#comittment

i’ve been so valarrpilled for so long now i think about him everyday that im debating dyeing my hair brown after years of rounds of bleach to lighten it to the blonde i want and keeping a streak to tone white just to match him

Ok, people say we give the wrong people the right opportunities and we fall in love with the wrong people. I want to know how. Like if someone is all in and it seems as if they are the one for you and they checked off every box and then out the blue they switch up, how is that on me? I think we need to have a real discussion about this. More women are experiencing disappearing(ghosting) acts from men and then being told that they fall for the wrong people and should love themselves more. I hate when a guy does a girl wrong they always fault the girl and say she needs “to love herself” or when she says she wants love “she needs to love herself.” I can love myself and want love at the same time. Furthermore, I don’t believe in the “right one” cause how do you truly know it’s the “right one.” Thoughts?

There are many out there who need direction. They’re lost or simply in a state of limbo waiting for something to happen. As much as you can do your part, remember that guidance comes from the Almighty. Commit yourself totally to Him and trust Him to unfold a good plan for you!

till it goes without saying, it’s not love (...)