#boundary setting

I have also been mistaken for this person, so I would like to clarify: no I am not them. All of my accounts will be under the name Forest or Forest_Valeska.

Please do not send this person hate. I do not condone any sort of harassment or anything of the sort.

They have harassed me in the past, although it was not through direct one-on-one interactions. They have made negative posts about me/vauge posting me multiple times. Because of my past experiences with them, I am not comfortable seeing their content or being associated with them. I have only spoken to this person once and blocked them very shortly after interacting.

किसने कहा कि उम्र बढ़ना डरावना है? यह आपको उन चीजों को अस्वीकार करने के लिए स्वतंत्र करता है जिनका आप आनंद नहीं लेते हैं और अपनी शर्तों पर जीते हैं (टैग्सटूट्रांसलेट) लोगों को खुश करने वाला कैसे बनें (टी) उम्र बढ़ने के लाभ (टी) सीमाएँ कैसे निर्धारित करें (टी) ना कहने के विनम्र तरीके (टी) निमंत्रण को कैसे अस्वीकार करें (टी) सीमा निर्धारण

I (28F) have been friends with Sarah (30F) for over a decade. We've always had each other's backs through thick and thin.

Recently, Sarah reached out, saying her laptop broke and she needed one urgently for her online job. Now, I have an old laptop that still works fine but it's pretty slow, and I've been planning to donate it to a local charity.

When I told Sarah this, she got upset and told me she really needed a laptop and couldn't afford a new one at the moment. I felt torn - on one hand, I want to support my friend, but on the other hand, I had already made plans for the laptop.

I hesitated to lend it to her because I was worried about not getting it back or it being damaged. So, I apologized to Sarah and explained my concerns.