Sun in 1st -> Spouse can struggle with hairfall since young and can deal with self-esteem issues. Also, popular in their profession in some form. Dry Skin. They are the type to dress up in a suit/red dress for a normal date night.
Sun in 2nd -> Spouse can be co-dependent. You will feel exposed around them by how much they know about you. No, you don't need to tell them, they will figure it out themselves. Money-minded.
Sun in 3rd -> Spouse would resemble a lot like their dad and will get along well with your younger sibling of you have one. They talk and behave in a posh way. Keeps their head high.
Sun in 4th -> Spouse would be facing immense pressure from their father/family. For some, spouse may follow their father's footsteps and for others could be self-employed/ or in govt roles. Da man/woman.
Sun in 5th -> Spouse can be the eldest or the only child in their family. They may be child-free, or children are optional for them. Charming and hyper-independent. Childlike & will have a lot of hobbies/ interests.
Sun in 6th -> Spouse is a lonewolf. Little to no friends. They are the type to live in the woods with a pet and not give a shit about anyone. But they can be really committed once they meet their person (you).
Sun in 7th -> Spouse is of higher social status than you. Their reputation affects you, good or bad. People's opinion of you will change after you marry them. They're out of your league and for most people.
Sun in 8th -> Spouse can be a golden child in their home, or their father treats them like a prince/princess. Inheritance from their family. Family-oriented spouse and can be old-fashioned. May like vintage items a lot.
Sun in 9th -> Spouse may have a younger sibling. Their handwriting can be 5/5. Can talk like a motivational speaker or a politician. Well-educated/experienced in life. They're the breadwinner.
Sun in 10th -> Spouse can have a dommy persona and this points to a traditional relationship. May have their own home and such and likely to live luxuriously no matter how much they earn.
Sun in 11th -> Spouse can be childlike and are forever 21 type. They are the fun uncle/aunt at weddings. Big social circle and they can be a chatterbox. They see beauty in everything. Non-judgmental.
Sun in 12th -> Spouse is so responsible and the type who wants to know where you are and what you are up to every few hours. Sometimes a control freak, sometimes lovely. Rough in bed.
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People assume they’re expensive but it’s not always about spending it’s more like they know how to allocate you’ll see a simple outfit that looks put together but the bag, the shoes, or the detail you notice last that’s where the money went same could be with their environment it looks curated, aesthetic, intentional but a lot of it was gifted, found, or repurposed they’re not always big spenders they’re selective about what gets seen they understand that perception isn’t about having expensive things it’s about choosing what looks expensive and sometimes they genuinely think they’re saving money doing this just to turn around and spend it all on one thing, usually the one detail people are actually going to notice it’s rarely random where the money goes
Taurus placements (especially Sun/Venus)
People joke about them having a “green thumb” or you’ll notice they have a lot of plants or flowers around them but it’s not random they’re actually good at keeping things alive, it comes down to consistency watering something even when nothing is happening yet not rushing growth not panicking when it looks slow they notice small changes early and adjust instead of abandoning it that’s why their plants don’t die and if you really pay attention they treat relationships, routines, even money the same way they don’t invest in everything but what they do choose they maintain
Sagittarius placements Moon/Venus/Mars (especially 5th or 7th house)
You’re not really attracted to what’s familiar, you’re drawn to what feels different. A lot of your attraction starts as curiosity, someone outside your usual environment catches your attention before you even realize why.You can be the one everyone expects to go for a certain type and still end up choosing someone completely outside of that. Sometimes it’s the quiet one no one notices, sometimes it’s someone from a completely different background. Either way, it’s rarely the person people thought you’d choose
Venus in Virgo (especially Sun/Rising/Venus/4th house)
It’s not always about being clean it’s about things being where they’re supposed to be they notice immediately when something’s been moved and it disrupts their sense of comfort more than they let on even if it looks like chaos to everyone else there’s a system behind it and when that system is touched without understanding it feels off quickly very “don’t touch it unless you know where it goes” energy
Scorpio placements (especially tied to the 7th house)
People assume it’s just sexual but it’s not that simple. They’re picking up on the intensity, not where it’s coming from.They can go long periods without engaging at all and then completely shift when something actually means something to them.It’s less about desire and more about how deep the connection goes.When it’s tied to the 7th house, that intensity gets focused on one person, who they trust, who they let close, who they’re willing to merge with.That’s why it can feel consuming, but it’s selective.Also they can attract attention they didn’t ask for, but that energy isn’t returned unless it actually means something. They don’t lose control they decide who’s worth that level of access.
