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Detach Yourself From People, Places and Things That Drains Your Energy âŠ

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7 Types of Toxic People to Avoid
People often make excuses for allowing others to treat them badly. They create stories in their head. They change the narrative. He actually cares, he just needs more time. Sheâs not a liar, Iâm sure I misunderstood.
Donât make excuses for people. Listen. Theyâll tell you exactly what they want from you. Theyâll tell you why theyâre in your life. And when they tell you, believe them the first time. When someone tells you they donât want to be with you, believe them the first time.
Donât allow others to push you around. Donât let them make you feel like you deserve to be treated like an afterthought. Donât accept breadcrumbs.
If you allow these people in your life, there is NO ROOM for good to come in your life. Because your mind, your energy, the physical space around you is occupied. CLEAR THE SPACE.
To help you, hereâs a guide of 7 TYPES OF TOXIC PEOPLE TO AVOID:
1)Â Â Â The Narcissist
Weâve all heard this word. What does it actually mean?
The mayo clinic defines a Narcissistic personality disorder as:
A mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
Do you know anyone like this in your life? One of the most important takeaways from this definition is that narcissistic people have NO EMPATHY. They canât understand you emotionally. They canât connect. They wonât understand your feelings or thoughts. Somehow the story gets turned and revolves around them again. These people will often leave you confused. They seem to have it all together, they seem confident, but in reality they lack self-esteem. They need counseling. But itâs not your job to diagnose them, counsel them, or push them to change. They can only change if they want to. In the meantime, donât allow someone like this in your life. They WONâT be a good friend, partner, spouse, etc. Negative people in your life will bring more negativity. Let that energy go. Good energy is trying to find you. Itâs watching you and waiting for you to clear up the space. SO CLEAR UP THE SPACE.
2)Â Â Â The Pathological Liar
Have you ever met someone who lies so much that they believe their own lies? The narrative changes. They create a lie and all of a sudden, reality has changed. Theyâll say things like, âShe was actually spending the night at a friendâs houseâ or âhe was at a guyâs trip, he never saw that woman again.â With these people, pay attention to the details. If you catch them lying to someone else, theyâre probably lying to you too. If they donât have a conviction against lying, theyâre probably lying to you. If they lie about the little things, theyâll likely lie about the big things. If they take a long time to answer your question about something that is a fact, they may be lying to you. Now, Iâm not saying to analyze each person and look for toxic behavior. Iâm not saying that everyone is bad or that anyone is perfect. Iâm not perfect. Iâm saying DONâT INGNORE THE RED FLAGS. Donât get in that relationship if you notice a few red flags. Donât get back with him if you see these issues, if your gut is telling you something is wrong. If you canât think logically and do whatâs best for you, listen to your body. It will start having reactions if youâre making terrible decisions. You may notice that you have a sick feeling in your gut. You may start getting sick every time youâre around your toxic friend. Being around toxic people will have a negative effect on your body.
 3)   The Greedy One
Have you met someone whoâs says that theyâd do anything for money? For a raise? Have you met someone who would lie, commit fraud, cheat out their business partner, or lie to their customer to put more money in their pocket?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be successful. There is nothing wrong with being rich. There is nothing wrong with having a lot of money. BUT LOVING MONEY is a different story. If someone loves money more than they love people, more than their desire to keep their integrity, they WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR MONEY. Donât enter into a relationship or business partnership with this type of person. You wonât even like being friends with a person like this. They will cheat you out of what you deserve. They will throw you under the bus to put more money in their pocket. They will charge you more to put more money in their pocket.
 4)    The Gas Lighter
Dictionary.com defines gas lighting as:
To cause (a person) to doubt his or her sanity through the use of psychological manipulation:
How do gas lighters cause you to doubt yourself? They will lie to you even when you have proof. They will swear and deny their words and actions even though you were present. They will attack your identity and tell you that you are a horrible spouse, parent, employee, etc. They will project their toxic behaviors onto you. If they constantly hurt their spouse, theyâll say that you constantly hurt your spouse and you never shouldâve gotten married. But theyâre very smart and manipulative so sometimes they will complement you. They will make you feel good about yourself. Theyâll gain your trust to only tear you down again. Why? Because it will hurt you more. They will make you feel crazy. They will get into your inner circle, gain your trust and tear you to pieces.
