⸺ 𝑾𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖?
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🟄 Why are they not approaching you right now?
Hello pile one! The first thing I see for you is that, this person who you’re thinking of might be a close friend, a friend of a friend, or someone who you have more of a friendly relationship with, and not so romantic. But there is this underlying attraction between you two, that is more obvious than you two let on. This is super cute, this person does not approach you or make any moves towards you because they are scared of ruining the preexisting dynamic, of ruining the friendship, they are also very insecure and believe this is one-sided. Like, sometimes they might believe it’s mutual for some subtle hints you drop, but their head makes them rationalize everything to “Why would this person like me back?” “What could interest them in me so much?” So they see it as impossible, as I said, they are very insecure, especially in love, they don’t come forward because they fear rejection and also, there are more things at play here. Like friendship, or maybe even being work colleagues, they feel like it will make things awkward in the group or in an everyday kind of environment. This person is very sensate, serious, very mature and they will not jeopardize their workplace or friend group for just a silly feeling, but here is the thing; it’s not a silly feeling, I see real, genuine attraction that goes beyond something physical, because that is not the first thing they noticed about you, it was your personality and the way you just are with others, they liked your way of connecting with others, your empathy or even shyness and humble nature at accepting compliments and help. This person does not want to mess things up, be met with rejection, I see it’ll be difficult for them to open up fully to you about their feelings or even make a move because they think it’ll ruin things between you two.
As I said, they are not sure, they feel very anxious about their feelings for you. This person might not approach you with other intentions, not just now. I feel like you have to be very patient with them, like… Very. There is another way this can go, you could approach this person instead, but I advice you to not be too blunt, because they might retreat and not like it, because they suuuper anxious, it’s not that they don’t like you, but they don’t let their emotions control them, you could leave them hints and all, but I do feel like it has to come from them, you’ll have to trust the process and rely that they will get the hint lol. I do see, that this person is going to come forward but not soon, it will probably be in a few months, 2 to 5 months when they finally tell you what’s in their mind about you and this relationship, it’s like they will not be able to ignore it anymore, and as time goes by it will be more evident that they like you, not just for you but for other people lol, like it will become almost unsustainable. But yeah, they might approach, at their own time, on their own terms, so be patient with this person and don’t lose hope!
As I said, I see them coming forward in their own time, three to five months from now, next year probably in February to April. Even the last weeks or days of this year will be important for the connection, where you two will talk or give hints to each other that makes them think that there might be a possibility for you two.
🟄 Why are they not approaching you right now?
Hello pile two! Off the bat I see that this is a veeeeery complicated individual, you might have put yourself in a bad position here with this person, this is someone who, at the time you’ve met, was in a complicated situation, and now it has not gotten better, just a little less tedious. This person is very intense and intentional with their pursuits, I imagine looking at romantic interests as prey, super intense. But they are intentionally not approaching you, something in them, maybe external to them, is making them not want to approach you as they feel like it's not yet the right moment. I’m going to be honest, they see you as a temptation, but i don’t know why, like they want to but not at the same time, and they pull away a lot, for someone who is naturally very forward, they can’t do that with you. Is this person or you in a relationship? In a complicated situation in love? Or maybe the sibling of a friend or the partner of a friend, an age-gap kind of relationship, there are external factors here that are preventing this person from talking to you, but it can also be something very internal, like feeling like they are not in the right headspace to give you what you desire in a relationship right now, they feel very intimidated by your presence and they don’t want to do things half-ass with you, but the self-impose pressure they put in themselves to be better for you is too much. Crazy individual lol, like someone who overthinks everything in love, I don’t even believe you two have kissed so much as kissed. There is a crazy physical chemistry from their side but as I said, there are factors in their life preventing them from approaching you, it can also be distance! Like virtual friends or situationship? That can be another reason, like they try to forget it and move on as they see it as too complicated, but they can’t.
🟄 Will they approach you?
Yeah, they probably will, but in what context will this be? This person will hold back a lot before deciding to approach you, and once they do, it’ll be in a moment of careful consideration, it won’t be in an impulsive decision like they always do in love, they will try to see if this is mutual first, as soon as they feel this feeling is reciprocated, they will act, but only a little bit and very subtly, hoping you catch the signs. I feel like the only way this person is going to come forward is by knowing for sure that you want them back, if you don’t give them any hints of it, they will not act on it at all, and just try to move on, but it’s going to be very difficult. I do sense that the more they like you, the less they will try to hide it, inside them is this primal need to know you and be around you and notice you, there’s a chance that you are not the kind of person to be super direct in love, more shy or more reserved, and this will make this person feel very confused or even frustrated, so if you really like them, you are going to have to show it to them a little bit more. As I said, it’s probable that if you don’t make it a little bit more obvious, this will make this person not want to approach you at all, but that doesn’t mean that their feelings will disappear, i get that the more you ignore them or not acknowledge their emotions, the crazier they get… Joe vibes honestly.
I believe this will happen sooner than you’d expect, but not how you imagine it and not how’d you like. It will probably be in three months, no much more than that, really, like February and March are quite important. They’ll approach you with an offer of maybe something casual, or something of a one time type of thing, not what you will want and will probably not accept it lol, like I said, this person mighhhttt be with someone else or just not ready for a relationship but will still want to be with you in a more casual or physical way, and it’s probable that you say no to this, but if that is something you don't mind, then go for it! It could turn to something else.
🟄 Why are they not approaching you right now?