This shows up differently depending on your chart. I can pull 5 real observations like this from yours:
A written astrology reading with 5 direct observations about your patterns, behaviors, and emotional responses. Focused on what you don’t al
Time for me to read Anton's chart too. I know this is late but happy birthday to Anton and sorry for making everyone wait this long.
Small Note: He was on a Japanese fortune teller show where his chart was revealed and I calculated his rising sign using that but could only estimate his birth time. This reading will use that estimate instead and be in whole sign system.
Anton's chart surprised me a lot. I never expected him to be so martian all while being ruled by a gemini mars too but after reading his chart while looking at his life it started to make more sense. He also has a night chart so his moon is more active in his chart. Overall he's very ambitious, hard-working and also has great leadership qualities. Although his chart gives off very fiery, restless and impulsive energy, he can calm himself down and carefully think his way through things since he's also born at night.
Scorpio Rising:
Very mysterious, attractive, and magnetic placement almost in a intimidating way. As a scorpio rising, Anton leads his life in a very 'all or nothing' manner. He's quite loyal, reserved and can have a intense presence. He can be easily distrustful of people so he doesn't become friends with people as easily; you'd really have to prove that you're a friend to him or that you'd be loyal to him before he decides to have you as a part of his life. He's also a very resilient person since having a scorpio rising is an indicator of that as well as living a tough life. We probably can't tell since most of us see him on screen, but his stare would be very piercing and intense to look at in real life. Also an indicator of having a strong, sharp jawline. I did try to find more info on his personality that I could use as astrological evidence and wasn’t really surprised when I couldn’t find much on him but I guess that itself is evidence of him being a scorpio rising since they’re known to be private and hidden (or maybe I'm just bad at research).
Chart Ruler in 8H:
As if scorpio rising wasn't, Anton also has his chart ruler in 8H like Eunseok but unlike Eunseok, his chart ruler is mars. He's introverted, mysterious and secretive of course. He also may have made a major life decision which completely transformed his life and shifted his path while he was still young (becoming an idol for example). Indicator of someone who had to experience a lot of hardships early in life. Inheritance will play a major role in his life (he also comes from a wealthy family so this checks out). Much like Eunseok, even the ones closest to him won't get to know him fully.
Gemini Mars in 8H:
Anton is resourceful and intelligent at talking his way out of problems. He can be a very restless and impatient individual (also considering his aries stellium). He'd be great at any games or sports that require quick thinking and body-eye coordination (he used to be a swimmer before he was an idol). Also an indicator of having strong hands/arms or strong lungs. Similar to Eunseok even though they're opposite signs, he may enjoy lighthearted debates but for different reasons. For Eunseok, it's more about his personal beliefs and for Anton it's more about presenting the right information and facts. He may also enjoy word games. Good at multi-tasking; he's able to work on and focus on multiple passions simultaneously. He's also a very strong-willed and mentally strong individual (8H mars) and can recover quickly from painful situations to get back on track. An indicator of being good at managing crisis too. He's able to hide his anger well too, making him unpredictable when angry. That Japanese astrologer said he has a hidden masculine side to him well this placement is actually the indicator for it.
Aries Sun in 6H:
He's self-assured/confident, brave and ambitious. He'd also be well respected in his work-place. He also has sun sextile mars so he’s very energetic and can work twice as much as the average person. Also an indicator of being very ambitious. 6H rules competitors & rivals too so his sun being here means that he's almost naturally able to win against people and overcome daily problems easily. He's got good leadership qualities. He has good hygiene, health and also has the discipline to maintain it. Has great work ethic too and is extremely skilled at what he does; not one to do a half-assed job.
