YOU simply do not marry someone because you're of the same sign or astrologically "compatible!" It doesn't account for free will, transformation, personal healing, or connection to your soul path.

Obsessing Over Synastry With Famous Strangers Is a One-Way Ticket to Delusionville!

So, you’ve analyzed your birth chart down to the minute, scoured the internet for your favorite celeb’s exact time of birth (because of course you need their accurate Ascendant), and—oh my god—your Venus trines their Mars. This is it. The universe has spoken. You’re cosmically destined to be together… right?

Wrong.

Let’s talk about why astrology—as fun and insightful as it can be—is not a magic love spell to manifest a celebrity (or even a real-life crush) into your arms.

1. The Celebrity Astrology Delusion: "Our Charts Align, So We’re Meant to Be!"

Fans love dissecting celeb birth charts to "prove" compatibility ("Harry Styles’ Moon is in Cancer, just like mine! We’re emotionally in sync!").

Reality check: Celebrities do not know you exist. A planetary aspect in a synastry chart doesn’t override the fact that you’ve never met, they have millions of admirers, and this is parasocial behavior.

Astrology isn’t a cosmic DM slide. Just because you’re both Scorpio Suns doesn’t mean they’ll magically appear in your life.

2. Manifestation Culture Gone Rogue: "If I Believe Hard Enough, They’ll Notice Me!"

The Law of Attraction mixed with astrology has birthed a dangerous fantasy: "If I visualize us together and our charts match, the universe will deliver them to me."

Manifestation works best when focused on *self-growth*, not controlling others. You can’t "manifest" a specific person—especially not someone who doesn’t know you.

Delusion alert: No amount of Mercury retrograde journaling (or being a virgo Jen), will make Pedro Pascal, Chris Evans, Sebastian Stan or any other celeb fall for you because you’re both air signs.

3. Free Will >>>> Birth Charts

Even if you had flawless synastry with your celeb crush, they still have free will. They might marry someone with "chaotic" aspects to their chart—because real love is about choice, not just cosmic math.

Soul connections require mutual energy. A one-sided astrological obsession is just… stalking with extra steps.

4. The Real Purpose of Astrology in Love (Hint: It’s Not Stalking Famous People)

Astrology is best used for:

Self-awareness ("I have a Leo Venus, so I need to watch out for pride in relationships.")

Understanding dynamics ("My partner’s Mars squares my Moon, so we need to work on emotional patience.")

Growth, not destiny – A "challenging" synastry chart can lead to deeper transformation than a "perfect" one.

It’s a mirror, not a crystal ball.

5. The Dark Side: When Astrology Fuels Obsession

Real-life example: Fans who harass celebs because they’re convinced the stars destined them to be together. (Spoiler: That’s not fate—that’s a restraining order waiting to happen.)

Self-sabotage: Ignoring real, attainable love because you’re waiting for a "cosmic sign" that your celeb crush is The One.

Stars Guide, But They Don’t Control!

Yes, astrology is fun. Yes, analyzing celeb charts can be entertaining. But if you’re using it to fuel fantasies about someone you’ll never meet, you’re missing the point—and possibly your actual soulmate.

The best relationship you’ll ever have is with someone who chooses you back—not with a birth chart belonging to a stranger on a movie screen.

So put down the synastry calculator, log off of Tumblr stan wars, and go meet real people. The universe has better plans for you than a parasocial love story.

I really don’t want to come off harsh, but some of the ideas around manifestation—especially when it comes to manifesting a celebrity crush—are getting a bit out of hand. There needs to be a serious reality check here!

First of all, the person you're trying to manifest has no idea who you are. Manifestation isn’t a magic spell to override someone’s free will. It’s about alignment, timing, and mutual resonance. If something—or someone—is meant for you, it will naturally be drawn to you through shared frequency and divine timing. You can do all the techniques, affirmations, and subliminals in the world, but if it’s not meant for you, it simply won't happen.

Especially when it comes to people, manifestation must respect free will. You CANNOT bend someone's will or force them into your life just because you want it badly enough. That includes celebrities. If there's no soul connection or divine alignment, you're essentially chasing a fantasy.

This is why so many of you end up feeling drained, disillusioned, and stuck—because you’re exhausting yourselves trying to claim something that was never yours to begin with. Then you spiral when you see that person or desire align with someone else who was always meant for them/it.

At some point, we have to ask ourselves: are we using manifestation as a tool for empowerment and alignment, or as a form of escapism? Imagine how many amazing, authentic experiences and relationships you're missing out on while being laser-focused on manifesting someone who might not even be part of your path.

