...without me???

holding hands as you talk about what you’ve been up to while lying on the blanket. they listen to your every word, as do you to theirs. the faint rustle of the trees complements your f/o’s soothing voice.

sipping a flask of a nice hot beverage and munching away at your packed lunch. you made it together the day prior, and it’s still nice and fresh. your f/o knows just what you like, they made your favourite especially for today

Context: some folks have decided to create '$afeship' specifically as a selfship tag without 'dangerous selfships' which includes unhealthy/toxic/abusive selfship dynamics and folks above 18 shipping with high school anime characters and other characters that aren't adults in canon.

Because I selfship with multiple villains and I don't particularly like to erase their evil traits, a lot of my selfships are not something that should be emulated IRL so I am considered an unsafe shipper. (also one of my f/os was in high school when he died but he's been a ghost for twenty years so I dunno how that math works)

Either way, I believe 'unsafe' or 'immoral' acts should be allowed to all of us in fiction and roleplay, as long as it is either a) not involving or code for real people, or b) fully consensual on the part of all real people involved.