Aries Moon in 6H:
Strong survival instinct. Anton is very independent, passionate and ambitious. He’s a very playful person from the inside but can have some trouble getting that out. He’s got good leadership qualities as mentioned before and is quite enthusiastic and strong willed but can have issues expressing it properly where it’s like he can’t really assert himself without needing the right push and encouragement. I think he got it now though as we see him take the lead more often than before. He has a moon-mercury conjunction so he's also quite emotionally intelligent and is able to explain how he feels logically. This also makes him a well-liked person, to the point where even his haters can't deny his charm.
He has moon sextile neptune, which indicates that he has vivid and rich imagination. Similar to Wonbin & Eunseok, Anton also has a 6H moon, but his health isn't as sensitive as theirs since it's in aries and he also has mercury and sun in the same house. This is also an indicator of being a hard-worker & highly perfectionist person (sorry forgot to put it in the last 2 readings). I’m starting to think that 6H moons might be an indicator for artists/idols because up till now all 3 readings of the members had 6H moon which feels like a crazy coincidence.
Aries Mercury in 6H:
Anton is very straightforward when communicating. This placement usually is talkative and talks very fast but Anton's chart leans on the private side, so I'll say he thinks very fast and can also be a fast & impulsive decision-maker but I do think he's the type to talk a lot online than in real life. He may have trouble with both talking too much and not talking enough like saying too much at the wrong times but then also not saying enough for others. He may also come off as argumentative or sassy at times. He has mercury-moon conjunction as mentioned earlier, this also makes him a very eloquent speaker and very soft spoken (as we all already know) since the moon softens anything it touches and mercury rules speech & voice. Can get nervous and shy when expressing his adventurous side. The only downside I see to this is that he can be quick to jump to conclusions and make rash decisions based on his emotions. He'd be very good at using his intellect to help others, efficient at problem-solving and getting out of problems by talking his way out (combined with gemini mars). Indicator of good, balanced health too. Anton has a really strong mars-mercury mutual reception so I also think he'd be really good at debates and arguments in general like I don't think you'd be able to win against this man easily.
Taurus Venus in 7H:
Probably the best venus placement right next to Wonbin's. Indicator of natural beauty and attractiveness. Has a sensual & luxurious look and vibe to him too. Also has good knowledge of aesthetics. Good placement for any kind of artist since it's also an indicator for having a natural artistic talent. Anton's relationships are peaceful and harmonious. He'd be a very loyal & stable partner. That fortune-teller also said he knows what women would like/want and this is the indicator of it because his venus (which rules women) is well-placed and doesn't seem to have any strong malefic aspects if you don't count outer planets and north node conjunction (if that counts as malefic). So he's easily able to attract people (attracts pretty people often too) to him. He's very cooperative and good at listening to others too. He'd be good at being diplomatic with people he doesn't like so he wouldn't make enemies very easily or just have one-sided enemy-ship lol. This is also maybe how other people view him, yk as a very peace-loving person. He can attract a lot of jealousy though. He has venus square neptune which can indicate that he may put his partner on a pedestal or have a blinded view on his relationships where even if the person is bad for him he can't really see the faults due to him liking the person. He'll have to learn it the hard way sadly. He can also have a blinded view on money; being an over spender for example. Definitely has high standards for partners & relationships too.
Virgo Jupiter in 11H:
His Jupiter is in detriment so he can have problems with being hopeful for things since he has a tendency to look at situations critically and realistically. Anton finds his hope and luck through his group and friends. This also means he can't be lied to easily, combined with his scorpio rising and 8H mars, he's good at analyzing things and also digging deeper to find out. If you want him to believe in something you'd have to give him good logical reasons. Fame and success indicator as it is in the 11H. He's able to find and become close with the right kind of people you know like people who can help him achieve his goals. Another sweet detail about his placement is that Anton finds his hope and luck through his group and friends.
Cancer Saturn in 9H:
He's likely afraid of being emotionally vulnerable. Again problems with having faith and believing and can be critical of religion/spirituality. Or he may be the opposite where he's very strict about religion. Anton may also have very strict morals. He could pursue a degree much later in life.
Uranus in 5H:
Anton's self-expression and creativity is very unique (almost in a strange way?) and could be hard to grasp for many people. We'll be see more of it when he makes solo music and he'd probably make music that would surprise many people. Like maybe a genre that we never expected him to do. He's also the type to rebel through his creative expression. Similar to Eunseok but not as strongly, he could be attracted to unique and weird people like weird in the sense that the people he likes/dates are so different from him that from our point of view it lowkey looks weird. He could have on-n-off or sudden relationships like he suddenly dates someone and suddenly breaks up. Also the type to be detached in dating.