It’s time to take a step back and re-evaluate how we're approaching manifestation and what the New Age / Law of Assumption / Attraction space is really promoting. True manifestation is about co-creation with the universe, not control or obsession. Let’s not lose ourselves chasing what isn’t aligned when what is meant for us is waiting to meet us halfway.

Be blessed.🙏

It’s wild how you’ll say one thing in private and then act completely differently in public. It’s one thing to disagree with someone, but it’s something else entirely to vent in DMs or Anons, then turn around and laugh along with the very people you were just criticizing. That’s not neutrality—it’s disingenuous.

You are being cowardly. If you hate someone or their blog so much, why are you checking their posts daily, laughing with them, then running to me (or others) to complain? It’s absurd!

This space has become even more toxic because people won’t stand by their words and instead expect others to speak up while they play both sides. If you’ve got something to say, say it and move on. But don’t bring your one-sided beef or dramatic sob stories to me—I see through it all.

I’m always going to speak honestly and share my thoughts—especially when things cross into delusion or obsession. I have no issue calling it out. But I’m not here to be anyone’s spokesperson or shield, especially not for people whose actions don’t match their words.

And if you feel called out by any of this? Sit with that discomfort. Don’t deflect or expect someone else to defend you. A lot of you don’t want to hear how ridiculous, delusional, or mean-spirited you’ve become. You want to gossip and obsess over a celebrity who doesn’t know you, then perform outrage when someone calls it out? Be serious.

You clutch your pearls in public, but you live in the gossip trenches—obsessing over someone who doesn’t know you exist. You're online nonstop: writing endless fanfics, stalking flights, his movements, comparing carpet swatches and trees, socially media interactions, stats, further obsessing over which of his ears turns you on, and tying your self-worth to his every move. If your lives were actually full and fulfilling, you wouldn’t be doing this 24/7. You’d log on, share a little tea, and log off.

But instead, you’ve made this your identity and trust me, it’s going to cost you. Not Chris Evans. Not any other celeb you’re stanning. You. You’re the one who will wake up one day and realize you wasted your time chasing something hollow.

Last of all, again, some of you really need to BFFR! A lot of you aren’t mad about the PR mess because you care about his career or staying to see how it ends—you’re bitter because it got in the way of your fantasy.

You’re waiting for it to end, not because you want better for him, but so you can get back to pretending he’s “yours,” thirsting and degrading him without guilt, and sliding back into that “future spouse” delusion.

Newsflash: you weren’t his future spouse before this PR, and you won’t be after it ends. Get a grip.

You are missing out on the best parts of yourself—your peace, your time, your potential—by chaining yourself to a fandom, a fantasy, and a fixation over a stupid PR stunt that every celeb must pay their due and do in Hollywood. This goes beyond parasocial. It’s unhealthy and you're doing TOO much. You need to step back and seriously reflect on where your head is at. Life is too short. Here today, gone tomorrow. Focus on you. Get your life together. We’re nearly halfway through the year, and if you keep going down this road, the “tower moment” you’re waiting to see happen to him will be the very one that humbles and crushes you instead. Face yourself.

I’ll be back soon to start answering messages and sharing some of the incredible pieces I received for the fandom features—I'm genuinely excited to highlight them! Thank you to everyone who sent a submission to @fandomfeaturesxsoultruths.

Thank you to all of you who have sent your love and well wishes to me during this time. I appreciate it, more than anything. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!🤍🙏

In the meantime, take care of yourselves. Truly. Start loving and investing in yourself the way you’ve been doing with this man and these other celebs.

You deserve more than obsession—you deserve a full, grounded life.

Stop degrading yourself and losing your self-esteem online over someone who does not know of your existence!

Stan respectfully and responsibly!

I believe in you!

My consistent message has been that people should refrain from obsessively following celebrity lives—whether it's to know about their FS, their relatives etc or any other public figure—and instead focus on their own spiritual journeys, guided by the divine.

Thanks for your message. As requested, I won’t share it. And yes, I agree with you — those comments seem to be more about things he’s looking forward to doing with the real one in the future, rather than referencing the PR disaster. I completely understood what you meant, and I felt the same way, which is why I wasn’t upset or didn't see the need to be up in arms over it during the press junkets.

There’s definitely some truth woven into the “lies,” just not in the way people are making a fuss about. It’s refreshing that you can see the nuance here, something many others seem to miss.

