FUTURE SPOUSE PAC
the dynamic between you both
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long time no see guys <333
love reading for 2025 ! 𦪠I pray the reading resonates for anyone who engages.
( unedited )
this is focused solely on your personalities / energy within your relationship, not outside or in general.
PILE ONE
core energy within the dynamic : first love, situationship turned relationship, love coming when you least expect it
Reader within the relationship dynamic
channeled song- ā pretty girls walk this ā
ā foreign, private, designer, stylist ā
ā Iāll throw a tantrum, now a b*tchāll get childish ā
Youāre turning over a new leaf within this relationship, embracing change. You couldāve been single for a while or this is your first relationship, either way youāre inexperienced. Youāll be exploring this relationship and all the aspects of it, embracing the new physical and emotional connection. You move quickly within this dynamic, a very spontaneous energy. You might have a key to their house and pop up randomly on them. You might want to move in quickly.
I see despite you being inexperienced youāre navigating dating them freely and bravely. They make you feel confident enough to date them without being plagued by feelings of paranoia or caution. Youāre going into everything headfirst within this dynamic.
Future spouse within the relationship dyanamic
channeled song - ā poison ā
ā Iām not above love to cash in ā
ā Anyway you want me baby, thatās the way you got me baby, Iāll be yours ā
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This will sound cliche but theyāll be the ideal romantic partner. This is a lover boy / lover girl, a simp if you will. I think prior to your guys' connection they struggled with cold and detached partners, people who never could truly handle their emotional depth and yearning. This will dampen their spirit towards love in general until they meet you. The nonchalant facade will fade, and you renew their passion for love. Your genuineness towards dating and even the naivety you have towards love is shocking to them. Youāre a breath of fresh air because you have nothing but good intentions, no ulterior motives in dating. Their ability to give to you is like a bottomless pit. They feel useless if you donāt ask them for anything. Want your hair or nails done? They got it. Want to go somewhere? Theyāll take you. Donāt have something you need? Theyāll handle it. This is definitely Mr/Mrs. Make it Happen. Gift giving is their ultimate love language to you. Itās funny because theyāll surprise you with something you didnāt even know you wanted. This person will be in a constant internal battle on whether or not theyāre doing too much. Some of them want to show you the true depths of their love and just how deeply they can love you but another part of them doesnāt want to scare you off with their intensity. Their solution to this internal struggle would be ā gift giving ā, a token of their affection for you that isnāt necessarily showing it in verbal / emotional way and making them feel vulnerable.
Another thing I channeled is the way they gaze at you. Even their stare has another level of intensity and yearning.
PILE TWO
core energies: expansion, extending the lineage, exploration
Reader within the relationship dynamic
( tw : mention of childhood trauma & abuse )
( promise itās not a sad read just a small section addressed it )
channeled song- ā I wanna be your girlfriend ā
ā I donāt wanna be your friend, I wanna kiss your lips ā
ā I wanna kiss you until I lose my breathā
Pile two youāre never paying for anything in this relationship. Itās giving, show up and look cute and youāve fulfilled your payment. You donāt pay attention to anything when youāre with this person in public, youāre in your own little world, content and protected. I see you in a very youthful and reckless energy within the dynamic. You may be in college/school right now and living with either roommates or parents during the initial stages of this relationship. This relationship will address and heal a lot of childhood trauma. The main thing I channeled was parental wounds. Perhaps one or both of your parents may have been emotionally absent or abusive, or something happened with a trusted guardian or teacher that formed some sort of trauma at a young age. The one thing Iām getting from this is youāve carried a lot of burdens that forced you to think / act a lot older than you were. You may have developed a hyper independence from this. This person is going to help you release control to someone else and allow them the opportunity to help you take care of yourself.
One thing about you in this dynamic Iām fond of is your standards. You know what you want, how you wish to be treated and you wonāt hesitate to leave. You have very strong boundaries and this comes from a strong self worth. You will advocate for yourself within this relationship, you will voice any opinions you have regardless if theyāre positive or negative. If your needs arenāt being met you have no problem communicating it. Youāre not aiming to be a people pleaser within this relationship but instead your most authentic self.