Hello pile three! Okay, for you I see that your person of interest is someone very shy, they might be extroverted and have a lot of friends and get along well with most people, but when it comes to love they act very childlike, in the sense that they become super shy out of nowhere, they become quiet and a little awkward, something very rare for them lol. They are not approaching you because they are commitmentphobes, honestly. They are not used to being in a relationship or they haven’t been in one in a very long time, this person is very jovial, very easygoing and super fun to hang out with, but when things become more emotional or serious is like they disappear from the face of the earth, and it really isn’t your fault, they are trying to move away from these feelings they have for you but it's difficult. It could be like pile one (you're invited to check that one too) there's a friendship or friendly connection that this person does not want to break, but it's also more like they're afraid to really like you and not be able to give you the reassurance or the commitment you'll want, they know. This person is very anxious and mental, they think things through a million times before doing them and in love, it's worse. They can't decide between their independence and their emotions for you, they need to acknowledge that they like you before they can even try to make a move, right now I see them in a lot of denial because it's not as simple for them, there are more things at play in here like timing and where they are psychologically, I see that they don't know if they should approach you because they don't feel like it's mutual, maybe you're too shy or introverted and this person makes you super nervous, so it's difficult to let go when you're around them, so that makes them believe it's one-sided.
🟄 Will they approach you?
Honestly? I do not think so. I think they need a lot of help for that, they are good ng through a lot of inner turmoil when it comes to you and this connection, they feel like blushing, start stuttering, forget where they are and their mind wonders to wherever you might be or whatever you might be doing, I don't think they yet have the strength of courage to pursue you, to tell you anything related to their own emotions, it's sad, but it's the truth. Here is something else though, as I said you are also a very shy person maybe just in general not as outgoing as them, and if you like a person you'll be even more shy. It'll be good to show this person you are actually interested, that you do like them and that this is not one-sided, you'll have to be the one to approach them, you know? They will need that little push, or a big push lol, but whatever the case might be, it could work! If you're someone who naturally doesn't go after people they like, now it's time to change that, to start being more courageous or flirt back at them, make it known that you like them too, maybe that'll give them the strength they need to show it back and say it.
Since this is a very particular case, and it has to come from you, you'll have to deal with this yourself, you decide when to approach finally and you make the first move. It can be whenever, like at the end of the month moving towards December, the holidays. I sense next year or the holidays are going to be very important, more likely new years day, like you'll gain the courage to talk to them, to pursue them and tell them what has been on your mind and in your heart, it will not go as badly as you think. This might shock this person at first, not only because of your confession but because they wouldn't expect you to be the one to tell them at all, since you're so shy! They will feel dizzy and flatter, I actually think that, if this is someone who talks a lot, you will have them speechless, and they will like this side of you a lot.
🟄 Why are they not approaching you right now?
Hello pile four! Okay, this person is giving me obsessive vibes, it sounds sweet! But I would think twice, lol. I feel like they are the kind of person that can have anyone they please because they truly are good-looking and charismatic and they know this, so why are they not approaching you? I feel like either one) they feel you are too easy to pursue, like it is obvious you like them back, this is someone who likes a challenge, or two) is kinda intimidated by you and they are scared that you will reject them. I know, very contradictory, they have this kind of mentality about you and they get anxious because they can’t figure you out, when they feel like they’ve finally found out you’re into them, you ignore them completely or treat them kindly and this throws them off completely. I don’t even think you are doing it on purpose, you yourself have a difficult time approaching them and treat them super distant because you like them and that makes you nervous, your overthinking about this situation makes them overthink. I believe this is really not intentional at all, but they believe it is, they think you are out to get them and that you want them to beg for your attention and that makes them not want to do it because they are prideful, see? This person is super obsessive, they make conjectures that are not even true oh my god. There's also this potent attraction between you two that is not being addressed, as I said this person knows their worth and knows how to flirt, too, but with you it feels like they can't, like they get too insecure, you are not the kind of person they are used to pursuing or there's something in you very specific that they are intimidated by, I believe there's this dynamic of colleagues or workmates or they feel you are above them, and this pisses them off, you make them feel kinda inferior. Like y ou don't need mindgames to get aa person to like you, or to play cat and mouse, you are just liked romantically, and this kinda annoys them. Is your indecisiveness and even shyness to approach them that makes them believe you are not interested at all, I see they are used to little mind games but you are really not, and it’s not your intention to do this, they feel morally inferior to you in some way, like they like being liked and they act a certain way to be liked, but you don't need that, at all.
🟄 Will they approach you?
Well, yeah. But how? I think this person will try to play it cool A LOT, and you are going to be like "wth?". They will not be direct, which is weird in them since they are the kind of person to go after what they want immediately, but with you they don’t know how to approach this situation, you make them super conflicted in their emotions. This person’s way of coming after you is going to be subtle, not super obvious but hinting at more interest, a less obvious way of flirting which is something they will find difficult to do since you make them super nervous, you really intimidate this person for your stoic nature, like you don’t give hints of anything and it pisses them off. But yes, they will be the ones to initiate something more than friendly conversation, probably in a public place they’ll put you aside to talk and tell you something random but hinting at something else, and you’ll understand it immediately.
It can be sooner than you’d expect, but I also see that you don't expect anything at all from this person, depends on your expectations of this situation. You might probably think that nothing is going to happen anymore, then bam, you see this person in public or they invite you for a coffee, it will be in person, they could not do it through the phone. I’d give it seven months or less, maybe in July to September, or less, like April to March, in those dates where one season changes to the next, the 21st of the month.