Neptune in 4H:
I read that this is an indicator of someone who has no memory of their birth place as they got separated from their birth place when they were too young which fits well in Anton's case. He could have an idealistic view on family life and home like something very unrealistic and almost impossible to achieve. He also maybe puts his parents on a high pedestal too. Very secretive home life. This is good since he's an idol. His neptune and other outer planets aren't as prominent in his chart so it probably wouldn't affect him as much.
Pluto in 2H:
He might become obsessed with money and having financial stability and success. He can also have an obsessive spending habit and have strong desires to own many things at the same time. Pluto rules over major and drastic transformation so Anton's views on his self-worth and money can drastically change as he ages like he could start off as someone who's very materialistic and money-obsessed but then by the time when he hits like 30 he'd be super anti-materialistic.
He was fun to read for me since I don't usually see or read stelliums in a chart that often. I'm ngl I thought he was a leo rising only for leo to be his 10H instead. I'll update this reading if I learn anything new or find any interesting aspects.
Pluto 4h: 🏠 Changes in the home. Moving into a new place, buying a house, or making modifications/adding new stuff to your current home. Or being at home can transform your perspective of the people living in it, perhaps things you hadn’t noticed start to resurface to the top and make you question everything. If harshly aspected, disruptions at home or with family members, a family member passes away, money scarcity/financial struggles, or loss of a property/the sense of “home” OR emotional/financial stability.
Sun-Mercury conjunction 5h: 🍭 Core identity begins to focus on expressing your true self more openly and freely while also wanting to share your ideas and thinking with those around you. Childlike expression. Get along with kids more this year. Or children represent an important aspect or theme for the year. Children look up to you. Children find you interesting and fun to be around. You begin to embrace your inner child as well, and others can feel and see it.
Saturn 6h: 🪐 Extra responsibility when it comes to working and getting a job. Pressure to get a job. Pressure to grow up and mature. Lessons around working. Supervisors/bosses could be harsh towards you due to mistakes or lack of experience in the work area/field/environment.
What if you don't relate to your Rising Sign? Meet your Chart Ruler
A lot of people don't identify with their ascendant. That's okay. And it might be because their Chart Ruler is steering their chart in a different direction.
The chart ruler is the planet that rules your rising sign (or ascendant). It tells you the moves you make in the world, underneath the style of your Rising.
Aries: Mars
Taurus: Venus
Gemini: Mercury
Cancer: Moon
Leo: Sun
Virgo: Mercury
Libra: Venus
Scorpio: Mars (and kinda Pluto)
Sagittarius: Jupiter
Capricorn: Saturn
Aquarius: Saturn (and kinda Uranus)
Pisces: Jupiter (and kinda Neptune)
(There's a lot of back-and-forth about traditional vs. modern rulerships, but that matters less for this post. We're going to go with mostly traditional, with modern rulers added on for a little flavor.)
Important Distinction
The Ascendant is the filter, the style, interface. It's how you move.
The Chart Ruler is the driver, the body, the animating part. It's the moves you make.
If your Ascendant is your "mask", the Chart Ruler is the person who picked it out.
The Ascendant might describe how you initiate your approach, but the Chart Ruler describes what you're actually trying to do.
Some Examples
You're a Taurus Rising but you feel restless, sharp and intense -- not slow, methodical and grounded? Check out where your Venus is in your chart -- it might be in Aries. If so, your moves might be careful, but the actions they take are a lot more intense than your Taurus Rising gives you credit for.
If you're a Aries Rising but you feel quiet, structured and methodical in your heart instead of brash and confrontational, check out your Mars placement. It might be in Capricorn. (In which case, congratulations, your Mars is exhalted.) You have a lot more stamina, forethought and resilience than your Aries Rising says you do.
If you're a Scorpio Rising but you're charming, bubbly and maybe a little bit scattered, maybe your Mars is in Gemini. That will change how your Scorpio tone plays out in lived reality. (Psst - check out what your Pluto is doing too. It'll show you how your Scorpio depth and intensity is directed and how it plays out. Maybe it's in Libra and you're the world's most amiable Gen-X Scorpio.)