Future spouse within the relationship dynamic
channeled song - ā Alone tonight ā
ā I donāt wanna be alone tonight, can you keep me company? ā
ā My names known worldwide, still need someone in my life ā
Theyāre older than you or they have more life experience or knowledge than you. They will play many roles within your relationship including your partner, protector and teacher. This is a very intellectually charged person. Theyāre already established within their long term career or pursuing it. Theyāre the more disciplined and structured individuals in the relationship. When it comes to making plans, scheduling trips or dates theyāll handle it. Look up airport couple on TikTok and youāll get a glance into your relationship, youāll turn off your brain in public and theyāll be the vigilant and focused ones. Another scenario Iām channeling for you is them taking you camping. I can imagine them guiding you to build the tent, teaching you how to start and maintain a fire, etc..
They will be the clean freak within the relationship. If youāre more disheveled or messy theyāll be stern about it lol. They will move quickly within the relationship. To you, they plan spontaneous dates but for them, it was already calculated and thought of days ahead of them communicating it. This person has a strong paternal/maternal instinct and it reflects itself in the relationship. They know exactly how to read you emotionally, soothe you, or show up for you way you need. It also shows in their protectiveness. They want to have your location and know your work schedule. This person's protectiveness to you is also because you represent a legacy to them, a new lineage, the chance to build their own family.
The overall energy of this dynamic that Iām channeling is
ā I can do it myself ā
ā I know; but I want to do it for you ā
PILE THREE
core energies: best-friends, lots of banter and bickering, US VS THE WORLD
Reader within the future relationship dynamic
( yall, I channeled these songs AFTER I did the reading and wrote everything down. CHANNELING THIS SONG WAS SO FUNNYYY TO ME š¤š¤ the āplayfighting ā I mentioned several times below was definitely confirmed lmaooo in no way am I condoning violence but im giggling )
channeled song - ā bust your kneecaps ā
ā honey believe me, I have your heart on a platterā
ā theyāll bust your kneecaps, probably some other stuff too ā
You try to overpower them. Youāre constantly challenging them mentally or physically. You enjoy invoking a reaction from them, getting them super hype during debates or red in the face from play fighting. Prior to the relationship you didnāt like this person, they may have come across as egotistical or arrogant and it irritated you. The kind of person everyone likes and youāre just like ā yeeah okay whatever ā. Somehow you two enter a partnership but I think you still have the energy of wanting to take them down a peg, not in a toxic way, moreso the way bestfriends bicker and check each other. That aside, you're very grounded within the relationship. You seem very down to earth, perhaps a humanist or an animal lover. You might have a cat lol. Your energy alone within the dynamic is a constant source of growth for you both. You balance out the love and tension well, dishing it out at the perfect moments. You get cuteness aggression with this person a lot, I think itās the source for a lot of the banter between you both.
Future spouse within the relationship dynamic
channeled song - ā super shy ā
ā I wanna go out with you, where you wanna go? ā
ā You donāt even know my name do you? ā
They are similar to you, but can be even more immature. They are childish and allow themselves to be free and youthful around you. Within the relationship they might be the reckless one, never scared to cause commotion or be a daredevil. They may have a lot of scars or get hurt easily from this lol. Theyāre super active, whether in sports or working out but theyāll want to include you in it. You might go on hikes or walks or nature trails with this person, be careful though because theyāll be the type to get you lost lol. They get off on the tension / debating within your relationship. Physical touch is their love language with you, and play fighting with them will be like the ultimate foreplay. They have a big family, friend group, or a lot of external energy around them. I say this because people are naturally drawn and charmed easily by your significant other. I think prior to the relationship youāll be the one to see past all sweet and nice exterior and into their underlying mischievous side. They may seem like an angel in front of others but you can sense the deception within it, and in turn you donāt treat them like everyone else. This will catch their interest first about you, your seemingly detachment or dislike of them. They will pursue you and seek you out first because of your obvious dislike or disinterest in them and then realize how well you connect mentally.
