Been thinking about that post about how boymoding is ultimately a damaging concept for transfems as it puts you into a binary of either performing (usually hyper) femininity in order to have your identity respected or you are a male again. I've been toying with new terms to refer to my days where I wear baggy form disguising clothes and don't put effort in to pass (for me this means due to body type and lack of voice training I look like a cis guy) and I think I like the term masc masking. I think it needs some work still, if y'all got thoughts please share em

Been boy moding for past few days, god I hate this sm

i know being trans isnt a choice, because trust me im not wearing cargo shorts thinking they look cool.

So um like lmao for the past few days I’ve been boy moding a lot, cos I have to be around a buncha pple I’m not out to and don’t rly support male feminity and stuff. So um Yh that’s absolutely great 🥲honestly I hate it tho, lmao can’t wait to kinda js leave my old life behind when I leave school