I’m not sure if you mean the person still feel SEXUAL attraction, if so I think unisexual is the more closer:

Uniattraction: Feeling attraction towards one person and one person only for advanced periods of time or one's whole lifetime.

Oh yeah, I wasn’t trying to imply I couldn’t tell the difference, I was just mentioning the similarities :)