#confidenceisachoice

The problem isn’t your income — it’s your identity. You still think you need proof before you move. You still think action follows confidence. Truth: Confidence follows decisions. Power follows chaos. Decide who you are — and start acting like it.

really wish this encompassed how great that monologue was, but i’ll just put this here for myself to remember it

SELF CONFIDENCE is something many struggle with yet don’t work to achieve it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ Head down, shoulders slouched forward, shallow breathing, no voice, all in attempt to not be seen or mitigate interaction and potentially conflict. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ LACK of Self Confidence derives from a lack of understanding of your own VALUE. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ You have incredible value within you, hiding your voice with your head down hoping you aren’t noticed is going to dig that hole deeper and deeper 🕳 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ Our perception of ourselves isn’t always the greatest, granted I have felt the same and still do from time to time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ Constantly finding faults and focusing on these, is the fastest way to keep you in a place where there are no positives to be proud of and have confidence in. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ Be confident in WHAT you want, WHERE you’re going, and HOW you are going to get there. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ And never forget that the only opinion that should have influence over how you feel is yourself, don’t be blaming people for the way you feel or your lack of confidence, take charge and embrace yourself 💪🏼 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ Be heard 👊🏼🤘🏼 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀ #beheard #positivemessage #selfconfidence #confidenceisachoice #bodybuilding #grow #offseason #posing #mensphysique #classicphysique #mindset #setyourselffree #letyourvoicebeheard (at The Cave, Corby) https://www.instagram.com/p/B1ZOF8uHavm/?igshid=1gyxynjh806bk