As always, time will tell. Let’s see how it unfolds. 💫

Exactly! and NO reader can definitely pick up her age, her nationality, her job, and what type of woman he wants to date/marry. It's always up to him and it bothers me when not just readers, but also his fans are like "he just dates woman around his age" or "he just dates successful women" etc. like how do you know, did he tell you? also, do they know men too change with time and with them their ideal type, I think they do not even care about a "ideal type" anymore but like Chris said multiple times, he only cares about a kind soul.

Only the divine and he knows all this and haters better not mess up his next real union.

btw, I love your blog, Mod! ♥️

Hi Anon♥️

Thank you so much for your thoughtful message. I’m glad to hear from someone who shares a similar perspective. It’s refreshing to engage in an open discussion rather than reducing everything to “wannabe fs or hater” labels, which often oversimplifies and misses the point entirely. It’s important to remember that people have the right to disagree with readings and express their thoughts freely.

I completely agree with your take on people projecting their own desires into readings. It’s quite telling when certain readers insist on specific traits or astrological signs and placements—it often reflects more about them than any true insight.

As you mentioned, only the Divine and the individuals destined for the Union truly know what’s ahead, and there’s a reason why certain blogs no longer exist. Sharing readings that delve into someone’s personal matters, without their consent is not just disrespectful but violates basic ethical and spiritual principles. You are spying on these people and telling the public their business which isn't anyone's to share, but theirs, especially when it not accurate or factual! If the roles were reversed, those same readers and anons would likely be outraged, which makes their actions even more disingenuous!

I believe that these misguided readers often face consequences because they ignore fundamental principles of traditional tarot and spirituality, like consent, not misusing the cards for your personal agenda or to spy on people and of course treating others as you’d wish to be treated.

Tarot is for personal guidance and self-growth. It’s no surprise that such behaviors eventually lead to the downfall of those blogs, and it seems some people aren’t prepared for the repercussions that might come their way.

In the end, we truly don’t know anything about FS and the Universe’s plan for then or the Divine Timing around this, and it’s best to keep it that way. A lot of them aren’t ready for what’s coming and it’s going to be a total meltdown, which will be their problem!

I sincerely wish them both happiness and all the best in their future union!

Thank you again for reaching out and sharing your views with me, especially given how challenging it can be to voice differing opinions. You’re always welcome here, whether for a personal reading or just to chat.🙏

If Chris was her so called bff, why she so busy doing tarot readings. Call your bff and give us deets. Right from the sources mouth, I guess he “dumped” her. 🤣 ~~ I am just wondering if it’s delusion or is she talking to someone pretending to be him and they are using AI for his voice or whatever to get money out of her. So she thinks she’s really talking to him, his BFF and helping him out moneywise when really she’s just being scammed. That’s why she can’t give you any real information about what he’s doing, where he’s at, anything to do with this fake relationship, etc. I know every time that I comment on anything that Chris post I always get DMs of people trying to pretend to be him or his manager wanting to talk. So there is still a lot of scamming going around, I think maybe perhaps that is what is going on with her.

Hi Anon!

No, this isn’t a scam situation. Delusional? Yes. Scammed? No.

What you’re seeing is exactly what I talked about in this previous post, this is what happens when someone convinces themselves that they’re meant to be with someone just because of a “compatible” sign or a vague tarot pull. She’s not being tricked by a fake Chris Evans account — she’s actively trying to manifest a fantasy into existence and using tarot, astrology, and her blog as tools to anchor that delusion.

The truth is, NO amount of Law of Assumption / Attraction work, subliminals, tarot spreads, or love spells can force someone into your life if they’re not aligned with your path. You can’t bend the universe to your will when it’s already made other arrangements. You’ll just end up wasting time chasing a false outcome while missing the life, love, and lessons that were actually meant for you.

That’s their karma and self-punishment. Intentionally preventing yourself from your best life because you’re too focused on forcing a connection that was never yours to claim.

If Chris was her so called bff, why she so busy doing tarot readings. Call your bff and give us deets. Right from the sources mouth, I guess he “dumped” her. 🤣

Hi Anon, how are you?

There’s nothing petty about calling out this behavior.

If you believe you’re his FS, then own it — out loud.

• Don’t hide behind private posts of wanting to be FS while using spiritual language to manipulate perception.

• Don’t posture as a sacred reader who “just shows the cards,” when you’re pushing delusion as prophecy and pretending to be above the PR mess and just “readind to help others understan.”.

• Don’t play the victim while cloaking obsession in divine insight.

• And definitely don’t gaslight the rest of us into silence, because everyone can see through her and this Virgo BS.