The Ascendant is the hypothetical approach -- all else equal, how do you approach life compared to a different Sign on the horizon? The Chart Ruler is the actual reality -- how does your energetic approach actually show up in day to day life?
Conclusion
If you feel disconnected to your Rising Sign -- you're not wrong, and neither is astrology. You just need to look elsewhere on your chart for deeper answers. There's more to the story. Your chart ruler is you walking that story in your own way. Your Chart Ruler shows you how the Character in your Rising lives, moves and makes decisions.
If the Rising Sign is the Archetype, the Chart Ruler is how you play your position.
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Solar return charts usually last until your next one BUT because the year is almost over, i wanted to look at some of the predictions my chart indicated😸 some of them were WILD so hold on tight!!
DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a professional astrologer and these are just OBSERVATIONS I am doing purely for having fun!! My aspects or placements may not turn out like yours so don’t worry 💕 These observations were made thanks to several already written posts on here about solar return charts, my personal experience and some researches😽
HAPPY HOLIDAY ❄️☃️
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VIRGO RISING: starting with the rising sign. I read on here (I’ll try my best to tag the creators), that the year you have Virgo rising on your solar return chart, will one of your busiest years, and BOY WAS I BUSY. I started college (as indicated with my packed 9th house) and every time I thought I could relax there was a new assignment to do or notes to take for a class. I was practically drowning in homework.
SATURN + NEPTUNE 7TH HOUSE: because I was so busy all the time, i barely had time to really form any romantic relationship even tho I daydreamed about it a lot (Neptune). I was rejecting people + dates left and right, because I was busy but also I am very inexperienced with relationships: so I was sorta scared of diving into them. (Saturn representing blockage and fears in the house of relationships). Another interesting point was me manifesting and visualizing a relationship with a specific man (Neptune)
9TH HOUSE STELLIUM: I not only started college this year, but I also traveled a lot! A lot of my travels were done by plane this year. I went to a whole new country, and visited some family in another country.
4TH HOUSE LORD IN THE 9TH: the 4th house sign is Jupiter, and it’s placed in the 9th house; because I am going to college in a new country, I moved away from my home country. I’m already settled in and I absolutely LOVE the city I’m studying in😸! The people there are so freaking sweet and nice!
SUN + VENUS IN 11th HOUSE: I made sooo much friends this year and I’ve gotten so much compliments 🤭 I also became so confident this year, and that reflected in my reality. Compliments from strangers were so common this year. People would literally walk up to me and tell me the most unique compliments. It wouldn’t be the 11th house if i didn’t talk about social media. I started posting so much more on my socials (which is funny because before my solar return I took a social media break). I gained so much followers and overall focus on posting + creating content. Also I took manifesting seriously this year and gotten so much of my desires.
CHIRON 8TH HOUSE: I avoided having intimate relationships so much this year💀 Not necessarily a bad thing for me, but it’s very paradoxical knowing that I was wishing to have it so bad. I honestly was very avoidant and kinda scared to be intimate because I never experienced it AND before I can be intimate, I have to truly love someone intensely. That didn’t happen so I’m actually glad I wasn’t intimate with anyone. The solar return chart will run all the way to 2025 until my birthday (July 12th) so who knows 😛
JUNO 21°, 1ST HOUSE: I kid you not, a stranger that saw me at my hotel (while on vacation in a foreign country) asked my mom for my hand in marriage 😭😭 my mom speaks little English so he google translated what he needed to say to my mom💀 Juno in the 21st degree makes it interesting because it’s linked to Sagittarius: languages, foreign countries and long distance .
MOON 5°, 1ST HOUSE: I read on here (pls help me tag the creator) that planets at a 5° signify change. The moon is linked to menstrual cycles and because 2024 was a leap year, there was a change in my cycle. I also became better at regulating my emotions (I started meditating, doing breath work and Yoga) and became better at transmuting them so I could persist in my manifestation instead of having break downs about my reality.