Please, stay away from these types of people.
 5)   The Selfish One
If someone only cares about themselves, they will not be a good friend, spouse, fill in the blank. They will not care about you. Of course, everyone can have a bit of selfishness. Iâm talking about extreme selfishness. Relationships are about give and give. Both sides have to be givers. Both have to think about the person in front of them and want to make them happy. If both parties behave like this, both receive and both are happy. But if youâre with a selfish taker, youâll constantly feel empty. Youâll feel exhausted, ignored and alone. Find a new boyfriend, find a new friend. Have two good friends, have one good friend. Keep your inner circle small and only allow people to be in it who are deserving and worthy of your time, love and presence.
 6)  The One Who Never Apologizes
One of my favorite qualities about a person is their ability to apologize. Their ability to ask for forgiveness. Nobody is perfect. But an apology can heal a heart. An apology can restore a relationship. After forgiving someone, if you continue to be in relationship with them, youâll have an even stronger bond. Your relationship will be stronger. Accepting an apology and forgiving someone gives the other person grace. Think about it, how many times have you wanted someone to offer you grace after a mistake? I know I have MANY TIMES. Apologizing also takes great humility. Donât be in relationship with someone who never admits theyâre wrongs. They are not perfect. They are not God. They are not the sun. The world doesnât revolve around them.
7)Â The Prideful One
There is a verse in the Bible that says âPride comes before the fall.â (Proverbs 16:18) Kingdoms have fallen because of prideful leaders. Pride causes one to be blind. Blind of their mistakes, their shortcomings. Blind to how they treat others. They canât do wrong. Having a prideful boss, employee, business partner, or spouse will bring problems into your life. They wonât ask for directions when they donât know where theyâre going. They wonât admit that theyâve made a mistake. Theyâll blame other people for their mistakes because they can do no wrong. The opposite of pride is humility. A humble person is willing to admit their mistakes. Think about a time that someone told you that they made a mistake. It was their fault. Remember how you felt in that moment. You probably had more grace for them. You probably respected them more. You probably trusted them more. Pride brings destruction. If youâre in relationship with a prideful person, that destruction will bleed over into your life as well.
Iâm not writing this to tell you that all people are bad. Iâm writing this because I walked through a season of being surrounded by these types of people. And in this time, I thought I was losing my mind because I was overwhelmed with the darkness and toxicity that surrounded me. Iâm writing this to tell you that Iâve walked over to the other side, and the light is beautiful here. I hope that you can recognize these red flags and cut out toxic people sooner than later. Itâs very hard. Sometimes you know these people are toxic, but you wish they werenât. You wish they were better because you trusted them. But stop wishing for the truth to change. And trust yourself more. Trust GOOD more than evil. Trust that GOOD wouldnât make you feel the same way that TOXIC energy does. Trust that things WILL GET BETTER when you decide that you are worth more. You are worth being surrounded by love. Take the first step. Remove the bad so that you can welcome the good with open arms.
Set yourself free.
Set yourself free. If something doesnât sit well or right, set yourself free. That includes what and who you follow on the internet, unplug and turn off. You are under no obligation to follow or be a spectator of anotherâs posts on a screen. Unfollow anyone or anything that makes you feel less than, including my account. I mean that. Take care of yourself and letâs take care of each other. On and off our screens. Especially, off these silly screens. Letâs look up, reach out, and touch each other every damn day like we mean it. #reallifeyo #socialmediacare #selfcareeveryday #holywomanhood #holymotherhood #thisismyyoga #writeclubnow #writeyourheartout #writewhatsreal #setyourselffree #beofservice (at California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzgw6HJBCQT/?igshid=wen5bw5ifoay

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