Communication will flow naturally and honestly I'm getting a sort of telepathic bond between you both. Not literally, moreso you can read each otherās expressions and know what the other is thinking. They can look into your eyes and have an entire conversation with you. Theyāll definitely encourage this ātelepathic bondā, wanting you both to be in a bubble apart from everyone else.
Theyāll honestly recognize you as themselves in another body, you two may think so similarly that you both see each other as extensions of the other if that makes sense. An example Iām channeling is
ā youāre the boy version of meā
ā no, youāre the girl version of meā
PILE FOUR
core energy: breaking barriers and social norms, establishing wealth, breaking generational curses
Reader within the relationship dynamic
channeled song- ā take me to church ā
ā knows everybodyās disapproval, I shouldāve worshipped her sooner ā
ā my lovers got humor, sheās the giggle of the funeralā
Youāre in a very successful energy within this relationship. Career wise you are independent and very productive, I channeled booked and busy to be exact. You have very ambitious energy within the relationship towards finances and establishing wealth, part of this is through a stable and healthy partnership. In the past youāve lowered yourself to meet others levels, within this relationship you stand securely within your power. You wish to combine finances and wealth and build a sustainable legacy for your future generations to come. That aside, you seem to be the more extroverted one in this Dynamic. Even if youāre introverted, people are very fond of you. This will irritate your future spouse because they feel like people are constantly ā orbitingā around you. You may have a lot of friends or social connections, or just a well known person. You may have a large social media following. People might even think youāre out of your future spouse's league in terms of appearances or finances but you understand that shallow and superficial standards wonāt secure a healthy and flourishing life. Iām not getting your future spouse is unattractive, but something about them compared to you is different. They could be nerdier than you, alternative, super spiritual, etc, goth. You may have to defend this person and explain to others youāre not dating this individual for social norms, instead youāre securing a healthy partnership. You will recognize just how well you collaborate and vibe together on an emotional, spiritual and intellectual level. Youāre not dating them for them to be your trophy wife/husband, but moreso a soulmate connection that exceeds society's standards. This may also be a same sex connection youāre in.
Future spouse within the relationship dynamic
channeled song - ā money trees ā
ā love one of you bucket headed h*es? no way ā
ā money trees is the perfect place for shade ā
Theyāre very fulfilled within your relationship. They daydream about starting a family with you. They feel like no one knows you better than them, and itās something that makes them feel special especially compared to other people around you. In the beginning stages of your relationship Iām seeing your future spouse in a competitive energy with your friends or maybe even family about who is closer to you. This may cause strife within your dynamic, jealous of the attention you give to others and scared of the attention you receive, sometimes making them question whether or not theyāre good enough for you. You will realize this very early on in the relationship, recognizing that they put you on a pedestal. Unlike with other people, it may particularly bother you when your future spouse does, you donāt want them to romanticize you like others. You will share with them all the repulsive sides, flaws and shortcomings you have and you will be reborn again in their eyes. This will only make this person love you that much more. ā seeing what no one else gets to see ā is what Iām channeling from them. Your vulnerability will soothe any feelings of abandonment. They will know how special they are to you after youāve let them see past your surface level and into the depths of who you truly are. This will make them arrogant within your dynamic about their spot in your life, no longer insecure. A random example I channeled is someone offering you a certain snack / food and your future spouse answering for you and telling them ā no, theyāre allergic to so and soā. Theyāre like a walking encyclopedia of you . They know everyoneās connection with you doesnāt nearly go as deep as theirs. Theyāre a bit obsessive over you, strong Scorpio energy here. You will have a very watchful and observant partner, even when you think theyāre not watching, trust me they are. I think prior to this relationship they knew you and liked you, but you didnāt know this. They give me the energy of someone getting into a relationship with their crush. They have tunnel vision when it comes to you, I donāt think anyone could ever tempt your future spouse.
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