LEO MERCURY IN 12TH HOUSE: I DID ACTING!! One of the things I manifested for myself. I did theatre and I had so much fun playing the character. The ugly side was that I was extremely drained from doing homework, coming late from rehearsal and I was barely sleeping + eating (literally had a breakdown multiple time and I was hopping they would kick me out the show). One of the directors (FUCK THAT BITCH) literally didn’t care fr and acted like she did. It’s a relief my mom came to visit the week before the big show and stayed with me till now. I was well fed and had so much energy because of it. Show went extremely well and my cast members kept mentioning how much the audience always were more responsive when I was on stage, so that made me so happy that they loved it🥹 One thing is that I’m never joining the theatre club again. It’s extremely demanding with my time and as much as I enjoyed acting, what I went through wasn’t worth my sanity😭 The next time I will be acting, I know it will be film acting instead because i didn’t enjoy theatre acting that much.
VIRGO AURA CONJUNCT ASC: this one was super interesting. People kept telling me you give off the vibe of someone who’s super intelligent, organized, confident and focused on her study. The word “aura” at the moment is very well known to mean “someone who radiates a lot of power/confidence” and people have told me I do radiate that; because of it I’ve gained a lot of suitors and admires (men and women).
PLUTO 5TH HOUSE: This one is gonna be a STRETCH but, I think Pluto here kinda explains me feeling burnt out about theatre 😭 the 5th house does govern this so I think it makes sense. 5th house also governs crushes and casual relationships, and i tried to avoid these as much as possible this year. I will say that I did have at least 1 crush this year which was super exciting knowing that I haven’t had one for 3 years. He acted like a “know it all”, was not a gentleman, did nicotine (one of my biggest turn offs) and when I finally did want to make time for him/ tried to reciprocate his feelings (because he literally loved me from the first time we met💀), he kept giving me mixed signals. I take a mixed signals as a “No” so I immediately stopped giving him any attention after that.
I hope you guys had as much fun reading as I had fun making this😽
Did you have any of those aspects and placement in your 2024/2025 solar return chart??
⚷✨Chiron’s Gift: Your Greatest Wound is Your Greatest Gift ⚷🗝️
First noticed on 1st November 1977; Too large for asteroid, to small to be considered planet.
Chiron – wondered among the wanderers.
In Greek mythology story has been told of a centaur being born to a father Kronos (Saturn) and mother nymph Philyra daughter of Oceanus and Tethys. Kronos deceived Philyra by turning himself into a horse, as she has changed herself into a mare, and as they mated, child was born into this union.
Chiron had body and legs of the horse, and torso and arms of a man, and as such abandoned by mother who was horrified when seeing him for the first time.
Found by shepherd and taken to Apollo the Sun God, who became his foster father who thought him, music, divination prophecy, poetry, healing, wisdom and justice. Apollo was known as paragon of youth, beauty, and offered divine protection against wild animals and diseases, where as his sister Artemis, has imparted the sacred knowledge of healing properties of plants.
Under the wing of Apollo, Chiron has grown into a wise man, prophet, physician, teacher and musician, and became mentor to many Greek heroes, including Achilles, Hercules and Asklepios teaching them, riding, archery, hunting, arts of war, medicine , ethics, religious rituals and beginnings of natural science.
The Medicine is in the Wound ⚷🩹
As per one of the anecdotes, Chiron becomes “Wounded Healer” when Hercules ends up in fight with centaurs, and one of the Hercules arrows that were imersed into poisones blood of monster Hydra, strucks Chiron (the immortal beast, which underworld of our own shadow side becomes if ignored or repressed, whos venom and blood Hercules used to dipp in the arrows).
Threfore, the wound represents the what is being repressed, and suffering caused by the venom of the Hydra emerges within ourselves.
Chiron getting a mortal wound, enabled him to remain alive, although in great suffering as being a demi-god, he was not able to end the suffering but stayed as a remainer for a long life.
Chiron started his journey, of own healing, developing appropriate life circumstancesk and spiritual practices.
Eventually, Chiron was relelased from centuries of pain and suffering while teaching others to his wisdom and healing journey, learning himself that wound can only be healed by it’s cause.
It is often our own suffering is “seen” by someone who can truly put himself or herself in our place, or vice versa, that transfeormation and release occurs.
